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Sep 12, 2018 1:48 PM CSTScreaming children

Screaming children(Vote Below)

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kill 'em
3%
1 Votes
smack 'em
16%
5 Votes
talk to them nicely
9%
3 Votes
cuddle them
3%
1 Votes
cuddle them so hard they can't breathe
0%
0 Votes
speak quietly to their parents
3%
1 Votes
speak quietly but firmly to their parents
12%
4 Votes
shout at their parents because you can't be heard over the sceaming
0%
0 Votes
get up and go
50%
16 Votes
commit suicide publicly
3%
1 Votes
32 Total Votes
I mean - kids are wonderful, aren't they?
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Sep 12, 2018 1:59 PM CST Screaming children
It seems that people are too politically correct to vote. I love kids; it's just if I go to a restaurant it really spoils the meal if there is a table with kids really SCREAMING. The parents really should have some control or go as it's unfair to the other people in the restaurant. You agree?
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Sep 12, 2018 2:27 PM CST Screaming children
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Mind my own business.
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Sep 12, 2018 2:30 PM CST Screaming children
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
John333333: It seems that people are too politically correct to vote. I love kids; it's just if I go to a restaurant it really spoils the meal if there is a table with kids really SCREAMING. The parents really should have some control or go as it's unfair to the other people in the restaurant. You agree?
Children are a reflection of their parents until they are old enough to be held responsible for their own actions.
I would tell the waiter, leave and call the restaurant manager... maybe even name the restaurant on Yelp.

In the good ol' you could tell the parents. But now days, adults fear backlash. An 'offending' is an excuse

I voted on your poll. To hell with PC.

I also listed screaming children on my poll, "Sounds That Make You Cringe"
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Sep 12, 2018 2:38 PM CST Screaming children
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
John333333: It seems that people are too politically correct to vote. I love kids; it's just if I go to a restaurant it really spoils the meal if there is a table with kids really SCREAMING. The parents really should have some control or go as it's unfair to the other people in the restaurant. You agree?
I voted get up and go, and I'm not afraid to say I would...
I won't have my time spoilt by the plague of casual parenting that facilitates this behavior... I'm not saying it's the kids fault, bucause a responsible parent would make an effort to control the situation... Take any fast food outlet, and that's fair game, it's core clientele is supported kids, and noise comes with the territory...coolo...
A planned night out in a restaurant with friends / famy / date should have the entitlement to being civilized and measured...
I'd be an advocate of adult only eateries...and I'd pay for the pleasure of it...
You're damn right, political correctness has shut down common sense and common decency and the right to reply...
Good thread topic, let's hope it encourages debate...
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Sep 12, 2018 3:43 PM CST Screaming children
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
First I would approach the parents then I'd speak to management.
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Sep 12, 2018 5:32 PM CST Screaming children
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,711 Posts
John333333: It seems that people are too politically correct to vote. I love kids; it's just if I go to a restaurant it really spoils the meal if there is a table with kids really SCREAMING. The parents really should have some control or go as it's unfair to the other people in the restaurant. You agree?
You really don’t know why the kids is screaming in the first place it could be many reasons, if the manager not saying anything so why should that parent have to leave when she payed her money like everybody else, that’s her right unless the manager willing to reimburse her
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Sep 12, 2018 6:04 PM CST Screaming children
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I couldn't care less how much the parents of the screaming kids paid for their meal they should be told to keep their screaming kids quiet or leave the diner.
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Sep 12, 2018 6:07 PM CST Screaming children
Packersbabe1: It doesn’t matter what restaurant they are at, the parent still payed there money, unless it a sign on the door saying no kids aloud, and it wouldn’t bother me if the child is hollowing I know how to ignore
Well, we live in a democracy and you are perfectly entitled to your view but I'd suggest we come from different cultures. In MY culture it is really frowned upon to allow children to behave badly in a 'posh' restaurant and a good establishment would have 'quiet words' with the people concerned and ask them to leave if they didn't control the situation.

