Knowing the Limit to Interfare & Giving Space & Freedom
0%
0 Votes
All the above mentioned points SHOULD BE APPLIED BY BOTH SIDES / One sided efforts are useless
56%
18 Votes
32 Total Votes
First, I want to clear here that by the term RELATIONSHIP I am talking about any relationship which belongs to a normal human family. Like the relationship between parents and their kids OR the relationship between sibilings OR the relationship between married/lover couple OR even the relationship between in-laws. I am NOT ASKING about ONLY love or marriage kind of relationship here. So My question to all of you is that What Could Be The KEY To Open The Lock Of The Treasure Called As SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP !? And as your choice I have mentioned some points in the poll options... Now I am looking forward to the opinion of all you guys.. So please keep voting on the poll.. Thank You All.
Jan 7, 2019 1:04 PM CST What is the KEY in Any Successful Relationship ?
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 posts
I would say find someone you do not have to make adjustments or sacrifices for, having to become someone you are not will make a person very unhappy. Making sure you both want the same things, commitment wise.There is not such thing as duties if you love each other you will do them automatically and like doing them.
marlindap!!! I feel you...but it's pretty certain adjustments and/or sacrifices are going to surface at some point. I would declare...your (duties) are absolute Truth and Honesty, Compromise and open communication. When the relationship seems to be going perfectly to you, the other will make sure you were wrong!
"We can bring no greater gift to any relationship than ourselves, as we are, singular in solitude. Similarly, there is no greater gift we may receive from the Other.
James Hollis
"I hold this to be the highest task of a bond between two people, that each should stand guard over the solitude of the other."
1. treat your partner the same way you want to be treated 2. appreciation 3. mutual respect 4. forget the whole mentioned above , just being good at bedroom work could cover up every negatives in your relationship
saidmahmoud: 1. treat your partner the same way you want to be treated 2. appreciation 3. mutual respect 4. forget the whole mentioned above , just being good at bedroom work could cover up every negatives in your relationship
I guess you did not look at the description of this poll.. Right!! So you want to cover up every negatives in the relationship even if it's a relationship between parents and their kids!!!??
Till now found a very interesting thing in this poll.. There is not even a single vote yet on the option " Knowing Limit to Interefare and Giving Space & Freedom " !! That means nobody thinks that THIS COULD BE AN IMPORTANT POINT FOR ANY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP !! ?
Kaylana04: You nailed it, Cavalero!!! If one doesn’t respect themself first- all the “love” they give is an act.
True love comes from inside first.
That's what I know to be true, Kaylana. One MUST already have Love in their heart to then be able to share it around them. I'm not saying there are people out there without Love inside but some people choose to fuel the negative inside of them instead of surrendering to the little voice that says "Love! Forgive! Share!" Some people only respect themselves in a selfish way of looking at the world as some battlefield where if they don't kill they will be killed or don't take it will be taken from them or don't con they will be conned...
RESPECT encompasses EVERY good behavior we may have towards another human being and ourselves. Love cannot exist without RESPECT.
Some say "respect is earned". What a sad way to welcome a stranger. The way you treat a stranger is the way you would treat an angel who's come with advice and blessings.
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What is the KEY in Any Successful Relationship ?(Vote Below)
I am NOT ASKING about ONLY love or marriage kind of relationship here.
So
My question to all of you is that
What Could Be The KEY To Open The Lock Of The Treasure Called As SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP !?
And as your choice I have mentioned some points in the poll options...
Now I am looking forward to the opinion of all you guys.. So please keep voting on the poll..
Thank You All.