What do you most hate about being a man? ( Archived) (63)

Nov 25, 2018 3:20 AM CSTWhat do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England, UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts

What do you most hate about being a man?(Vote Below)

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Belonging to the group responsible for most domestic violence
8%
1 Votes
Belonging to the group responsible for most sexual violence
8%
1 Votes
Belonging to the group responsible for most paedophilia
15%
2 Votes
Belonging to the group responsible for most oppression of the opposite sex
0%
0 Votes
Belonging to the group responsible for most violent criminal activity
8%
1 Votes
Having to pretend to other men that you are good at sex
8%
1 Votes
Looking like an idiot when your nob overrules your brain
8%
1 Votes
Having to pretend to yourself that you are a good driver
0%
0 Votes
Other
46%
6 Votes
13 Total Votes
Yet I still wouldn't want not to be a man. dunno
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Nov 25, 2018 3:29 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Sir_T
Sir_TSir_TLimerick, Ireland4 Threads 598 Posts
On the first point, its true that man are responsible for the majority of domestic violence, but the British police released statistics last year that said that 40% of their domestic Violence calls were from men being attacked by their women.



40% is still a minority but its a very significant one. And thats not going into the whole thing that its really, really hard for men to admit to being attacked by the "weaker" gender, so that number could be skewed too. And the other thing is that the calls are often not taken seriously either.

So, ya there is grey in this area,
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Nov 25, 2018 3:34 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The phrase “man up” and the related idea that it’s somehow less bad for a man to be vandalised in some way. The greater threshold of pain and suffering before sympathy or support kicks in from third parties and the general tendency of third parties to side against you.
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Nov 25, 2018 3:44 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
ChesneyChrist: The phrase “man up” and the related idea that it’s somehow less bad for a man to be vandalised in some way. The greater threshold of pain and suffering before sympathy or support kicks in from third parties and the general tendency of third parties to side against you.
True.
For me personally the worst is having to be the pursuer rather than the pursued when it comes to the whole man/woman thing.
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Nov 25, 2018 3:52 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
Sir_T: On the first point, its true that man are responsible for the majority of domestic violence, but the British police released statistics last year that said that 40% of their domestic Violence calls were from men being attacked by their women.



40% is still a minority but its a very significant one. And thats not going into the whole thing that its really, really hard for men to admit to being attacked by the "weaker" gender, so that number could be skewed too. And the other thing is that the calls are often not taken seriously either.

So, ya there is grey in this area,
Yes, T, you have a point, but I'm guessing that more broken female bones turn up at A&E than male ones.
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Nov 25, 2018 4:12 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
I don't hate to be a man at all. After all, each man has a female side.
If I hated to be a man, then I would have been a transgender.

But if I had to be born again and I could choose, I think I would choose to be a cat, smart, intelligent, kissable, and no worries about the daily news, politics, money etc.
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Nov 25, 2018 4:34 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Sir_T
Sir_TSir_TLimerick, Ireland4 Threads 598 Posts
Harbal: Yes, T, you have a point, but I'm guessing that more broken female bones turn up at A&E than male ones.
A very very quick search suggests its about 60% female, so ya.

I found this graph on reddit. which broke it down. Of course I cant verify the accuracy of this.

Embedded image from another site
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Nov 25, 2018 4:45 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
Sir_T: A very very quick search suggests its about 60% female, so ya.

I found this graph on reddit. which broke it down. Of course I cant verify the accuracy of this.
But is this a graph of fractures due to domestic violence?
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Nov 25, 2018 4:53 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Sir_T
Sir_TSir_TLimerick, Ireland4 Threads 598 Posts
No, total fractures.
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Nov 25, 2018 5:13 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Is this your confessional Hconfused Why don't u just get the operation and become a woman...ur hate of yourself and others men is very clear n I could guess, that your father was absent when u were growing up and mommy told u he was bad...mummy told u all men were bad n u have grown up feeling shame for being born male
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Nov 25, 2018 5:15 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
I do agree with you, jac, but for the purposes of this thread, I would prefer to overlook female aggression.
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Nov 25, 2018 5:34 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: Is this your confessional H Why don't u just get the operation and become a woman...ur hate of yourself and others men is very clear n I could guess, that your father was absent when u were growing up and mommy told u he was bad...mummy told u all men were bad n u have grown up feeling shame for being born male
My father was a cross dresser who made me play with dolls when I was a child, and my mother (mommy) used to make me wear a little gingham pinafore to do the housework for her when she was away at her feminist meetings. When I got a little older she used to take me along with her, of course. However, I feel sure that none of this has anything to do with my attitude towards men.
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Nov 25, 2018 8:17 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Sir_T
Sir_TSir_TLimerick, Ireland4 Threads 598 Posts
Harbal: I do agree with you, jac, but for the purposes of this thread, I would prefer to overlook female aggression.
Fair enough I suppose.

