He is a product of a dysfunctional family.He had a poor relationship with his mother and he had an abusive or passive father.
17%
6 Votes
He has grandiose behaviour; is cocky, controlling, self centered and can't stand criticism; always on the defense.
25%
9 Votes
He is competitive,must always win, everything is his way or no way at all and comes on too strong.
14%
5 Votes
He's exciting, fun and charismatic or downright unpredictable.
0%
0 Votes
He believes in the traditional role modelling and roles.
0%
0 Votes
He twists facts to make it look as if he were the victim.
8%
3 Votes
He takes no responsibility for anything and blames others/things/circumstances for his behaviour.
6%
2 Votes
He makes fun of women,puts them down with tasteless jokes and ridicules women if she get upset.
22%
8 Votes
Women feel incompetent around him.
3%
1 Votes
He is preoccupied with sex and is sexually controlling.
6%
2 Votes
36 Total Votes
This is not a generalisation of all man ! I have a pleasure to know many sincere kind loving man but let's talk about Misogynist who hates women,how to recognise them and what is your expereince with this kind that we have on forum too...
If you notice the following signs while dating man, it's likely because he hates women. Here just to manchen a few...
1. He keeps reminding you of his masculinity, that "he's the man and you're a woman." So what? Does he want a prize for having a p*nis? It's most likely because he views himself as superior because of his gender, or because he's insecure about what's between his legs.
2.You regularly hear him say that women are always out for money, that women are shallow, or that women can't do certain things correctly... If he keeps saying negative things about women, it's best to leave him —but not before reminding him that you're clearly in it "for the money."
3. He insists that you wouldn't understand certain things because "you're a woman." People who are equals are capable of understanding one another and this is a sign that he doesn't think highly of the female gender. Guys who are misogynistic have a need to be the ones in control, no matter what the cost. Usually, they gain control by acting cocky, keeping their actions unpredictable, and trying to exert control whenever possible.
I think secretly hating women is rare. Plenty are open about it with their statements and actions, but covert hostility is far from common. I think our experimental ranga prime minister a few years back was a good example of a very mediocre person playing the misogynist card every time she made a crap decision.
pat8lanips: I think secretly hating women is rare. Plenty are open about it with their statements and actions, but covert hostility is far from common. I think our experimental ranga prime minister a few years back was a good example of a very mediocre person playing the misogynist card every time she made a crap decision.
There are women who sit on the bed, on the top of the pillow, and polish their nails. How many women do this? You see also in the movies. How they put something between the toes and ..... keep theories Do they hate the men? I will say YES.
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Swami: There are women who sit on the bed, on the top of the pillow, and polish their nails. How many women do this? You see also in the movies. How they put something between the toes and ..... keep theories Do they hate the men? I will say YES.
I wouldn't have a clue what proffe does that makes that women who's polishing her toe nails hates man .....apart that she looks after her body !?You can make your own thread or Pool about women who sit on the bed,on the top of the pollow, and while polishing their nails ....keep theoris of bygots man who hates women. This Pool is about characteristics of a Men who secretly or openly hates women so please stick to the subject. I wonder why your first instict on this subject is to defend bygots men, instead of looking how to ' protect innocent genuine women' who some times fall for hiden bygots ? You know, it's a stereotype to believe that most women (specially good looking women) polish toe nails, not working,have no life problems and just making up hard working man life difficult...wondering about psychopaths in free time. This week was the busiest for me with overload of work, 12 or 13 hours per day and CS FORUM is my relaxation enteentainment ...By the way I do not polish my toe nails I am rather enterntained with some psychopath man mind on forum.
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Track16: Why would anyone hate women? I love women
In getting to know you over time, I believe you love women ...as your pattern of behaviour is not dominaring and you should give yourself more credit, rather then some times puting yourself down... A men who appreciates women can not understand psychpaths who hides their hate for women,because predators mask and cover their hate in mind manipulatuve games with another person or exploration in social media ..etc. Predators doesn't start stright a way to put women down, there's a gradual process of testing the water...playing with victim mind / sanity.It begins with a honey moon love bombing period, when everything appears ideal ...than sudden snapping were victims is confused and giving the benefit of the doubt because Empaths often do play Nurses...
CoffeeAddict_Guernica, Buenos Aires Argentina21 posts
What am saying here Rainbow is that not only you will find men who are angry at women but women who resent men. It goes both ways. Someone hurt them really bad and they take revenge on the next partner they find. It creates a chain of pain that never ceases. I wish women did not try to be like men and vice versa. It's ok to be yerself
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
galrads: The only men that dislike women are manginas.
If haters of women can be recognised with only one obvious group of matcho faschist to stick name 'manginas', that would be too easy ... Police wouldn't be so busy finding rapists and killers.
While man rights movement do have some valid points to seek equality in social justice ....but I think that majority of them have a issues with finding everything wrong about women. Thanks for participation Galrads.
Calculating and intentional. They eventually break their victim.
Your right, I do love women. I'm not that confident with myself and it has been a problem. Believe it or not, I am trying lol. I can say this though, anyone I do end up with will be treated like a queen.
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
Track16: Calculating and intentional. They eventually break their victim.
Your right, I do love women. I'm not that confident with myself and it has been a problem. Believe it or not, I am trying lol. I can say this though, anyone I do end up with will be treated like a queen.
