Very good, I'm getting mail and a good few dates...
0%
0 Votes
Good, I'm getting mail and the odd date now and again...
5%
1 Votes
Reasonable, I'm getting mail and had one date...
10%
2 Votes
Not great, just getting the odd mail and a few views...
24%
5 Votes
Poor, just views...
33%
7 Votes
Very poor, no reaction...
5%
1 Votes
Woman- I'll contact a man first...
5%
1 Votes
Woman - I'll wait to hear from a man first...
14%
3 Votes
Man - I'll contact a woman first...
0%
0 Votes
Man - I'll wait for a hear from a woman first...
5%
1 Votes
21 Total Votes
Is it working out for you?... How much did you put in, and do you think you got it back in spades... And like the song says, is it really "different for girls"... Women, Is dating comparatively easy (not saying the men are always up to scratch, that's another debate), and men, is it like pushing a rock up hill, getting interest from a woman... As usual, discuss at your pleasure...
As for myself ....well, I'm gonna plead the 5th....
It's always going to be easier for women. It's just the way of the world. But getting attention, and getting the right attention, are two different things.
It's a bit like selling a product or service; very often it's a numbers game. If you have a good product but it has a sell by date you'd better get moving, but there's no need to panic! Every time you fail you are that one step nearer (statistically) to achieving what you want.
It's the same for most things you want in life. Have an optimistic outlook. Act with integrity. Work hard but enjoy what you are doing - the journey should be as much fun as the destination.
By the way, I don't see why it should be easier for a woman as somebody wrote in a previous post. Why?
MisterForYou: I have bad news for you - if your priority is the asset value of your 'prince', the relationship will always end up in the frog pond. Now go to work.
No complaints here, Plenty mail, welcomed, and unwanted
mollybaby: It's always going to be easier for women. It's just the way of the world. But getting attention, and getting the right attention, are two different things.
There are exceptions of course...but me making a passing resemblance to the thing that's going into Harry's dinner bowl is not one of them... Cue the Gosport minstrel, Joe Jackson...
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How is it working out for you?....(Vote Below)
And like the song says, is it really "different for girls"... Women, Is dating comparatively easy (not saying the men are always up to scratch, that's another debate), and men, is it like pushing a rock up hill, getting interest from a woman...
As usual, discuss at your pleasure...
As for myself ....well, I'm gonna plead the 5th....