In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living? (56)

Feb 3, 2019 11:36 AM CSTIn dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?

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Is this a narrative, that feminist use to keep women slaving away in the work place? Traditionally a man did not care, what a woman did for a living, cause she already had a job as a home make, a mother and a grateful with to her loving hardworking husband...

What would a man say to his wife? relax, cause I'm going to bring home the bacon honey...we will be together forever and our family dreams will come true..we are a team and a solid family unit...we can take on the world together...yay
Feb 3, 2019 11:44 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Is this a narrative, that feminists use to keep women slaving away in the work place? Traditionally a man did not care, what a woman did for a living, cause most married women...already had a job as a home maker, a mother, grateful to be with her loving, hardworking, husband and father to her children.

What would a man say to his wife? relax, cause I'm going to bring home the bacon honey...we will be together forever, our family dreams will come true, we are a team, a solid family unit and we can take on the world together...
edited and improvedgrin
Feb 3, 2019 11:45 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Are you ever going to stop telling women how to live, Lee? It's not like they are going to take any notice of you. Do you think they are going to change their behaviour just to make you feel secure?
Feb 3, 2019 11:52 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
"What would a man say to his wife? relax, cause I'm going to bring home the bacon honey...we will be together forever and our family dreams will come true..we are a team and a solid family unit...we can take on the world together..."


If a man said this to most women, she will tell him that the world has changed. Even though most women would prefer to sit at home and be the homemaker, it is just not financially possible in today's day and age, except obviously if the guy earns a very substantial salary, or had inherited a substantial amount, to be able to provide for a reasonable household, of a wife and children (how many - at least 2), and animals, in a house with a garden, and at least two motor vehicles. That is the lowest expectancy. If the man can provide the above, then by all means, the women can leisurely stay at home, and be the home maker!
Feb 3, 2019 11:53 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden33 Threads 2 Polls 1,857 Posts
Of course, it's imortant - she might be a plumber :D
Feb 3, 2019 12:03 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA3,771 Posts
To the second paragraph in your post Lee in this day and age not on your life.Today's women as I've seen and witnessed usually have a job,kids and homes of their own long before they choose to meet a man.

Not many marriages last forever cause in my case my husband passed away and we weren't even married past 30 years.Also take a look at the divorce rates.

Now to your original thread question. When you are getting to know someone. personal questions that can be asked without crossing any lines. Where were you born? Where did you go to school? Do you have any brothers or sisters? Are you married? What do (did) your parents do? What do you like in life? What do you do for a living?
Feb 3, 2019 12:05 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7online today!
jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,645 Posts
and then the reality hit the west...
he wasn't making enough money to support a family and she had to get a job.
dunno
Feb 3, 2019 12:07 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
I would think they would have discussed this befre they got married . If she turns out to be a high flyer it couid be a deal breaker, not necessarily because she may be earning more money, but her friends would be different and her interests may change. You might say this would not matter, but in the UK it does.
It is my opinion this may drive a wedge between them. JMO
Feb 3, 2019 12:12 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
It's feminists brainwashing girls and women, telling them lies, using a feminist view on the world, that does not have any relation to reality...

universities are the worst place for young women to get educated,...the victimhood dogma is out of control, the man hate is out of control and it's sad to witness such a negative change..in the behaviours of many women...it's a clear agenda to destroy the family unit, trick women into being work slaves, keep wages down...increase debt...cause they know many women like to spend and that's why adverts are directed towards women mostly

The way I see it...feminism will fail and women will once again welcome a solid marriage, a loving husband, father to their children and beautiful home to take care of...while the good man goes out to earn the bacon...trust me the way things are going...money will run out...unless sanity wins the day
Feb 3, 2019 12:15 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
It is important...It seems to be one of the first questions men ask you...
It's good to have a job, even better if it's a good job...
But at the end of the day very few men are happy and proud to have a woman whose job is much better than theirs...
Feb 3, 2019 1:20 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Is it important for a woman what a man does for a living?
Feb 3, 2019 1:24 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA3,771 Posts
michael63ca: Is it important for a woman what a man does for a living?
I see no issue with asking a man that question.It wouldn't be like I'm asking for his bank number etc.grin
Feb 3, 2019 1:26 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
michael63ca: Is it important for a woman what a man does for a living?
Yes, since the man must provide, and if he cannot they will be on the streets!
Feb 3, 2019 1:38 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
pKrema: It is important...It seems to be one of the first questions men ask you...
It's good to have a job, even better if it's a good job...
But at the end of the day very few men are happy and proud to have a woman whose job is much better than theirs...
He should be asking your name first and stop looking at your body...but some men can'tgrin The dating process is a bit like tom and jerry...jerry plays hard to get and tom keeps on trying to catch jerry...most of the time he won't catch her, but that's cause he don't know the rules anymore and the goal posts keep on movingprofessor
Feb 3, 2019 1:40 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
LeeCharming: It's feminists brainwashing girls and women, telling them lies, using a feminist view on the world, that does not have any relation to reality...

universities are the worst place for young women to get educated,...the victimhood dogma is out of control, the man hate is out of control and it's sad to witness such a negative change..in the behaviours of many women...it's a clear agenda to destroy the family unit, trick women into being work slaves, keep wages down...increase debt...cause they know many women like to spend and that's why adverts are directed towards women mostly

