Lonely1: How many times should you break up with your significant other before calling it splittsville? Cannot see the light? Something rotten in Denmark?
Lonely1: How many times should you break up with your significant other before calling it splittsville? Cannot see the light? Something rotten in Denmark?
Is splittsville in Denmark? What´s Denmark got to do with the price of fish anyway?
Lonely1: Yes, I did get the motorcycle..after the fourth breakup. Had to go back a few times to finally convince her that she did not like the motorcycle that much.
Lonely1: How many times should you break up with your significant other before calling it splittsville? Cannot see the light? Something rotten in Denmark?
You will know when it is really over. It is different from from the other times.
i'm big on think back to what attracted you to the person, remember when you were the object of attention for each other, find that mindset again, and work through what you need to work through with the person. there is a reason you came together. you are a gift to each other.
otherwise, you just take 'it' into the next relationship.
you'll know when you're done. you won't have the question.
find the love, and either stay together or separate with love.
i'm big on think back to what attracted you to the person, remember when you were the object of attention for each other, find that mindset again, and work through what you need to work through with the person. there is a reason you came together. you are a gift to each other.
otherwise, you just take 'it' into the next relationship.
you'll know when you're done. you won't have the question.
find the love, and either stay together or separate with love.
Chambella: MY motto is "Three strikes and you are out"
Not me. I run a strict household.
If he's talking out of turn? That's a paddlin'. Is he lookin' out the window? That's a paddlin'. Staring at my boots? That's a paddlin'. Is he refusing to do the dishes? Oh, you better believe that's a paddlin'.
The problem is all inside your head, she said to me The answer's easy if you take it logically I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
She said it's really not my habit to intrude For the more I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued So I repeat myself, at the risk of being crude There must be fifty ways to leave your lover,
Just slip out the back, Jack, make a new plan, Stan Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus, don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee, and get yourself free Just slip out the back, Jack, make a new plan, Stan Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus, don't need to discuss much Just…set yourself free
If he's talking out of turn? That's a paddlin'. Is he lookin' out the window? That's a paddlin'. Staring at my boots? That's a paddlin'. Is he refusing to do the dishes? Oh, you better believe that's a paddlin'.
Bl**dy hell ... and your facebook profile says you;re a "submissive woman looking for a dominant man !"
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Lonely1: How many times should you break up with your significant other before calling it splittsville? Cannot see the light? Something rotten in Denmark?
Lonely1: How many times should you break up with your significant other before calling it splittsville? Cannot see the light? Something rotten in Denmark?
All depends on what was happening, how long it had been happening, and whether or not there was goodwill on the part of both parties towards an authentic resolution and future progress.
I guess I've seen all the variations!
From bouncing to and fro where leaving and making up has been anything from 12 hours to a week but happened many times over ( and they're still at the same game a decade later )
And a very close friend who decided that after years of 'trying to make things right with her' marriage counselling would be a good idea.
One session together to explain 'how it works'
One session each separately
Session four each was asked the Big Q by counsellor "Are you here to end it or mend it?"
He said MEND
She said END
Like he said over a beer ... there's absolutely no point after that reply.
If he's talking out of turn? That's a paddlin'. Is he lookin' out the window? That's a paddlin'. Staring at my boots? That's a paddlin'. Is he refusing to do the dishes? Oh, you better believe that's a paddlin'.
The problem is all inside your head, she said to me The answer's easy if you take it logically I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free There must be fifty ways to leave your lover
She said it's really not my habit to intrude For the more I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued So I repeat myself, at the risk of being crude There must be fifty ways to leave your lover,
Just slip out the back, Jack, make a new plan, Stan Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus, don't need to discuss much Just drop off the key, Lee, and get yourself free Just slip out the back, Jack, make a new plan, Stan Don't need to be coy, Roy, just listen to me Hop on the bus, Gus, don't need to discuss much Just…set yourself free
HexagonKeySet: All depends on what was happening, how long it had been happening, and whether or not there was goodwill on the part of both parties towards an authentic resolution and future progress.
I guess I've seen all the variations!
From bouncing to and fro where leaving and making up has been anything from 12 hours to a week but happened many times over ( and they're still at the same game a decade later )
And a very close friend who decided that after years of 'trying to make things right with her' marriage counselling would be a good idea.
One session together to explain 'how it works'
One session each separately
Session four each was asked the Big Q by counsellor "Are you here to end it or mend it?"
He said MEND
She said END
Like he said over a beer ... there's absolutely no point after that reply.
I have to agree.
Life ... it goes on regardless !
The issue is: - How do you get someone who does not want to go to go? - How do you get someone who does not want to stay to stay?
Lonely1: The issue is: - How do you get someone who does not want to go to go? - How do you get someone who does not want to stay to stay?
Either you're taking the P155 or yer not right in the head fella :-) :-) :-)
You don't!
If you don't want to be with someone any more ... you tell them and you leave.
If you don't want to be with someone and you have them living in your home with you then you give them notice and a fixed time by which they leave. If your country of residence has 'Relationship Property laws' then you might be advised to seek legal advice dependent on how long you cohabitted, and absolutely need to do that if you were married.
If someone does not want to be with you any longer ... then you accept as gracefully as you can and then show respect to them and self respect to yourself by getting gone, getting on with your life and leaving them be to get on with theirs.
If you grovel, whine, promise to change / be a better person in future ... all it does is to destroy any respect they may had for you in the past - without mutual respect there cannot be any love.
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