Well, as a man, its obviously not very pleasant reading that list of statistics. It's very hard not to feel judged by it. However, I have to balance that by the fact that (a) I dont hate being a man at all, nor do I feel I need to do so because other members of my gender have done horrid things, and (b) I have not raided my hand to a woman, ever. In fact I have defended woman who were bieng attacked,

The closest I ever came to was when I was out woth my first GF, and our relationship was a bit strained, and I had 3 or 4 beers, and I got REALLY aggressive twoards her. I'm a big guy, so me being agressive is probably a scary sight When I sobered up I was shocked and resolved to never have that much to drink again, especially in the company of a woman. And I never have.

That said the same woman used to make me drink a glass of wine after that as apparently I get really cuddly after just one, so I think she forgave me. cheers
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Nov 26, 2018 7:47 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
MiguelUknow
MiguelUknowMiguelUknowSantiago de Queretaro, Queretaro Mexico14 Threads 638 Posts
How you have another reason besides being white that you can feel guilty for Harbal. Keep it up and you're going to start getting depressed. professor
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Nov 26, 2018 11:43 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
MiguelUknow: How you have another reason besides being white that you can feel guilty for Harbal. Keep it up and you're going to start getting depressed.
Brits are not white.scold
They are pasty.
smitten
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Nov 26, 2018 11:57 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
donal63
donal63donal63letterkenny, Donegal Ireland2 Threads 2,252 Posts
Kidwell_: Let me see yer moobs
breast not too!
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Nov 26, 2018 11:59 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
donal63: breast not too!
Aww... c'mon don't be a tit
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Nov 26, 2018 2:42 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Only having a 12" chub
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Nov 26, 2018 2:45 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I was waiting for someone to say squished balls when they wear tight jeans.....confused
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Nov 26, 2018 2:48 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
CARRY AROUND A SNAKE IN MY TROUSERS IS HARD WORK, BUT I DON'T HATE BEING BIGlaugh
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Nov 26, 2018 2:54 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
donal63
donal63donal63letterkenny, Donegal Ireland2 Threads 2,252 Posts
LeeCharming: CARRY AROUND A SNAKE IN MY TROUSERS IS HARD WORK, BUT I DON'T HATE BEING BIG
not called monty,ny any chance?
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Nov 26, 2018 2:58 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: CARRY AROUND A SNAKE IN MY TROUSERS IS HARD WORK, BUT I DON'T HATE BEING BIG
I see you've stumbled across the cap lock on your keyboard, Lee, now you can write all your posts in big boy's letters. comfort
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Nov 26, 2018 3:00 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Harbal: I see you've stumbled across the cap lock on your keyboard, Lee, now you can write all your posts in big boy's letters.
YES THE TALK OF SNOW FLAKES GETTING UPSET ABOUT CAPITAL LETTERS....GAVE ME AN IDEAwow grin
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Nov 26, 2018 3:10 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
LeeCharming: YES THE TALK OF SNOW FLAKES GETTING UPSET ABOUT CAPITAL LETTERS....GAVE ME AN IDEA
Now all you need is a brain to put the idea in.
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Nov 26, 2018 4:25 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Bnaughty: Only having a 12" chub


Say it ain’t sorolling on the floor laughing And proof?
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Nov 26, 2018 4:28 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
LeeCharming: CARRY AROUND A SNAKE IN MY TROUSERS IS HARD WORK, BUT I DON'T HATE BEING BIG


rolling on the floor laughing So you been putting a snake in your pants
and got, people thinking you’re bigrolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 27, 2018 1:30 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
Packersbabe1: Say it ain’t so And proof?
Do you want a photo or should I just flop it out?flirty
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Nov 27, 2018 2:22 AM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Some of the backbreaking work I’ve performed over the years and the greater risk of death for me and my brethren.
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Nov 27, 2018 4:19 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Bnaughty: Do you want a photo or should I just flop it out?


laugh Either one will work
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Nov 27, 2018 4:48 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
1. Sorry I will not punish myself for other men stupidity or violence etc
2. I love being a man have the right deciding, leading myself and my life, independent socially, Intellectually, and emotionally.
Why women wish to be men?

we are in heaven
Being men
dancing
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Nov 27, 2018 4:56 PM CST What do you most hate about being a man?
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
ChesneyChrist: The phrase “man up” and the related idea that it’s somehow less bad for a man to be vandalised in some way. The greater threshold of pain and suffering before sympathy or support kicks in from third parties and the general tendency of third parties to side against you.
What third party? The penguins?

Man up!
Signed: penguins.
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by Harbal (3 Polls)
Created: Nov 2018
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