As Property (Where people want kids so that the family heritage and personal idiology could be carried away through generations)
18%
3 Votes
As Support System (Where people want a future support system for their difficult and old age times)
6%
1 Votes
As Natural Instinct (By nature every living creature somehow needed to fullfil their Paternal/Maternal instinct)
53%
9 Votes
As Automatically or Accidentally (No special plan or purpose but just as the result of a couple had Sex)
6%
1 Votes
As Natures' Divine Policy (It's not actually in humans' hand)
18%
3 Votes
17 Total Votes
Sometimes we really get shocked or feel sorry to see brutal and devastating examples of child abuse (physical/mental/social) by even their OWN PARENTS . Yes . It's hard to believe but it's true. In many cases the parents actually became the worst enemy for their own children.
Be it like killing an unborn or new born GIRLCHILD just because the parents think GIRLCHILDS ARE NOT WORTHY ENOUGH specially in countries like ours . Where sex determination test in pregnancy is banned to prevent such incidents.
Or where parents simply trade their kids for earning money . If it's a girl then could be used in flesh trade or as house maid . And for a boy most probably for child labour . Parents mostly use excuses of poverty and economical crisis for their such actions .
Not only in childhood but even after adulthood mostly in countries like ours parents always try to control their childs' whole life by every aspect possible .
Like parents choose the subjuect to study for their child in higher education . Parents decide what extracurricular activity should their child pursue . And even parents choose the life/love partner on behalf of their child !!
And any disagreement or criticism from the child counted as a disrespectful act towards the parents .
Though in present days this trends are changing and thankfully most parents really LOVE their child and respect their opinions as individual .
So I am here trying to find out mostly which reason plays the main role when people want to become parents . Hope you guys would give your opinions from different point of view which might help to solve problems between parents and kids .
Pro-life is weirdly like cannon fodder in a way, it provides a high quantity of young life which is there to be sacrificed. A scantily insured patriarchy is liable to use their kids for child labour, and what does a heavily insured patriarchy decide to have children for? Their kidneys perhaps.
And yet that's the weird thing. A patriarchy is more likely to have kids purely for the purpose of harvesting their organs but it's the children of matriarchy(children in the West)who behave most like they have parents who don't really love them. Smaller families and the only child may in reality be the main focus of parental care and attention, but try telling them that.
It’s basiclaly the fact that you try harder for people who don’t really love you. Patriarchy and the developing world respect their parents more because they love their children less. Their obedience comes from being treated crap whereas our insolence comes from never had it so good.
Women raise kids to be a law unto themselves and this does not work well for 80% of people who respond productively to feelings of inadequacy. Keeping up with the Jones and rank inadequacy fail the middle classes, aspiration - the sense that you’re not good enough as you are - diminishes around Mums. From here life is more a matter of true calling and society doesn’t resemble the army at all, the rank and file begin to stagnate without the rules and ruthlessness of patriarchy.
I sao not accept any Pseudo intellectual theories and still maintain the opinions that in a woman the needs are 1 A Natural Instinct to fulfill her natural Maternal instincts preferably with 2. A faithful loving partner and that 3. Many men today of all classes have been raised with no sense of self discipline or moral principle whatsoever & no respect for others who do,
Depends, who's answering the question... People who want or don't want kids... People who have or don't have kids... I look at my kid as a human being, a wholesome human being... Did I need a reason to have it? No...I didn't ...
Some couples would want to have children, cause they want their family name to continue and their offspring to also continue the family name...some have children cause their not responsible and right type of people to be parents...
you have to be a good person morally to be a parent and teach your children the reality of lifes ups and downs...differences between boys and girls...be able to encourage boys to be masculine and competitive...teach girls to be feminine and traditional...teach both sets of children to be honest, moral, giving, loving, caring and encourage your children to feel pride in the things they are good at,
The big problem is - The society around you is not productive, it full of broken family, broken home and broken children, cause the traditional family unit it demonised by the left the family courts are setupto destroy men and hand over everything a man owns to his wife or girlfriend...if the woman asks for a divorce....99% women get custody of the children, unless in extreme cases...so what do women really put on the table - contribute to a marriage? The modern women don't cook for a man, iron, wash cloths, clean, hoover, run a bath for a man, when he gets back after a hard days graft...no the modern woman would expect the man to carry on work, when he gets home and not stop, until his head hits the pillow, while shes counting his money
The way I see it - Traditional family unit and traditional roles is a solid foundation of a good society
PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
In nature it's so arranged with animals that if there isn't enough food, they reproduce less. It's their own instinct. If you can't take good care of your children, don't get pregnant. Every year we see news about babies starving to death in Africa, these mothers have no responsibility.
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Mostly For What Reason People Want To Give Birth To Their Child ?(Vote Below)
Be it like killing an unborn or new born GIRLCHILD just because the parents think GIRLCHILDS ARE NOT WORTHY ENOUGH specially in countries like ours . Where sex determination test in pregnancy is banned to prevent such incidents.
Or where parents simply trade their kids for earning money . If it's a girl then could be used in flesh trade or as house maid . And for a boy most probably for child labour .
Parents mostly use excuses of poverty and economical crisis for their such actions .
Not only in childhood but even after adulthood mostly in countries like ours parents always try to control their childs' whole life by every aspect possible .
Like parents choose the subjuect to study for their child in higher education . Parents decide what extracurricular activity should their child pursue . And even parents choose the life/love partner on behalf of their child !!
And any disagreement or criticism from the child counted as a disrespectful act towards the parents .
Though in present days this trends are changing and thankfully most parents really LOVE their child and respect their opinions as individual .
So I am here trying to find out mostly which reason plays the main role when people want to become parents . Hope you guys would give your opinions from different point of view which might help to solve problems between parents and kids .
Thank You All .