THEY DO NOT NEED A SIGN........just as there is no need to put up a sign telling people not to piss on the floor. Some restaurants won't allow children under a certain age and therefore might have a discrete sign to save gently turning people away but then many people don't read that good. In some restaurants you can get thrown out by the chef/owner because you have dared to complain about the food - in that case the screaming kid is in the kitchen!

In fact it is not pleasant to have kids screaming even in a fast food chain but as you are only there to shove food down your gob and leave a.s.a.p. it's no big deal.
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Sep 12, 2018 6:19 PM CST Screaming children
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,711 Posts
John333333: Well, we live in a democracy and you are perfectly entitled to your view but I'd suggest we come from different cultures. In MY culture it is really frowned upon to allow children to behave badly in a 'posh' restaurant and a good establishment would have 'quiet words' with the people concerned and ask them to leave if they didn't control the situation.

THEY DO NOT NEED A SIGN........just as there is no need to put up a sign telling people not to piss on the floor. Some restaurants won't allow children under a certain age and therefore might have a discrete sign to save gently turning people away but then many people don't read that good. In some restaurants you can get thrown out by the chef/owner because you have dared to complain about the food - in that case the screaming kid is in the kitchen!

In fact it is not pleasant to have kids screaming even in a fast food chain but as you are only there to shove food down your gob and leave a.s.a.p. it's no big deal.


I understand what you are saying, It wouldn’t bother me, like you said we all have different opinion not here to debatecheers
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Sep 12, 2018 9:35 PM CST Screaming children
Packersbabe1: I understand what you are saying, It wouldn’t bother me, like you said we all have different opinion not here to debate
Thanks. But I also think we ARE here to debate and exchange views.

I respect your views even though I beg to differ! cheers

Just don't bring your screaming kids into the restaurant where I'm eating! tongue
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Sep 13, 2018 12:14 AM CST Screaming children
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
If I ever saw a single parent struggling when the child was throwing a tantrum whilst drinks and food were flung to the floor..I would get up and go help that parent..I would clean the floor instructing them not to worry just concentrate on their child.

Suppose to help people or at least be patient instead of worrying about your own guts.

Now I understand why America is so farked up..Can't blame it all on Trump.
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Sep 13, 2018 12:27 AM CST Screaming children
epirb
epirbepirbDannevirke, Hawke's Bay New Zealand32 Threads 2 Polls 7,379 Posts
Thankfully mine were never like that , gee what a challenge . I think I would have to had a very keen eye on my boys when were from 8-10 had they seen something like this , option 2 would have been a real risk from them .
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Sep 13, 2018 12:32 AM CST Screaming children
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I cant it goes right through me....kids are kids and its to be expected so what im saying is....its my problem and I wouldn't make it the problem of the parents but remove myself if I was that uncomfortable.....wave
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Sep 13, 2018 12:36 AM CST Screaming children
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
M4_Mischief: I cant it goes right through me....kids are kids and its to be expected so what im saying is....its my problem and I wouldn't make it the problem of the parents but remove myself if I was that uncomfortable.....
I know you wouldn't make the parents feel uncomfortable hug

I've always had a knack of zoning out..All I know is I love my food too much to leave laugh
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Sep 13, 2018 12:38 AM CST Screaming children
Its a part of life and quite normal. Annoying as it is, you have to accept it and realize that the parents are probably feeling lower than you can imagine for letting their kids cause such a disturbance.
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Sep 13, 2018 12:40 AM CST Screaming children
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Mercedes_00: I know you wouldn't make the parents feel uncomfortable

I've always had a knack of zoning out..All I know is I love my food too much to leave
I can zone out almost anything but that....at least if it keeps up for awhile......laugh
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Sep 13, 2018 12:55 AM CST Screaming children
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
M4_Mischief: I can zone out almost anything but that....at least if it keeps up for awhile......
laugh

The only time I sometimes come across screaming kids is when I'm doing my groceries.

