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May 27, 2018 12:04 PM CSTShould someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro, Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts

Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back(Vote Below)

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Yes - What doesn't hurt the other partner
0%
0 Votes
No - Whole point of a long term relationship is to be one and one and honest
94%
48 Votes
Coudln't care less as long as I'm getting some
6%
3 Votes
51 Total Votes
Just an experience I had
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May 27, 2018 12:07 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
No. If you want to cheat. Why not just leave?
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May 27, 2018 12:07 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
NO! Man up! Get out of one relationship before going into another... conversing
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May 27, 2018 12:09 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
No, definitely Not......
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May 27, 2018 12:14 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
Gave the option several times of a nice way out when I suspected something.
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May 27, 2018 12:15 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
MsContessa: NO! Man up! Get out of one relationship before going into another...
Thats just it, I think she qas getting quite a bit of man up. LOL
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May 27, 2018 12:15 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
wow. a discussion about. "We gotta have water?" - come on. No brainer there.
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May 27, 2018 12:18 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
secludedStar: wow. a discussion about. "We gotta have water?" - come on. No brainer there.
You'd think
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May 27, 2018 12:18 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
Done
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May 27, 2018 1:19 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Nope, unless y’all both agree, and is ok with it but it wouldn’t even make sense to even be in a long term relationship
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May 27, 2018 1:23 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mayanna
MayannaMayannaAtlanta, Georgia USA1 Threads 30 Posts
No! professor
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May 27, 2018 1:32 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
R_U_the_1_4_me
R_U_the_1_4_meR_U_the_1_4_meBuffalo, New York USA181 Posts
The whole idea of a relationship is she or he puts out, if not, then get rid of him or her or look for it elsewhere!
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May 27, 2018 1:34 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
SlainteMhaithx
SlainteMhaithxSlainteMhaithxLimerick, Ireland5 Threads 941 Posts
No theres no excuse for cheating..non whatsoever...even if your the abused ....theres always a door you can exit.
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May 27, 2018 2:29 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
ReadyTo: You'd think
Do you suspect or do you actually know?

If you actually know, why are you still there? Love is a two way street and if someone is cheating on you. Only one person loves, the other (the cheat) doesn't even respect you enough to end it.
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May 27, 2018 2:41 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
If someone is going to see other people why enter into a relationship in the first place.
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May 27, 2018 3:06 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Bloody ridiculous.
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May 27, 2018 3:11 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14: Just a view point for you. I post from my phone. I didn't see what the OP said either after the choices. I am wondering if she didn't either. If she had, her post wouldn't make sense to me. Just a thought.
Hey Rachie,
You were post 1,Ms C 2nd, OP elaborated after.
Ms C seemed to jump the gun with an assumption.
Not a battle,just a question.
I suppose everyone sees their own side, I've never cheated but I've been cheated on.More than once.
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May 27, 2018 3:13 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
Rachie14: Do you suspect or do you actually know?

If you actually know, why are you still there? Love is a two way street and if someone is cheating on you. Only one person loves, the other (the cheat) doesn't even respect you enough to end it.
1. Know

2. Split from each other
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May 27, 2018 3:14 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
I was cheated on but I didn't like him anyway was just stuck in a situation till I got out of it..In fact I loved it when he would say he was going to the shop he would come back two weeks later.
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May 27, 2018 3:17 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00: I was cheated on but I didn't like him anyway was just stuck in a situation till I got out of it..In fact I loved it when he would say he was going to the shop he would come back two weeks later.
Jeez Mer, If it took him a fortnight to do the bloody shopping you were better off without him laugh
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May 27, 2018 3:17 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
jimgi: Hey Rachie,
You were post 1,Ms C 2nd, OP elaborated after.
Ms C seemed to jump the gun with an assumption.
Not a battle,just a question.
I suppose everyone sees their own side, I've never cheated but I've been cheated on.More than once.
Hey Jim,

We were seconds a part that's all. I am not saying that's the case. I just know I missed it as well.

I know it was a question. No offence taken by me anyway. I have never cheated. Have O haven't cheated either. I admit once I was almost tempted. I didn't though, but ended the relationship instead.

Have I been cheated on. I hope not.
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May 27, 2018 3:19 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Mercedes_00: I was cheated on but I didn't like him anyway was just stuck in a situation till I got out of it..In fact I loved it when he would say he was going to the shop he would come back two weeks later.
In saying the above he rooted anything that walked I saw some of these woman they looked as repulsive as him I have many giggles now when I run into him.
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May 27, 2018 3:20 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Rachie14: Hey Jim,

We were seconds a part that's all. I am not saying that's the case. I just know I missed it as well.

I know it was a question. No offence taken by me anyway. I have never cheated. Have O haven't cheated either. I admit once I was almost tempted. I didn't though, but ended the relationship instead.

Have I been cheated on. I hope not.
That was meant to say I have not had an ex cheated on me. Sorry had a brain fart. So God knows what the Have O was laugh
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May 27, 2018 3:23 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14: That was meant to say I have not had an ex cheated on me. Sorry had a brain fart. So God knows what the Have O was
I thought he was a rapper. I was just about to YouTube him rolling on the floor laughing
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May 27, 2018 3:25 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00: o*gasm
Did you notice that it was a big O & not just a minor tremor?
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May 27, 2018 3:29 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
jimgi: I thought he was a rapper. I was just about to YouTube him
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

Weird Al laugh
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May 27, 2018 3:29 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Mercedes_00: o*gasm
Don't remind me crying laugh
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May 27, 2018 3:31 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
ReadyTo: 1. Know

2. Split from each other
applause Next chapter of your life :)
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May 27, 2018 3:32 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Rachie14: Don't remind me
Some are blessed laugh
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May 27, 2018 3:33 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Mercedes_00: Some are blessed
I miss those days laugh
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May 27, 2018 4:00 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
No, don't get me started on that !scold
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