Ok ladies…now imagine you are having date with a guy and these are the options, but you don’t know which one of you is paying? Which would you choose? What would your budget be? What would his be?
What's the budget for a pub? Drinks for two? Maybe snacks? Money for pool table? Money for juke box? If both drunk...cost of Phone to ring taxi? Money to pay for taxi?
deviant_slice: Why are you obsessed with "budget"?
You like someone, you take them out. If it works, you take them out again, if it doesn't you don't.
If you're worrying about how much money you're having to spend, you're probably better off with a Flesh Light.
Who said I was obsessed with a budget or anything else? Not me...these are just thread subjects...this is a free dating site...say what you like, but don't try to predict what I think and don't twist my words
Bearwoman: Who said anything about letting a stranger in my home? Geesh
I never said that? I never said it was a first date...it's deviant...who thinks he can read my mind, predict the future etc n looks like a fool everytime he's wrong
Packersbabe1: No cause he ask me, if I gotta pay then it won’t be another date, I’m gonna feel sorry type of way
I never said it was the man asking...Don't you think women should be asking men...in the age of so called equality?...wud that be a good idea and prove, that a woman can be independent and not worried about money?
LeeCharming: I never said it was the man asking...Don't you think women should be asking men...in the age of so called equality?...wud that be a good idea and prove, that a woman can be independent and not worried about money?
I just never ask a man out, seemed strange to me and I’m giving him my time so it’s equal I’m independent and I’m not worried about money but on the other hand, when you are out you don’t worried about money, budget, you’re out there to have a nice time so it can be another date, not a turn off
Packersbabe1: I just never ask a man out, seemed strange to me and I’m giving him my time so it’s equal I’m independent and I’m not worried about money but on the other hand, when you are out you don’t worried about money, budget, you’re out there to have a nice time so it can be another date, not a turn off
You don't want equality really...you want to pick and choose your equality...your a helpless damsel in distress, when the cheque c*m to the dinner table on a dinner date and you want a good time on a guys money I'm sure u enjoy yourself, when someone else is footing the bill...that's not something to be proud of...to charge for your company and save your monies...tut...tut
Packersbabe1: Not true at all, men ask me out and most don’t mind spending, they not on the cheap side or tight with there money and that would be embarrass, y’all get in the the restaurant and he holla, I’m on a budget so choose something cheap see that’s a turn off right there and I will leave him sitting there, cause we should have discuss this before we got to the restaurant
So not only does he have to foot the bill for the two of you, but you also dictate to him what he spends and if it is not enough him then you shame him the more you write..the worse you look...oh dear and you can't picture..if the shoe was on the other foot and what you would say to a man who tried to dictate what you spend and if you don't spend what he wants, then you will be shamed...All I can say is your a gold digger and leach...your busted
LeeCharming: So not only does he have to foot the bill for the two of you, but you also dictate to him what he spends and if it is not enough him then you shame him the more you write..the worse you look...oh dear and you can't picture..if the shoe was on the other foot and what you would say to a man who tried to dictate what you spend and if you don't spend what he wants, then you will be shamed...All I can say is your a gold digger and leach...your busted
No I don’t dictate anything, read what I said again, and you’re cheap with a budget
Packersbabe1: No I don’t dictate anything, read what I said again, and you’re cheap with a budget
Did u forget what you wrote? Are u so stuck in your lies, that u forget I suggest you read ur own post again...shaming and dictating what a guy spends...yes you
LeeCharming: Did u forget what you wrote? Are u so stuck in your lies, that u forget I suggest you read ur own post again...shaming and dictating what a guy spends...yes you
I never said what a guy spends on me I said they usually pay for the bill so you’re dictating what I’m saying and that’s not shaming but apparently you’re to cheap to see that and I’m no gold digger, can’t help if I’m cut from a different cloth
LeeCharming: Your problem, because u will never pay for a man...u have a price tag on ur company...Shania twain - That don't impress me much
Naw, your problem is a woman will see right through your cheap self, most men just take the women out and not worry about who’s paying for what, or they on a budget I say if you’re that cheap cook your own meal rather than go out, but I’m out and nice debating with me it was fun
Packersbabe1: Naw, your problem is a woman will see right through your cheap self, most men just take the women out and not worry about who’s paying for what, or they on a budget I say if you’re that cheap cook your own meal rather than go out, but I’m out and nice debating with me it was fun
You don't want equality...your after a man for his money...your counting the money you save on a meal, a trip to the cinema etc and rubbing your hands....your so tight and all you think about is saving money...are u a serial fine dinner? yes u pick expensive restaurants for a man to take u too and then he don't hear from u again, because ur onto the next dinner date with another guy footing the bill...the red flag is waving above ur head and it cud not be clearer...gold digger...all about saving your money...yes u
LeeCharming: You don't want equality...your after a man for his money...your counting the money you save on a meal, a trip to the cinema etc and rubbing your hands....your so tight and all you think about is saving money...are u a serial fine dinner? yes u pick expensive restaurants for a man to take u too and then he don't hear from u again, because ur onto the next dinner date with another guy footing the bill...the red flag is waving above ur head and it cud not be clearer...gold digger...all about saving your money...yes u
Lee stop while you’re ahead, I’m no gold digger never ask no man for money, if taking me out and paying for a meal then so be it, these guys want to pay I’m not holding a gun to there head, not my fault you’re on a budget and prefer taking your women’s to McDonald’s I’m going to bed
Packersbabe1: Lee stop while you’re ahead, I’m no gold digger never ask no man for money, if taking me out and paying for a meal then so be it, these guys want to pay I’m not holding a gun to there head, not my fault you’re on a budget and prefer taking your women’s to McDonald’s I’m going to bed
You work out what they spend and shame, them if they don't spend what you want...this is gold digging...you have no right to call men cheap...when you never pay for a man or even offer to pay towards the bill
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Ladies going on a date part two - Ladies make your choice?(Vote Below)
What would your budget be? What would his be?
What's the budget for a pub? Drinks for two? Maybe snacks? Money for pool table? Money for juke box? If both drunk...cost of Phone to ring taxi? Money to pay for taxi?