I'm not into eating out..When I go out with my gym gals we usually eat at home before we meet up.
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Sep 13, 2018 1:33 AM CST Screaming children
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
This is what I was trying to say merc....to make my problem the parents problem would just be trying to control my environment and those around me who are in it....the dislike here would be mine and anything short of me leaving would be making my problem other peoples.....bouquet
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Sep 13, 2018 2:48 AM CST Screaming children
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Let your children run wild and free in Mcdonalds - you can be your natural, lazy and default self in Mcdonalds. There's nobody to impress and no intention of making a better life for your kids in Mcdonalds.

In a fancy restaurant things different and be your best self takes over. Too much time, money and effort has gone into that food, you can't just throw it at the wall.
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Sep 13, 2018 3:01 AM CST Screaming children
ChesneyChrist: Let your children run wild and free in Mcdonalds - you can be your natural, lazy and default self in Mcdonalds. There's nobody to impress and no intention of making a better life for your kids in Mcdonalds.

In a fancy restaurant things different and be your best self takes over. Too much time, money and effort has gone into that food, you can't just throw it at the wall.
I reckon that's the bottom line - well said! cheers
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Sep 13, 2018 3:07 AM CST Screaming children
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Forget about the restaurant, you can just leave....
Imagine a screaming kid on a airplane...or few of them... laugh
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Sep 13, 2018 3:15 AM CST Screaming children
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
If your child needs food, why would you take them to McDonald's? confused
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Sep 13, 2018 3:19 AM CST Screaming children
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
I'd throw a sympathetic glance at the mother or father and just remove myself from the situation.

One noise that annoys me is that of a spoilt child not gettind their own way.
I don't know how hard it is to discipline or raise a child so would be wrong to comment on it....but if my necessary or nephews were ever in my care and acted like that then I would drop what I had bought and remove them from the premises and give them a talking to in my car.
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Sep 13, 2018 3:20 AM CST Screaming children
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
How you complain changes too. In Mcdonalds you can sit there like Putin giving the father of the family evils. Intimidation is the rule where there are no rules, but that's not how to complain in polite society.
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Sep 13, 2018 3:21 AM CST Screaming children
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
*neice*
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Sep 13, 2018 3:26 AM CST Screaming children
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
jac_the_gripper: If your child needs food, why would you take them to McDonald's?
thumbs up
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Sep 13, 2018 3:43 AM CST Screaming children
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Not every parent is blessed with a calm and well behaved kid...
But every parent knows their child and can predict a potential disaster happening in the wrong place...and react accordingly...
Nobody has to put up with it, no matter how polite and understanding people may be...
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Sep 13, 2018 3:45 AM CST Screaming children
jac_the_gripper: If your child needs food, why would you take them to McDonald's?
Well, what can I say? I knew plenty of people on benefits who fed their children on fast food - they were too 'poor' to cook any real food.
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Sep 13, 2018 3:50 AM CST Screaming children
I often see this and think that those children are just plain tired sigh

Many seem to have no routines in place .. if Mum wants to shop for hours/have coffee dates/try on clothes etc etc, babies and young children have no choice but to put up with it

Take them home and let them have the naps that little ones need, I think a lot of the screaming would subside.
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Sep 13, 2018 4:13 AM CST Screaming children
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
deedee123xo: I'd throw a sympathetic glance at the mother or father and just remove myself from the situation.

One noise that annoys me is that of a spoilt child not gettind their own way.
I don't know how hard it is to discipline or raise a child so would be wrong to comment on it....but if my necessary or nephews were ever in my care and acted like that then I would drop what I had bought and remove them from the premises and give them a talking to in my car.
I love kids the same as the next person and it is a pleasyre when you see a well behaved child in a restaurant, it is the parents faykt in their upbringing of the child. Some nationalities are better behaveed than others, the chinese are a good example. They bring up their children to be respectful. Yes the blame lies firmly with the parents.
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