The way I see it...feminism will fail and women will once again welcome a solid marriage, a loving husband, father to their children and beautiful home to take care of...while the good man goes out to earn the bacon...trust me the way things are going...money will run out...unless sanity wins the day
Your views are not much different to those of Islamic extremists. It would be a very joyless life for a woman living in your ideal society.
Feb 3, 2019 1:45 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Harbal: Your views are not much different to those of Islamic extremists. It would be a very joyless life for a woman living in your ideal society.
I think you might want to keep an eye on your blog...considering the controversial subject you wrote about and your left wing views on innocent baby lives...if you want to push me...I could post a video on your blog of a left wing racist kkk member, who said a few controversial things about babies...try meprofessor
Feb 3, 2019 1:56 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK5,621 Posts
What would she do at home all day? Most of the household chores have been automated and looking after kids is a doddle.
Feb 3, 2019 1:59 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Really? In this day and age with all the talk of “equality” and “woman’s rights” why can’t SHE be the provider??
Feb 3, 2019 2:01 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7online today!
jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,645 Posts
jono7: and then the reality hit the west...
he wasn't making enough money to support a family and she had to get a job.
i would of LOVED to of been a stay at home mom, looking after husband, children and home.
but as i mentioned, many men to not have the income to provide for their families without their wife getting a job.
so how do your beliefs apply to the reality of contemporary living when both parents need to work?
how does she stay at home being the perfect partner and doing all the things required if she is also required to be at work?

you have not addressed this in your many diatribes.
Feb 3, 2019 2:03 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
LeeCharming: He should be asking your name first and stop looking at your body...but some men can't The dating process is a bit like tom and jerry...jerry plays hard to get and tom keeps on trying to catch jerry...most of the time he won't catch her, but that's cause he don't know the rules anymore and the goal posts keep on moving
I am not into the dating game, but I happen to speak to men now and then...
The ideal is if she has a good job and is a good housewife too... And that's easily achieved, a question of organisation and priorities...
Feb 3, 2019 2:06 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
I usiually don’t care what she does for a living unless she’s pimping herself or pimping anyone else.


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Feb 3, 2019 2:08 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA3,771 Posts
michael63ca: Really? In this day and age with all the talk of “equality” and “woman’s rights” why can’t SHE be the provider??
Michael some women are if their husband can't provide.
Feb 3, 2019 2:08 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
LeeCharming: I think you might want to keep an eye on your blog...considering the controversial subject you wrote about and your left wing views on innocent baby lives...if you want to push me...I could post a video on your blog of a left wing racist kkk member, who said a few controversial things about babies...try me
laugh Okay, Lee, consider yourself tried. drinking popcorn
Feb 3, 2019 2:13 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Working around what's best is a matter of understanding between the two in a couple...
We can share responsibility and tasks...and that's what's important...
It's not a competition, it's a team work...
I can give more of this but you can give more of that...balance...
Feb 3, 2019 2:16 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
Harbal: Okay, Lee, consider yourself tried.
I'm in a good mood and it will have to be another timetongue
Feb 3, 2019 2:22 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
LeeCharming: .if you want to push me...I could post a video on your blog of a left wing racist kkk member,
You do know that the KKK is a right wing extremist group, don't you, Lee? If you've managed to track down a left leaning then, for God's sake, don't reveal his identity or he's toast.
Feb 3, 2019 2:23 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7online today!
jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,645 Posts
pKrema: Working around what's best is a matter of understanding between the two in a couple...
We can share responsibility and tasks...and that's what's important...
It's not a competition, it's a team work...
I can give more of this but you can give more of that...balance...
thumbs up
commitment to the us.
spend time looking after each other and being grateful, instead of flaw finding.
Feb 3, 2019 4:03 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
A friend of mine had a girlfriend, 15 years younger, not working, and while he was working hard all day, all she did was sleep, watch television and talk with friends on the phone.
Often when he got home in the evening she wasn't dressed yet, and the breakfastdishes were still on the table.
Then he told her to start working, for he was getting sick and tired of her, so she found a job and within a week, she moved in with a colleague of her, after using my friend for about 5 years.

So I do care what a woman does for a living, even if it is only cleaning the house, shopping, cooking, that's fine with me. But I don't want a Peggy Bundy...
Feb 3, 2019 8:11 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
argaiv
argaivargaivZion Park, Utah USA1 Threads 32 Posts
Absolutely.
I would rather take Stormy Daniel than Karma Harris.
Feb 3, 2019 11:55 PM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7online today!
jono7online today!jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 9,645 Posts
michael63ca: Is it important for a woman what a man does for a living?
i like to know what a man does for a living. i also like to know what a woman does for a living.
not because i care about income. i have my own income.
what one does for a living is information that informs me about the person.
Feb 4, 2019 12:01 AM CST In dating - Is it important to a man, what a woman does for a living?
jono7: i like to know what a man does for a living. i also like to know what a woman does for a living.
not because i care about income. i have my own income.
what one does for a living is information that informs me about the person.
Hey, Jono... wave

I’ve sometimes wondered what the disinterested think about my being retired and not wanting to work again.

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