if you see a very good-looking mans photo, would you tell him your thoughts
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12 Votes
.or would you keep going back to his profile just to keep looking
8%
2 Votes
or would you just move along swiftly, but still have the urge to tell him
17%
4 Votes
or would you write a blog describing him, with the hope he catches on , which I doubt unless he is full of himself
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0 Votes
rather do nothing incase he thinks you have another agenda, and is trying to hit on him, and end up looking like a stalker
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6 Votes
24 Total Votes
The reason I pose this question, is because I believe in giving someone a compliment, where one is due. If this person is not in my suitable age range, I will tell them, and also that I hope I was not coming across as a flirt, but I have all my life , been an open book and told someone , what my thoughts were. It will not be a case of sending negative or hurtful messages, but , to boost that persons self image. I have met many persons, male and female, that were absolutely gorgeous, yet they had a very low self-confidence and esteem of themselves. This is in no way a case of looking for someone to hookup with me, for telling them , they are good-looking, but a habit of mine , which is innocent and honest. Now I will be questioned as to how I would react to the opposite, and my answer very truthfully, will have to be , if you want me to be honest, then you must be able to handle constructive criticism, and again I will be honest, as I know I have received many , constructive criticism, and that made me work on the situation, or should I say , there are certainly a lot of things one can not paint, glue or improve on in looks, but as a caring and humble person your flaws can be overlooked. Am I wrong in going about this the incorrect way, or is there an improved method.
Fieryred70: The reason I pose this question, is because I believe in giving someone a compliment, where one is due. If this person is not in my suitable age range, I will tell them, and also that I hope I was not coming across as a flirt, but I have all my life , been an open book and told someone , what my thoughts were. It will not be a case of sending negative or hurtful messages, but , to boost that persons self image. I have met many persons, male and female, that were absolutely gorgeous, yet they had a very low self-confidence and esteem of themselves. This is in no way a case of looking for someone to hookup with me, for telling them , they are good-looking, but a habit of mine , which is innocent and honest. Now I will be questioned as to how I would react to the opposite, and my answer very truthfully, will have to be , if you want me to be honest, then you must be able to handle constructive criticism, and again I will be honest, as I know I have received many , constructive criticism, and that made me work on the situation, or should I say , there are certainly a lot of things one can not paint, glue or improve on in looks, but as a caring and humble person your flaws can be overlooked. Am I wrong in going about this the incorrect way, or is there an improved method.
I've paid some men on CS a compliment and I've had them act in a way back to me in a comment that I'm somehow a total nutcase or something.
Regardless of age there are some very handsome men on here.[/quote
Hi C.C. That is the reason I was questioning this particular topic. There was nothing nutty about you, as you were just being honest. Now on the other hand I would not Say that to a lady, least I get referred to as trying to suck up. I would also not do so on a blog, as that would also get negative remarks, That's just my way of thinking . But thanks for the response
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when seeing a good-looking pic of a man , would you let him know what your thoughts are(Vote Below)
If this person is not in my suitable age range, I will tell them, and also that I hope I was not coming across as a flirt, but I have all my life , been an open book and told someone , what my thoughts were. It will not be a case of sending negative or hurtful messages, but , to boost that persons self image. I have met many persons, male and female, that were absolutely gorgeous, yet they had a very low self-confidence and esteem of themselves. This is in no way a case of looking for someone to hookup with me, for telling them , they are good-looking, but a habit of mine , which is innocent and honest. Now I will be questioned as to how I would react to the opposite, and my answer very truthfully, will have to be , if you want me to be honest, then you must be able to handle constructive criticism, and again I will be honest, as I know I have received many , constructive criticism, and that made me work on the situation, or should I say , there are certainly a lot of things one can not paint, glue or improve on in looks, but as a caring and humble person your flaws can be overlooked. Am I wrong in going about this the incorrect way, or is there an improved method.