People who Hurt, Play and Let you down .. what should you do ? (110)
There have been a lot of sad stories, untoward events and bitter memories off late.
Heres a space for each one of us .. to share , support and comfort . Vent and even speak out loud if we please. A space for all the hurt we feel the emotion we want to let out and loneliness we want to leave behind.
Needn't be relationships alone. Anyone who left us in pain family, friends ,spouses , children even. The pain we endure we need to leave behind.
Here's to each one of us !!!
Heres a space for each one of us .. to share , support and comfort . Vent and even speak out loud if we please. A space for all the hurt we feel the emotion we want to let out and loneliness we want to leave behind.
Needn't be relationships alone. Anyone who left us in pain family, friends ,spouses , children even. The pain we endure we need to leave behind.
Here's to each one of us !!!
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I believe in Karma, too, Riya.
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Definitely Forgive....but don't forget so that they may not pull the wool over your eyes again.
What I do is I chalk everything up to life experience as a lesson learned.
What I do is I chalk everything up to life experience as a lesson learned.
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Only problem with that is...
they might be doing it to someone else.
Tough call.
they might be doing it to someone else.
Tough call.
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I cant see someone do it to you ...but people are people ..
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You can if you know where to look.
Sometimes things are right in front of our eyes the whole time.
People are people but good people are rare.
Sometimes things are right in front of our eyes the whole time.
People are people but good people are rare.
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i'm a great believer in "what goes around, comes around" a.k.a. karma. i also believe in "let go & let GOD" if you seek revenge, then you are trying to do GOD's job. IMO one must forgive in order to let go of the hurt. i know ppl say "forgive & forget" to me the easy part is forgiving, forgetting is not so easy. i think we need to remember as a form of self-protection against future hurts.
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I'm in the Karma camp.
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if you get played..
move on ..
live your life..
no one can live it but you....
you can only offer...
to give a part of you........
move on ..
live your life..
no one can live it but you....
you can only offer...
to give a part of you........
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I say take it like a man or woman and move on without so much drama
JMO
JMO
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I've never come across this personally...all the women I've been close to have been wonderful people and have only wanted to make me happy.
It seems, predominantly, it's a male type of behaviour and, as pointed out in an above comment, seems rooted in an ego feulled attitude towards female approval and adoration.
What would I do if it happened to me?
Forgive and do my best to forget. Certainly, my next partner should not have to suffer from any fears I have due to bad former experiences.
Not easy!
It seems, predominantly, it's a male type of behaviour and, as pointed out in an above comment, seems rooted in an ego feulled attitude towards female approval and adoration.
What would I do if it happened to me?
Forgive and do my best to forget. Certainly, my next partner should not have to suffer from any fears I have due to bad former experiences.
Not easy!
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That is true, Spicey, but if we become suspicious of everyone then where would we be in this world. Yes, people are people, but it is how we choose to view them that makes us who they are and we are.
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I dont understand the veiled thinking on part of the one who causes the hurt.
Why cant we just say.. i dont know give me time.. or say i am not sure lets see or even i am not in to long term.
Makes it easy for the other one instead of the hurt and drama.
Why cant we just say.. i dont know give me time.. or say i am not sure lets see or even i am not in to long term.
Makes it easy for the other one instead of the hurt and drama.
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I'm all for karma and i know it happens....
but before the logics kick in and i realize karma will get em in the end....i feel a lil revengeful, i dont acted on it...but it makes me feel better somehow...and i do forgive in time, but i dont forget as easy.
thats just my honest thoughts...
but before the logics kick in and i realize karma will get em in the end....i feel a lil revengeful, i dont acted on it...but it makes me feel better somehow...and i do forgive in time, but i dont forget as easy.
thats just my honest thoughts...
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Moving on is the easy part.
Knowing a hurtful one is making rounds, person to person... it takes a cold soul to not feel that effect.
I worry for the next person.
Knowing a hurtful one is making rounds, person to person... it takes a cold soul to not feel that effect.
I worry for the next person.
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Real kind thoughts
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Very well put, Me too.
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Thank you
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Glad your moving on. S**t happens, but you can't let it get to you.
Same has happened to me, too many times to count, of course my short term memory takes care of that.
Same has happened to me, too many times to count, of course my short term memory takes care of that.
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True. Its so rare to find good people nowadays.
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Yes, it is. 
I bet they are out there but are afraid to get hurt again or have build walls so high that that they can not be scaled.
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Riya...I think your english is a lot better than mine....
build....I meant to say built.
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move on move on....
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good song by Rascal flatts...
called ...Im movin on...
its a good song......
very uplifting.......
hi
called ...Im movin on...
its a good song......
very uplifting.......
hi
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stop whining about who did what, no one to blame but yourself so own it ! farking loosers....
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getting right to the heart of things , I like that
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Well its sickening all you hear is people crying over someone did me so wrong song ... tuffen up life is not a bed of roses of your design if you dont like somethine the person did move on. There are only 6 billion more to choose from click next Mother Humper....
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Condescenscion to those whose innocence has been stripped merely for truly opening their guards and allowing themselves to be completely naked before what they have perceived as their love is nothing but hatred. The woman you wish to spend the rest of your life with may have been hurt by one such as these predators and then you will never have the totality of her. This would be unfair to both of you unless what you ultimately seek is a more earthly material realtionship, then by all means you words are truth.
Mark
Mark
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People who Hurt, Play and Let you down .. what should you do ?(Vote Below)
Heres a space for each one of us .. to share , support and comfort . Vent and even speak out loud if we please. A space for all the hurt we feel the emotion we want to let out and loneliness we want to leave behind.
Needn't be relationships alone. Anyone who left us in pain family, friends ,spouses , children even. The pain we endure we need to leave behind.
Here's to each one of us !!!