Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back (62)

May 27, 2018 4:37 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Saorstat
SaorstatSaorstatLongford, Ireland4 Threads 328 Posts
ReadyTo: Gave the option several times of a nice way out when I suspected something.
Listen bud.
GET OUTTA THERE....
May 27, 2018 5:12 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
jimgi
jimgijimgiroscommon, Roscommon Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 978 Posts
MsContessa: Don’t see any difference if it is a man or a woman.
Cheating is cheating
Hi Ms C,
That didn't actually answer the question I asked,it only sidestepped it.
I don't even want an answer, but read your own post in the context it was written & you'll see where I'm coming from.

Going to bed now. Night all.
May 27, 2018 9:28 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
it depends on the type of relationship. If it is a romantic monogamy like a marriage, then no, One must choose. But a long term relationship like a friendship I have with my school mates, that's different. Oh, I would not cheat on my hairdresser or my butcher either...both wield sharp instrumentslaugh cheers
May 27, 2018 9:52 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Not im my long term relationships and if that's the case....see ya......wave
May 28, 2018 2:04 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
When you consider I'm the nearest thing to perfection, she would have to be foolish to ever consider risking all , by straying !!!
May 28, 2018 2:38 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: When you consider I'm the nearest thing to perfection, she would have to be foolish to ever consider risking all , by straying !!!
laugh Sure you are.
May 28, 2018 2:40 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
Yes, just takes a little time to get over it but I know I was good throughout so it make it easier for me to move on.
May 28, 2018 2:42 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
ReadyTo
ReadyToReadyToTavira, Faro Portugal1 Threads 1 Polls 7 Posts
I have. You're not the first one to say so, but I held on to try to se if they would do the right thing. They didn't so a trap was laid, bait taken and got an undeniable result.
May 28, 2018 2:44 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: Sure you are.
Ok, that may have been exaggerated , but with a couple of journeys to the gym, you will be able to grate cheese off my abs!!!!
May 28, 2018 2:46 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: Ok, that may have been exaggerated , but with a couple of journeys to the gym, you will be able to grate cheese off my abs!!!!
laugh Ahuh.. some flaws none of can change even in the gym.
May 28, 2018 2:47 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
After you hit Reply, click Yes on 'Quote the post Above' then people will know who you are replying to buddy wave
May 28, 2018 2:48 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
serene56: After you hit Reply, click Yes on 'Quote the post Above' then people will know who you are replying to buddy
Like I didn't doh laugh
May 28, 2018 2:53 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: Ahuh.. some flaws none of can change even in the gym.
None i think of any offhand, but be sure to point them out to me !
Your feedback would be greatly appreciated!!thumbs up cool
May 28, 2018 2:55 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
serene56: Like I didn't
I think you've got the OP all confused now??
As if he hasn't got enough problems of his own to worry about confused
May 28, 2018 2:58 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: None i think of any offhand, but be sure to point them out to me !
Your feedback would be greatly appreciated!!
laugh Nah, they're yours. I am not for changing folks.
May 28, 2018 3:00 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
One2note: I think you've got the OP all confused now??
As if he hasn't got enough problems of his own to worry about
It appears that he got it grin
May 28, 2018 3:03 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
serene56: It appears that he got it
I'm not sure if he's "got it" , but at least he's Learnt to use the quote button.professor
May 28, 2018 3:04 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: Nah, they're yours. I am not for changing folks.
You give up too easily!
May 28, 2018 3:11 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,954 Posts
One2note: I'm not sure if he's "got it" , but at least he's Learnt to use the quote button.
I never suggested I could fix everything mumbling
May 28, 2018 3:15 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: You give up too easily!
I'm a believer if people wanna change. They will, same goes for me.
May 28, 2018 3:22 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: I'm a believer if people wanna change. They will, same goes for me.
It took me most of my life to become the person I am today & any change would only be a negative step backwards...
May 28, 2018 3:31 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
Rachie14: I miss those days
Some are blessed laugh
May 28, 2018 3:33 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: It took me most of my life to become the person I am today & any change would only be a negative step backwards...
There is always room for improvement in us all. I am not exempt to that. I like who I am. Can I be better? Yes :)
May 28, 2018 3:33 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
Mercedes_00: Some are blessed
I have been in the past laugh
May 28, 2018 3:42 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
Rachie14: I have been in the past
I know blues
May 28, 2018 3:43 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
blues
May 28, 2018 3:45 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: There is always room for improvement in us all. I am not exempt to that. I like who I am. Can I be better? Yes :)
We're never gonna reach perfection, so I don't beat myself up about it!
Imperfection is not an inadequacy . It's what makes us humans & unique!
May 28, 2018 3:49 AM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: We're never gonna reach perfection, so I don't beat myself up about it!
Imperfection is not an inadequacy . It's what makes us humans & unique!
Shouldn't stop us being the best version of ourselves. So I will keep trying :)
May 28, 2018 3:13 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Rachie14: Shouldn't stop us being the best version of ourselves. So I will keep trying :)
The only thing lower than my confidence is my standards!
May 28, 2018 4:10 PM CST Should someone in a long term relationship be able to see other people behind their back
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
One2note: The only thing lower than my confidence is my standards!
I can't say I noticed tongue
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