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Aug 28, 2016 8:09 PM CSTDoes being bisexual justify cheating?

Does being bisexual justify cheating?(Vote Below)

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I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?dunno
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Aug 28, 2016 8:29 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
philmaster: I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?



Just because she was bisexual doesn't mean she is a cheater doh

No more than being heterosexual means you are a cheater.

Bisexual does not mean having more than one physical relationship at the same time. It means she is open to having a relationship with either a man or a woman.

She chose you, and you blew it.
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Aug 28, 2016 8:40 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
mollybaby: Just because she was bisexual doesn't mean she is a cheater

No more than being heterosexual means you are a cheater.

Bisexual does not mean having more than one physical relationship at the same time. It means she is open to having a relationship with either a man or a woman.

She chose you, and you blew it.


Actually, she already had woman. I'm not the kind of guy that likes to share.
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Aug 28, 2016 8:48 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
philmaster: Actually, she already had woman. I'm not the kind of guy that likes to share.


She wasn't necessarily a cheat still.

It's only cheating if the partner(s) don't know.
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Aug 29, 2016 8:21 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
Jimmy5IA
Jimmy5IAJimmy5IAWarrington, Cheshire, England UK74 Threads 2 Polls 1,590 Posts
philmaster: I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?

You foolish god follower
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Aug 29, 2016 8:59 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
123whisper
123whisper123whisperMelbourne, Victoria Australia23 Threads 2 Polls 3,955 Posts
philmaster: I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?
I think you are right to follow your own beliefs in choice you made in life...as no one else have to live with it but only you.wine
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Aug 29, 2016 9:06 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
CapNemo
CapNemoCapNemoLongview, Texas USA6 Threads 904 Posts
Nothing justifies cheating. Period.
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Aug 29, 2016 9:47 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
Was she a swinger?
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Aug 29, 2016 2:22 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
philmaster: I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?
Your question is more complex than you might think. First, "cheating" (as far as intimacy is concerned) means having a s*xual relationship BEHIND YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER'S BACK (concealing it). If both parties are aware and/or (must be both points here) in agreement that the other relationship is acceptable and perfectly fine, then it is NOT cheating (because it is not concealed). HOWEVER, it is still ill-advised, by me, anyway.


*cheating by definition means hiding the fact, in this instance.
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Aug 29, 2016 2:32 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
considering you broke up:
It doesn't matter anymore
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Aug 29, 2016 5:46 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
KarloradoFL: Was she a swinger?
I don't even know, as soon as I found out she was bi, I was done.
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Aug 29, 2016 6:56 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
metamorphic
metamorphicmetamorphicKilkenny, Ireland1 Threads 140 Posts
So what was your problem?

philmaster: Actually, she already had woman. I'm not the kind of guy that likes to share.


She already was in a relationship, that was your problem and her being bisexual is not worth mentioning, has eff all to do with it but it draws attention to your opening post?
Well done.

philmaster: I don't even know, as soon as I found out she was bi, I was done.


Here the problem seems to be her being bisexual and not that she already might or might not being in a relationship.
So what was it?
Or did you figure out both things at the same time?
And which of those was then the problem.
Is it possible you don't understand the concept of someone being bisexual?
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Aug 29, 2016 7:04 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
Yeah you made the right choice. Bi people will have a go at anything so there's no limit. It might be a zebra one day or a gazelle, who knows.
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Aug 29, 2016 7:28 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
metamorphic: So what was your problem?
She already was in a relationship, that was your problem and her being bisexual is not worth mentioning, has eff all to do with it but it draws attention to your opening post?
Well done.



Here the problem seems to be her being bisexual and not that she already might or might not being in a relationship.
So what was it?
Or did you figure out both things at the same time?
And which of those was then the problem.
Is it possible you don't understand the concept of someone being bisexual?
I just think that the concept of bisexuality creates a double standard in a relationship. I've heard some bisexual women say that it's just something on the side. Having two different relationships I mean. On the other hand, how many women would stay in a relationship with a straight guy who had something on the side? None as far as I know. Women look for faithfulness right? Anything less would be a deal breaker. dunno
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Aug 29, 2016 7:47 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 10,632 Posts
polyamory
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Aug 30, 2016 9:24 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
philmaster: I don't even know, as soon as I found out she was bi, I was done.

Then you made the right decision.
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Aug 30, 2016 10:39 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA57 Threads 3,967 Posts
philmaster: Actually, she already had woman. I'm not the kind of guy that likes to share.


