Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with? (47)

Sep 20, 2019 10:03 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.

And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.

The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.

But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night

G'nite guys yawn wave
Sep 20, 2019 10:06 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
secretagent09: However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.

And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.

The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.

But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night

G'nite guys
Omg! All this "he" and "she" stuff, so funny!rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 20, 2019 11:08 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Friskyone: Omg! All this "he" and "she" stuff, so funny!
Yeah, he said she said he said rolling on the floor laughing

You guys should see the midnight-hour long txt message I received wanting to change tomorrows plans, frustrated
Sep 20, 2019 11:09 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.

And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.

The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.

But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night

G'nite guys
Night wave
Sep 20, 2019 11:22 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
quick wake up, wake up someone wants you to do something

Sep 21, 2019 12:27 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
Ut;s never ok.

Communication is the key and start doing things together making memories.
Sep 21, 2019 3:38 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
I'm not a slag
Sep 21, 2019 6:07 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Mercedes_00: I'm not a slag
dunno guess I need to google slag
Sep 21, 2019 3:32 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
raphael119: Sorry Galrads but I dont go that way,
wave laugh
Sep 21, 2019 3:33 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
galrads: Yeah, he said she said he said

You guys should see the midnight-hour long txt message I received wanting to change tomorrows plans,
rolling on the floor laughing comfort
Sep 21, 2019 8:08 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
sure let me know and I will make plans or not and if I wanted to go out then why not with the neighbor guy if we know each other well enough to do that?....wave
Sep 22, 2019 5:31 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads: Let’s say you’re dating someone who, for whatever reason, doesn’t have much time to during much during the week to see you or socialize otherwise .... so you see them on weekends including Friday evenings.
This arrangement goes on for a while, maybe 10 months.

Then early one Friday you call and ask if he wants to do something you know he likes to do later that night.

His response is .... unfortunately I have plans to see an old friend from high school that evening.

Then that leaves you unable to find anyone except a neighbor guy friend to do anything with that Friday night. And you want to go out and do something.

Is it wrong for you to do something with your neighbor guy friend.

And maybe you are used to how couples think. In other words, if your steady thinks enough of you, why weren’t you invited along to meet his high school friend and do something together?


Is this the same chick, that loves to tex?
If they can’t make time for you, I say cut your
losses, nobody is that busy that they can’t
make time for you, but if you’re ok
with it then more power to you, it seem
like you been more on the back burner
my opinion you can do so much
better
Sep 22, 2019 5:35 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads: Wow, the only time you can usually see someone who is really into you is on a Friday and Saturday night and they choose to see a buddy over you and that is ok?


No that’s not ok, apparently you’re not
first option, you’re on the back burner
waiting and being put last
Sep 23, 2019 1:26 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Packersbabe1: Is this the same chick, that loves to tex?
If they can’t make time for you, I say cut your
losses, nobody is that busy that they can’t
make time for you, but if you’re ok
with it then more power to you, it seem
like you been more on the back burner
my opinion you can do so much
better
Yep, same chick.
Sep 23, 2019 1:32 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Packersbabe1: No that’s not ok, apparently you’re not
first option, you’re on the back burner
waiting and being put last
Yeah, nobody usually wants to be an option or loved when its only a convenience for them, when you should be a priority. handshake


wave
Sep 23, 2019 2:18 AM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
I didn't know this crap thread went on for miles, when I clicked on it.. Keep your junk in your pants if your with someone, or you're soon to be without someone.. The rule is meant for guys, and gals..

doh
Sep 23, 2019 5:00 PM CST Is it ok to do something with someone else other than who you are going steady with?
galrads: Yeah, nobody usually wants to be an option or loved when its only a convenience for them, when you should be a priority.


wave Yes indeed
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