Do members think their job in more important than finding and settling down with someone or if your or your partner has to move with his/her work will you stay put even if you will loose your job because your other doesn't want to move which could mean s/he has to find another job and wants to keep their existing job. I know one case where the wife didn't want to move because of her job and he had to move to a different factory with the firm he worked for so the split up and again she is changing who she works for so that she will be away for 3 weeks at a time so has split up from her partner of three years as she was never hardly home with her last job as she was all over the country during the week and might be home over the weekends.
I can take my job anywhere in the world...just need a shipping for my machines...but building name and reputation anew isn't something that I find appealing...at that point of my career... But if he is worth it, yes, I'll take the chance... It's so easy to get comfortable in your box, you forget how small the world actually is...
Both are important, but if it had to come down to it I would pick the love of my life, but only if I had another great job lined up that I would enjoy. Can't live on love alone...
at this age and stage, I prefer a relationship + partnership. also I want the intimacy and the passion of a relationship.
I am not looking for “the love of my life”, (if it is, wonderful) . I don’t want Lolita’s or “mothers” - both physical and mental.
I dont plan to move as I have warm water, fabulous food, everything I need/want nearby, and more important wonderful crappy people (interesting, only after settling down is a area, we realize that we are always the outsiders)
I dont need to change my job, if I decide to move. ......
I already gave up the job once. I've always chosen them by longevity, benefits, pay scale, further opportunity. Hours vary. Not every one can have that little office, cubicle, or morning to afternoon schedule. Not every one will always have that straight 40 hour week.
I know which is more reliable when you have it. I know which will be there when working through the "unexpected". I know which will help the move up according to your efforts and more.
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Your job or the love of your life.(Vote Below)