Older men dating younger women. (99)

Nov 4, 2018 2:02 AM CSTOlder men dating younger women.

Older men dating younger women.(Vote Below)

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1. It's socially acceptable.
22%
10 Votes
2. It's socially unacceptable.
4%
2 Votes
3. Maybe they fell in love?
13%
6 Votes
4. He's old enough to be her father!
2%
1 Votes
5. How charming, they look good together!
4%
2 Votes
6. Disgusting old man!
4%
2 Votes
7. She's with him for the money/security/insurance/pension plan.
7%
3 Votes
8.He's trying to recapture his 'lost youth.'
7%
3 Votes
9. Age is just a number, maybe they really connect on other levels!
36%
16 Votes
10. Her dad is taking his daughter to lunch.
0%
0 Votes
45 Total Votes
What's your spontaneous reaction when you see an older man with a much younger woman on his arm?

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Nov 4, 2018 2:04 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Shits all over ramming a blow up doll.
Nov 4, 2018 2:14 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Mercedes_00: Shits all over ramming a blow up doll.
Are you speaking from experience?
Nov 4, 2018 2:17 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
"What's your spontaneous reaction when you see an older man with a much younger woman on his arm?"

That he is a perv. And I hope he is paying her enough
Nov 4, 2018 2:19 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
I think, apart from the obvious daddy issues, the more mature gentleman has a certain swagger about him. Qualities such as Confidence, experience, maturity, financial security, all add up to make the mature gentlemen an attractive proposition for the younger female .
Nov 4, 2018 2:20 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
CossackCat: "What's your spontaneous reaction when you see an older man with a much younger woman on his arm?"

That he is a perv. And I hope he is paying her enough
Have you ever dated an older man Cosscat? Did he turn out to be a perv?
Nov 4, 2018 2:20 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
One2note: I think, apart from the obvious daddy issues, the more mature gentleman has a certain swagger about him. Qualities such as Confidence, experience, maturity, financial security, all add up to make the mature gentlemen an attractive proposition for the younger female .
Have you dated younger women? (age difference 16 years and +).
Nov 4, 2018 2:21 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
CossackCat: "What's your spontaneous reaction when you see an older man with a much younger woman on his arm?"

That he is a perv. And I hope he is paying her enough
I sense a slight bitterness & a little resentment in you post !!
Nov 4, 2018 2:23 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
The most dangerous part of any post is what's read 'between the lines.' cool
Nov 4, 2018 2:29 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: Are you speaking from experience?
Your telling the story bud.
Nov 4, 2018 2:29 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: Have you dated younger women? (age difference 16 years and +).
I think, Amy man who has the means & the capabilities to date a younger model, would be stupid not to .
Nov 4, 2018 2:30 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Mercedes_00: Your telling the story bud.
This is a poll - it's your story.
Nov 4, 2018 2:32 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: This is a poll - it's your story.
Yeah deflect.
Nov 4, 2018 2:34 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Mercedes_00: Yeah deflect.
A poll is about gauging the opinions of others.

I'm a sociology major....call it research, if you will.
Nov 4, 2018 2:36 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
One2note: I think, Amy man who has the means & the capabilities to date a younger model, would be stupid not to .
In Africa, among certain tribes, a man is free to have as many wives as he can afford. I agree, there is a certain practical logic to that social law.
Nov 4, 2018 5:15 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
My initial reaction is always a bit of 'why?'. Especially if there is an obvious age difference.

But that probably has to do with cultural and personal bias.

It is more common here to date someone of approximately the same age as you, give or take a few years.

And that has been my personal preference as well.

Plus, I have never been short of a significant mature male influence in my life, so I don't need to replace/find one of those in a partner.

I do have a friend who has always been attracted to older men, even in her early twenties. And she had a father and older brothers, so that aspect didn't come into it.

Once it isn't a power-based relationship (one having it/one needing it) and instead based on mutual respect and feelings, then it should be as acceptable as more conventional couplings.
Nov 4, 2018 5:30 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
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The greatest generation tried quite hard to drive prostitution into recession, probably because they did so much of it themselves in the 1930s and 1940s. The baby boomers were bequeathed a fortune and prostitution went into a lull.

Today it’s coming back alongside Grenfell and zero hour contracts having being bequeathed a mountain of debt. But the kids aren’t to blame, the parents are. Ye shall know them by their fruits.
Nov 4, 2018 5:34 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
In principal, I don't have a rationale argument against it. But to be honest, my gut reaction to it would be on the negative side. Why? To be PC incorrect, I would have had, as a 'younger man' a problem 'getting physical' with a woman 20 years my senior. It's just a visual thing. Technically the woman could be the age of one's mom...yikes. So, to put myself in the young woman's shoes, how does she feel getting into the sack with an old dude who reminds her of her granddad? It just seems natural to me that we are attracted to our own age group (+ - 10 years max). But of course there are many other factors at play than the purely physical. thumbs up
Nov 4, 2018 5:41 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
ChesneyChrist: The greatest generation tried quite hard to drive prostitution into recession, probably because they did so much of it themselves in the 1930s and 1940s. The baby boomers were bequeathed a fortune and prostitution went into a lull.

