Now a days I am seeing a lot of divorced case . I am hurting when I see divorced between honest partners just minor ( small reason ) things. I want to say dont do that . always do sacrifice for each other. Share your experience and comments plz
When couples are young, often times it's because of selfishness on one side or both sides. In later years it's a high percentage of women going through menopause and the personality changes caused by the hormone change. The changes often times manifest themselves with women no longer caring about their spouses and sometimes their children. Instead they prefer to just go party and have fun.
Mayako: Maybe because people live a lot longer than before?
I think you hit the nail on the head there.
When the concept of marriage was first mooted, the average lifespan was about 40 years so marriages weren't very long.
Now, the lifespan is at least double that, so expecting 2 people to live with each other that long is a bit unrealistic.
Other factors also come to play of course. Including the lack of total dependence of one spouse on the other. A marriage lasting a long time now is probably a better sign than a marriage lasting before.
bigjb62: When couples are young, often times it's because of selfishness on one side or both sides. In later years it's a high percentage of women going through menopause and the personality changes caused by the hormone change. The changes often times manifest themselves with women no longer caring about their spouses and sometimes their children. Instead they prefer to just go party and have fun.
Historically the default of humanity is a state of mild depression and a life of total boredom. All work and no play. Staying married was the easy part, all the difficulty was in staying alive.
ChesneyChrist: Historically the default of humanity is a state of mild depression and a life of total boredom. All work and no play. Staying married was the easy part, all the difficulty was in staying alive.
I think due to intolerance. Nobody wants tolerate anything.
Nobody is perfect but everybody is searching for perfection, much expectations. Nobody is ready to tolerate any deficiency of their partners. It cause the irritation, fight between them & then go for divorce.
The weakness of your partner should be filled with your qualities. And your weakness should be filled with your partner's qualities. if you are capable to create this strong bond in between, then do marriage otherwise being bachelor is best option.
pKrema: Selfishness and marrying for the wrong reasons...especially the latter... Trying to fit in the box of what it should look like...yes, look like...
pKrema: Selfishness and marrying for the wrong reasons...especially the latter... Trying to fit in the box of what it should look like...yes, look like...
Pkream ma'am plz every thing is right who you said. But plz tell me what is latter mean ....
pKrema: Selfishness and marrying for the wrong reasons...especially the latter... Trying to fit in the box of what it should look like...yes, look like...
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