You are sweet sunshine. I remember from your previously shared stories, I got impression that you were mistreated / put down from your family mambers and I believe, who ever experienced growing in this painful childhood undermining of not feeling 'good enough' that consequently suffers from low self easteem which needs to be work on for life in building self confidence ...because there's often stronger negative voice luring like ghost in such person,voice that whispers ' I am ugly, I am not worthy,I am not good in this or that ' ...and such people are more vulnerable to find partner who are manipulative user ....so take care dear friend....you deserve the best, just like all of us with good intention...and I wish you all the luck to find your Queen.
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
CoffeeAddict_: What am saying here Rainbow is that not only you will find men who are angry at women but women who resent men. It goes both ways. Someone hurt them really bad and they take revenge on the next partner they find. It creates a chain of pain that never ceases. I wish women did not try to be like men and vice versa. It's ok to be yerself
I have to give some thought to this ...and preferably could you please elaborate your thoughts a bit more. 1.There is no excuse to hurt another human being because someone else did it to us so starting from that fundamental basic respect to another fellow human being...I do not see any reasonable excuse to hurt anyone, at least not to hurt consciously !
I am aware that a men and women grieve differently and being in a relationship with a man which ex cheated on him, might be a challenging task as he may look for excuse why he doesn't trust no women ...or women who was treated badly by her ex and now she wants to treat next man in her life as if he deserves all the punishment because she couldn't do nothing to the last one who betrayed her !? Is that what you meant by circle of revanchful mind from both sides ? In most cases,I do not think that with women works like that as women are more nurturing type...Anyway,that's all wrong setting, as two wrongs doesn't make it right ! People should take the time off to grieve and not rush up into another relationship when one or both are not ready for it. Men are more likely to be angry when they are grieving but who deserves and wants to be someone punching bag ?
Whichever way one deal with grief, it is better to help self with Cancelling and find friends network to support each other during difficult time; and the individual person simply adapts over time....but let's not confuse all this grieving process of loss with "normal people" Predators /Psychopaths are different, they do not change true grieving period ...Do they ever change ? Doubt it !
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
AlanStagg: Narcissist... pure and simple. The thread author needs to type that word into an internet search and do some serious reading.
Thank's heaven I've survived a few Narcissist from far and close view and can write a book about all their mind game tricks under and above sleaves ...
A lot of people have a singular image of psychopathy but in reality, psychopaths, come in All shapes and sizes, some are more dangers than others and further muddies the waters. - "The Devil will Always Smile While Lying to You"
True my research, I find that Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted and men who hate women may not consciously realize it but their action reveals them. They can be anywhere around us; they do not come with a label attached, and they may even come across as pro-woman.
Women haters (unconsciously) get off on treating women badly. Every time they can put down a woman or hurt her feelings, they unconsciously feel good because deep down in their hidden brain, their bad behaviour is rewarded with a dose of the pleasure chemical dopamine—which makes them want to repeat the behaviour again and again. Their ability to lure women in with their charm and charisma adds to the difficulty of spotting the early-warning signs. Thank you for contribution.
rainbowdream2017OPMelbourne, Victoria Australia2,486 posts
MikeD12: I can say from business experience they are not that subtle in real life.
That's because they are measuring everything they see, everything is a manipulation with these people. So they are measuring their response, trying to put together a plan, or wondering if anybody is on to them.?
Narc's only laugh at someone experiencing humiliation or embarrassment or something that made the subject look stupid, ridiculous, but its always a dehumanizing kind of humour that triggers or tickles them....and the worst thing one can do to become Enemy No1 to Narcis is to laugh at them.?... We can learn a lot about someone by what makes them laugh and this narcissist's smile is always the same, with no feelings, no emotions...demonic /evil as they only laugh at pain, its a 'mocking' laughter.... They don't all want just control, most want to feel wanted, almost worshipped like God.
The thing with a narcissist is; one shouldn't try to get even or outwit or out anything them because it's like fuel on the fire....way more dangerous....the only solution, if one suspect's they are dealing with one, just leaves and the less said the better as they can be maliciously dangers, revengeful, deadly...
If it's secret presumably charming enough to make his contempt for you plausibly deniable. I've always found that women don't want respect they want plausibly deniable disrespect from a charming man they intuitively know cares nothing about them.
deviant_sliceunknown, Tyne and Wear, England UK2,252 posts
Freedomofspeech9: What a long rant and a misandrist one too
Now, now. She's already told you that she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. Why don't you start a new whingeing, bleating thread on the forums? ...................Oops. Silly me. You already have.
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What are characteristics of a men who secretly hates women ?(Vote Below)
If you notice the following signs while dating man, it's likely because he hates women.
Here just to manchen a few...
1. He keeps reminding you of his masculinity, that "he's the man and you're a woman." So what? Does he want a prize for having a p*nis? It's most likely because he views himself as superior because of his gender, or because he's insecure about what's between his legs.
2.You regularly hear him say that women are always out for money, that women are shallow, or that women can't do certain things correctly...
If he keeps saying negative things about women, it's best to leave him —but not before reminding him that you're clearly in it "for the money."
3. He insists that you wouldn't understand certain things because "you're a woman."
People who are equals are capable of understanding one another and this is a sign that he doesn't think highly of the female gender.
Guys who are misogynistic have a need to be the ones in control, no matter what the cost. Usually, they gain control by acting cocky, keeping their actions unpredictable, and trying to exert control whenever possible.
4. All of his exes are "psycho bitches."