Between polls about genital dimensions, cosmetics, why we should hate women, and senseless discussions about political conspiracy theories and what you listened to last, what are we actually doing here? Are we wasting our precious time in trivialities or are we creating some meaningful dialogue between strangers that can lead to meaningful partnerships?
If this was just a dating site I would most likely removed my profile by now, but as it is more of a community site I have stayed on here for the blogs, chat and games.
PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
I was talking by mail on this site with a girl who lived about 25 miles from me, but she wanted to know everything about me, and when I was asking about her life, she was holding back. Now I've blocked her. So sad, such a waste of time, while she was looking attractive on the pictures.
Inthecountryside: If this was just a dating site I would most likely removed my profile by now, but as it is more of a community site I have stayed on here for the blogs, chat and games.
PeKaatje: I was talking by mail on this site with a girl who lived about 25 miles from me, but she wanted to know everything about me, and when I was asking about her life, she was holding back. Now I've blocked her. So sad, such a waste of time, while she was looking attractive on the pictures.
99% chance she? was a fake profile form a scammer.
Aug 15, 2019 2:10 PM CST Are we wasting our time here?
Elorac61Littlehampton, West Sussex, West Sussex, England UK24 Posts
Elorac61Littlehampton, West Sussex, West Sussex, England UK24 posts
Not often but now and then I've had meaningful conversations with other members and have met one who I think will be a good friend offline. The forums are a source of entertainment and could be fun, I'm new to joining in, but I'm finding myself drawn to comment on some really negative and derogative ones..and I realise I'm going to have to try to just ignore them and only join in positive, happy and or interesting posts.
I am happy this site is not only about dating, which is a great plus! There are so many things to do here, pass the time. I am here several times a day and don't think I am wasting my time - just the opposite! Best wishes to CS and its members!
The title of the poll is a question, not a statement. Everyone will have their own answer. CS is like a computer....if you put garbage in, you'll get garbage out.
I think that's where the time-wasting is, I wonder why people cannot hold concentrate real converation and take it to a good level of friendship, at least. I stop responding when people are asking stupid questions. You can't know everything about someone's life in just a week behind the computer.
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