What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date? ( Archived) (110)

Feb 5, 2017 6:37 AM CSTWhat topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England, UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts

What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?(Vote Below)

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Politics
24
12%
Ex partners
80
40%
Children
11
6%
Themselves
22
11%
Sex
40
20%
Sports
16
8%
Work
6
3%
Total Votes
199
Or add your own.wave
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Feb 5, 2017 6:39 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
Ex-s, financial problems, health issues...and so on...
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Feb 5, 2017 6:42 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Its been a long time since I had a first date.
Nothing really would put me off.

Unless he was a creepy kind of guy.
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Feb 5, 2017 6:42 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
KremaP: Ex-s, financial problems, health issues...and so on...




Yeah, i think ex-s should have been discussed before meeting,

as in,, his/her status at the time,
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Feb 5, 2017 6:44 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
KremaP: Ex-s, financial problems, health issues...and so on...


"If I said you had a beautiful body, would you let me have a go on your mobility scooter", kind of thing?dunno laugh wave
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Feb 5, 2017 6:46 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
annaroach: Yeah, i think ex-s should have been discussed before meeting,

as in,, his/her status at the time,






Exactly... thumbs up
Complaining about ex-s is terrifying on a first date...
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Feb 5, 2017 6:48 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: Or add your own.




Politics, just a little is ok, but not a whole discussion.

Same with religion!

Lots of fun and laughter , and a bit of serious thrown in , is the order of the date.heart beating
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Feb 5, 2017 6:48 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
One2note: "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you let me have a go on your mobility scooter", kind of thing?






rolling on the floor laughing
Depends how much am fascinated by your crutches...grin
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Feb 5, 2017 6:48 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
Work
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Feb 5, 2017 6:50 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: "If I said you had a beautiful body, would you let me have a go on your mobility scooter", kind of thing?



There is the sense of humour thumbs up applause banana
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Feb 5, 2017 6:51 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
KremaP: Depends how much am fascinated by your crutches...




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Feb 5, 2017 6:51 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
I haven't had a date for nearly five years...I hope I haven't become too soft on irritating subjects
uh oh
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Feb 5, 2017 6:55 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
KremaP: I haven't had a date for nearly five years...I hope I haven't become too soft on irritating subjects



Is that by choice, ?
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Feb 5, 2017 6:56 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
lightbulb


typing


rose


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Feb 5, 2017 6:58 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
annaroach: Is that by choice, ?





Yes Anna,
one has to do what one has to do...
I have a young child, no messing with his life, that's all...
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Feb 5, 2017 7:01 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
KremaP: Yes Anna,
one has to do what one has to do...
I have a young child, no messing with his life, that's all...




Oh right, they always come first,, you are young (looking)

Best of luck in your future.thumbs up
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Feb 5, 2017 7:03 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
annaroach: Oh right, they always come first,, you are young (looking)

Best of luck in your future.





blushing
Thanks lovely lady... wine
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Feb 5, 2017 7:06 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
KremaP: Depends how much am fascinated by your crutches...


You can fiddle them to the size that suits your criteria.wink laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:10 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: Hope he didn't discuss this on his date.
was it on a date with him that he told you that?


No, I was invited to a dinner party & he cooked the most amazing "pigs trotters"confused laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:12 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
sophiasummer: Work


Work must come into the conversation somewhere along the line, unless of course, he's unemployed or a pensioner.dunno laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:13 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
One2note: You can fiddle them to the size that suits your criteria.



If that's what you were trying to impress me with...then the wheels of my scooter must be replaces with small ear rings... wink


Oh, that sounded stupid... uh oh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:17 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
KremaP: If that's what you were trying to impress me with...then the wheels of my scooter must be replaces with small ear rings...


Oh, that sounded stupid...


Yeh, not your greatest moment.comfort laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:18 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
Any subject that goes on ad nauseum is a no no.

I don't mind people mentioning their ex, just not slating them. I don't mind them mentioning any subject as long as it is done in as part of the general conversation, and is not a long-winded lecture.
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Feb 5, 2017 7:19 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
KremaP
KremaPKremaPAt home, Shumen Bulgaria3,793 Posts
One2note: Yeh, not your greatest moment.





Need a holiday... mumbling
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Feb 5, 2017 7:20 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: No, I was invited to a dinner party & he cooked the most amazing "pigs trotters"





Yuk,,barf
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Feb 5, 2017 7:21 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
I like Molly's long winded lectures.
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Feb 5, 2017 7:24 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
pat8lanips: I like Molly's long winded lectures.


If you have something long to offer me in return , then we're a match made in heavenheart wings
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Feb 5, 2017 7:25 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
Yeah, a piece of string. I'm not sure how long it is though, nobody seems to be able to tell me.
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Feb 5, 2017 7:26 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: Any subject that goes on ad nauseum is a no no.

I don't mind people mentioning their ex, just not slating them. I don't mind them mentioning any subject as long as it is done in as part of the general conversation, and is not a long-winded lecture.


I have no general "plan of action" as far as strategy is concerned .
Basically , I just "wing it" & hope the conversation just keeps flowing.
conversing laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:28 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: Yuk,,


I've eaten worse.help laugh
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Feb 5, 2017 7:30 AM CST What topic of conversation do you find most off-putting on a first date?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: I've eaten worse.




To be honest, i've never eaten them, it's just the very thought of it ,
that puts me off wine
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Created: Feb 2017
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