Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion.... ( Archived) (7)

Feb 14, 2017 9:50 AM CSTDoes going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....

Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....(Vote Below)

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yes
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no
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like steel being made stronger from being put under tremendous heat....tempered...




35wine
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Feb 14, 2017 9:54 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia61 Threads 11 Polls 6,460 Posts
That depends on the nature of the hardship. If its terminal cancer then no- it does not make you stronger. If its feeling a bit sore after a weightlifting session- maybe it will.
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Feb 14, 2017 10:26 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
pat8lanips: That depends on the nature of the hardship. If its terminal cancer then no- it does not make you stronger. If its feeling a bit sore after a weightlifting session- maybe it will.




I like to think I am like Jason and argnonats I found the golden fleece in 2010, in greek mathology
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Feb 14, 2017 3:52 PM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
pedro27: like steel being made stronger from being put under tremendous heat....tempered...




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...no mate.......simple.....as that............
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Feb 16, 2017 5:46 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
truheart1941: ...no mate.......simple.....as that............




all my hardships has made me ''ME''
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Feb 16, 2017 5:51 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
pedro27: all my hardships has made me ''ME''




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Feb 17, 2017 3:00 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand121 Threads 8 Polls 4,301 Posts
pedro27: like steel being made stronger from being put under tremendous heat....tempered...

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The general principle seems to be

" What doesn't KILL you makes you stronger "

However 'general principles always seem to have need of a foot note or three so I'd add

" IF you LEARN from your hardships AND don't keep on REPEATING the same causal errors THEN a person probab;ly becomes both stronger AND wiser!

And, generalities always have exceptions ... some people seem unable to learn from their experiences !

cheers
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Feb 17, 2017 4:39 AM CST Does going through hardships in life make you tougher and stronger ? ..... in your opinion....
pedro27: like steel being made stronger from being put under tremendous heat....tempered...




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That is exactly how it works, but yes as life tempers u do get more resilient after a while, but the shock stays enormous, and it takes a while to first overcome that, before u can realy think over the situation, and handle the loose threads left after.
I react immediately, but the shock only hits after.
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