Cavalero: This thread is about 'a' random woman you would hit to prevent worse, not YOUR woman If you feel you have to hit your woman, better to leave the relationship.
Cavalero: This thread is about 'a' random woman you would hit to prevent worse, not YOUR woman If you feel you have to hit your woman, better to leave the relationship.
No, you weren't offensive to me. Taking offense is a sport I leave to leftists and feminists. In my world, EVERYONE IS entitled to his/her opinion. Did you vote on the poll ?
Cavalero: No, you weren't offensive to me. Taking offense is a sport I leave to leftists and feminists. In my world, EVERYONE IS entitled to his/her opinion. Did you vote on the poll ?
No self respecting man, or woman should hit anyone. Harm or anything that injures anyone is crimibalized. When to hit anyone justifies nothing. This barbaric act is a matter of anger that needs to be addressed as a social disorder. My take is if someone does that no matter what provokes it, run away and let it be addressed accordingly. Anyone who does that is sick.
lindsyjones: No self respecting man, or woman should hit anyone. Harm or anything that injures anyone is crimibalized. When to hit anyone justifies nothing. This barbaric act is a matter of anger that needs to be addressed as a social disorder. My take is if someone does that no matter what provokes it, run away and let it be addressed accordingly. Anyone who does that is sick.
I agree with you.
Do you think someone should be able to defend themselves against annagressor, be it man or woman? Do you believe in self defense ?
Do you think someone should be able to defend themselves against annagressor, be it man or woman? Do you believe in self defense ?
Us human being or even the animals of course it's our instinct to defend ourselves. I do not recommend. If one responds violently to an aggressor, then there is likely that becomes worse or deadly.
In the court of law the evidence are weighed based on the circumstance of needing the defense. When a victim is killed defending himself or the other way around I meant to say if the original victim who is first attacked gets to kill the aggressor the burglar or the criminal the penalty of that act is not as heavy or high as the intent. Of course we have to defend ourselves but in that very moment will you make yourself in trouble, or could you have avoided it?
lindsyjones: Us human being or even the animals of course it's our instinct to defend ourselves. I do not recommend. If one responds violently to an aggressor, then there is likely that becomes worse or deadly.
In the court of law the evidence are weighed based on the circumstance of needing the defense. When a victim is killed defending himself or the other way around I meant to say if the original victim who is first attacked gets to kill the aggressor the burglar or the criminal the penalty of that act is not as heavy or high as the intent. Of course we have to defend ourselves but in that very moment will you make yourself in trouble, or could you have avoided it?
It depends on the situation, the agressor and the weapon used. Of course, any decent thinking person would not wade into the fray regardless of the circumstances or who is agressive. There are rules for Self Defense, too. A decent human being would and should not shoot an unarmed man or woman...
This thread, though, is about being assaulted or having your b/f - g/f assaulted in front of you... Would you intervene or would you say "Ooops, sorry, I'm against violence so you're on your own, see you later, I'm outta here..." ?
Cavalero: It depends on the situation, the agressor and the weapon used. Of course, any decent thinking person would not wade into the fray regardless of the circumstances or who is agressive. There are rules for Self Defense, too. A decent human being would and should not shoot an unarmed man or woman...
This thread, though, is about being assaulted or having your b/f - g/f assaulted in front of you... Would you intervene or would you say "Ooops, sorry, I'm against violence so you're on your own, see you later, I'm outta here..." ?
I would never do that. I would as a friend, defend and stop if I can, then make sure that it us a matter of prevention. I am basing my response to the question, when would anyone hit anyone.
I know for a fact that it's an altercation when someone hits someone and it's responded by the same if not a stronger force.
Cavalero: In an ideal world, sure I agree. But Life isn't that neat and simple. It's messy and dangerous.
I get that. If it came to it I would do my best to restrain someone from hitting me rather than hit back...if it wasnt working or simply walking away doesn't work then I would hit back...if my life was in danger
deedee123xo: I get that. If it came to it I would do my best to restrain someone from hitting me rather than hit back...if it wasnt working or simply walking away doesn't work then I would hit back...if my life was in danger
in some cases even kill the aggressor if its meant life and death. I would rather live defending myself than get killed by doing nothing.
This topic brought something to mind regarding my oldest son when he was between two and three years of age.There was a movie on tv where a man was assaulting a woman while I was in another room in our home I overheard my son ask his father "That's not how you get a kiss from a lady is it daddy?" I was in total shock to hear my son ask that kind of question cause I'd never heard a toddler his age ever ask that kind of question of their parents. I've had people say that children don't pay attention.Yes they do and they are a lot smarter then we as adults give them credit for.
lindsyjones: in some cases even kill the aggressor if its meant life and death. I would rather live defending myself than get killed by doing nothing.
OH God ! I'd never want to kill anyone while defending myself or another. That's aweful and, most of the time, not needed, even when there's gunplay involved.
deedee123xo: I get that. If it came to it I would do my best to restrain someone from hitting me rather than hit back...if it wasnt working or simply walking away doesn't work then I would hit back...if my life was in danger
That's all this poll is about... Of course I could've worded it differently but I never make it easy on myself.
Cavalero: OH God ! I'd never want to kill anyone while defending myself or another. That's aweful and, most of the time, not needed, even when there's gunplay involved.
on the contrary Cav, there's thousands of cases where killing was involved in call of defense. My brother was involved and got killed.
But in ordinary cases, that's far from the mere question of when to hit or not. I never advocate sny form of violence or harm. Defense is another story.
lindsyjones: on the contrary Cav, there's thousands of cases where killing was involved in call of defense. My brother was involved and got killed.
But in ordinary cases, that's far from the mere question of when to hit or not. I never advocate sny form of violence or harm. Defense is another story.
I didn't say it doesn't happen, I just said that it's not needed most of the time. Sorry to hear about your brother
Yes, defense is another story is that's what I was curious about in this poll.
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