THIS needed to be clarified at the beginning of your poll. It made the whole question at the beginning wrong. Maybe think before you make a poll with all the facts. It was lame at best. thumbs down
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Aug 30, 2016 10:42 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA57 Threads 3,967 Posts
pat8lanips: Yeah you made the right choice. Bi people will have a go at anything so there's no limit. It might be a zebra one day or a gazelle, who knows.


Wow you have no idea on the facts of life. sigh
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Aug 30, 2016 10:46 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
crazyblondeone
crazyblondeonecrazyblondeoneNo Scammers, California USA57 Threads 3,967 Posts
philmaster: Actually, she already had woman. I'm not the kind of guy that likes to share.


So if she already had someone, then she was cheating with you. shock
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Aug 30, 2016 11:21 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
RobertTraveller
RobertTravellerRobertTravellerAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands2 Posts
mollybaby: She wasn't necessarily a cheat still.

It's only cheating if the partner(s) don't know.


that's a hypocritical definition of cheating
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Aug 30, 2016 11:33 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
RobertTraveller
RobertTravellerRobertTravellerAmsterdam, North Holland Netherlands2 Posts
my friend, what you do not understand is that a bisexual person can be perfectly happy with ONE person and does not need to have a constant s*xual input from both a man and a woman. Geez, think what an impossible life every bisexual person would have! And tell you what: if a Bi person falls in love, he or she really falls in love.
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Aug 30, 2016 1:17 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
so you were intimidated
and considering you still don't understand her, i suppose the communication and understanding in the relationship was bad.

As i said, it is over. forget about it
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Aug 30, 2016 4:16 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
jt972
jt972jt972dublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 2,608 Posts
pat8lanips: Yeah you made the right choice. Bi people will have a go at anything so there's no limit. It might be a zebra one day or a gazelle, who knows.


Maybe the vast majority wouldn't tackle animals
But I often wonder is everything else fair game
With them, I'd say if it was legal it would be
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Aug 30, 2016 7:59 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
Chambella
ChambellaChambellaCanberra (ACT) & Batemans Bay, New South Wales Australia1 Threads 713 Posts
philmaster: I'm wondering because I once had a chance at a relationship with a women who told me she was bisexual. To me, it's cheating if you have more than one physical relationship, so I let her go. Was I right?


I agree it IS cheating.
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Aug 31, 2016 2:16 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
RobertTraveller: my friend, what you do not understand is that a bisexual person can be perfectly happy with ONE person and does not need to have a constant s*xual input from both a man and a woman. Geez, think what an impossible life every bisexual person would have! And tell you what: if a Bi person falls in love, he or she really falls in love.
This girl was expecting to have both at the same time.
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Aug 31, 2016 3:47 AM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
retiredsargt
retiredsargtretiredsargtLexington, South Carolina USA1 Posts
there is no excuse for cheating. either you want to be with this one person or you don't. simple stuff. you cheat once you'll cheat again, if it was your girlfriend, sorry you lose. try again later. there are a lot of fish ( females) in the sea. and there is one who can be trusted.
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Aug 31, 2016 9:25 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
RobertTraveller: my friend, what you do not understand is that a bisexual person can be perfectly happy with ONE person and does not need to have a constant s*xual input from both a man and a woman. Geez, think what an impossible life every bisexual person would have! And tell you what: if a Bi person falls in love, he or she really falls in love.


Actually, I find a bi person is not strong and mature enough to deal with one particular sex..because, as you know, they swing both ways. I guess it is better if two bi's mate, then at least they can tolerate each other.

As I am heterosexual, only a true heterosexual can understand and put up with me.crying
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Aug 31, 2016 9:36 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
lemonsieur
lemonsieurlemonsieursamos, North Aegean Greece3 Threads 1 Polls 133 Posts
there are differences in a bisexual female in her twenties and another one in their sixties.fact is when they explore you get victimized a bit, but at the same time that's what happens to them when you explore, so no biggie.
grow up.
either you understand how pathetic the whole game is, or you lose again and again.
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Sep 1, 2016 1:10 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
by the way i never heard many penii discriminating.
men generally sleep with anything they can.

but apparently cheating is no problem, except when it is your woman?
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Sep 1, 2016 3:50 PM CST Does being bisexual justify cheating?
2828sun
2828sun2828sunfougeres, Pays de la Loire France3 Threads 25 Posts
cool well build a raft set sail and hope your find your man fridaydoh crying sorry girl fridaycomfort life,s to short her lossfrustrated
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