Today it’s coming back alongside Grenfell and zero hour contracts having being bequeathed a mountain of debt. But the kids aren’t to blame, the parents are. Ye shall know them by their fruits.
I had to google both 'Grenfell' and 'zero-hour contracts.' Ok, so your analysis is based more or less around the concept of 'paid sex' being the basis for a 'young woman/older guy' couple?
Nov 4, 2018 5:44 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Art is 5 years older than my dad and 6 years older than my mom.

When he and I were getting ready to meet my mom for the first time, he playfully made a remark,”Hey, can I call your mom ‘Mom’??”

Without batting an eyelid, I replied, “Yes..........only if you want to die”

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I’ve always been attracted to much older men. Ironically my ex-husband was only 6 years my senior.
Nov 4, 2018 5:47 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: In principal, I don't have a rationale argument against it. But to be honest, my gut reaction to it would be on the negative side. Why? To be PC incorrect, I would have had, as a 'younger man' a problem 'getting physical' with a woman 20 years my senior. It's just a visual thing. Technically the woman could be the age of one's mom...yikes. So, to put myself in the young woman's shoes, how does she feel getting into the sack with an old dude who reminds her of her granddad? It just seems natural to me that we are attracted to our own age group (+ - 10 years max). But of course there are many other factors at play than the purely physical.
As I said, it is a personal choice.

For me personally, I don't, and never did, fancy older men.

But see above for Mimi's response. Everybody is different.
Nov 4, 2018 5:49 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MiMiArt: Art is 5 years older than my dad and 6 years older than my mom.

When he and I were getting ready to meet my mom for the first time, he playfully made a remark,”Hey, can I call your mom ‘Mom’??”

Without batting an eyelid, I replied, “Yes..........only if you want to die”




I’ve always been attracted to much older men. Ironically my ex-husband was only 6 years my senior.
Yup, it's true, I have met a few women who were attracted to much older men, but unfortunately I wasn't much older than them at the time...laugh
Nov 4, 2018 5:59 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
When holding people into account don't forget someone else one day will do that to you too...
It's easy to criticize...and be ignorant...
Nov 4, 2018 6:08 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
pKrema: When holding people into account don't forget someone else one day will do that to you too...
It's easy to criticize...and be ignorant...
I completely agree with you. It's a sign of ignorance to make assumptions.

laugh
Nov 4, 2018 6:20 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Well, sex is more or less free now, as women are more sexually liberated and are not shy to ask men out...
The modern woman (as many insist) is not interested in your financial status, she can provide for herself...right...?!
Then why majority still believe couples with wider age gap are definitely driven by financial interest?!
Or it's a fetish, or some kind of childhood related problem...?
It's all individual...
Nov 4, 2018 6:31 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
Well, if he is 60 and she is 40, 20 years difference won't be a problem, but what if he's 36 and she is 16?
I always have good conversations with people who are older or younger than me, but with people of about my age it often is difficult.
But I wouldn't date a much younger or older woman. The differences in taste, especially music, opinions etc. would be a problem I guess.
Nov 4, 2018 6:50 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: The most dangerous part of any post is what's read 'between the lines.'
I say if it's what they both want good luck to them, it's really non of my business.professor They should be careful of public displays of affection, some narrow minded jealous trolls will make trouble.
Nov 4, 2018 6:51 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
aries1234: I say if it's what they both want good luck to them, it's really non of my business. They should be careful of public displays of affection, some narrow minded jealous trolls will make trouble.
Careful Aries, your mind slipis showing....

laugh
Nov 4, 2018 6:54 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
PeKaatje: Well, if he is 60 and she is 40, 20 years difference won't be a problem, but what if he's 36 and she is 16?
I always have good conversations with people who are older or younger than me, but with people of about my age it often is difficult.
But I wouldn't date a much younger or older woman. The differences in taste, especially music, opinions etc. would be a problem I guess.
Exactly my point. Unless you're dealing with an exceptionally mature mind, what is a guy of 60 going to have in common with a woman of 30? They are not going to be talking about hair extensions or the latest iPhone....and they certainly won't be talking about stocks, bonds and the weakness of the Chinese economy...

laugh thumbs up
Nov 4, 2018 6:56 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MiMiArt: Art is 5 years older than my dad and 6 years older than my mom.

When he and I were getting ready to meet my mom for the first time, he playfully made a remark,”Hey, can I call your mom ‘Mom’??”

Without batting an eyelid, I replied, “Yes..........only if you want to die”




I’ve always been attracted to much older men. Ironically my ex-husband was only 6 years my senior.
Good luck tto you and Art, i am rooting for youhug
Nov 4, 2018 6:58 AM CST Older men dating younger women.
MisterForYou: Careful Aries, your mind slipis showing....
My g/f is ten years younger than me so of course I'm for ittongue

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