The L word is a result for a deep honest real feelings between a couple ... it makes no sense who is gonna say it first . . What really matter is how honest is the feeling it self .
LeeCharming: The first one to say it...gives away power
Yes, but on the other hand life's too short. Are we better off to win the day like machiavelli only to die surrounded by children only there because of what's written in the will?
Men who are comfortable about themselves, and know what they want, do show emotional and also be "vulnerable" without insecurity, embarrassment, regret or apologies.
Those men/women who freak out about emotional vulnerability are the same men who complain about " bad women bad men", and forget that in life to have a greater chance of achievements in personal life, is when you really connect with "a partner" on a deeper level, by respect, openness and trust.
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men or women…who should be the first...to use the L word?(Vote Below)
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