However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.
And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.
The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.
But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night
secretagent09: However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.
And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.
The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.
But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night
secretagent09: However, if two people have been dating for 10 months and they are accustomed to seeing each other on the weekends and now all of a sudden without any notice the "he" doesn't tell the "she" that he has other plans for this Friday night I'd start to think the 10 month relationship is over.
And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.
The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.
But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night
sure let me know and I will make plans or not and if I wanted to go out then why not with the neighbor guy if we know each other well enough to do that?....
galrads: Let’s say you’re dating someone who, for whatever reason, doesn’t have much time to during much during the week to see you or socialize otherwise .... so you see them on weekends including Friday evenings. This arrangement goes on for a while, maybe 10 months.
Then early one Friday you call and ask if he wants to do something you know he likes to do later that night.
His response is .... unfortunately I have plans to see an old friend from high school that evening.
Then that leaves you unable to find anyone except a neighbor guy friend to do anything with that Friday night. And you want to go out and do something.
Is it wrong for you to do something with your neighbor guy friend.
And maybe you are used to how couples think. In other words, if your steady thinks enough of you, why weren’t you invited along to meet his high school friend and do something together?
Is this the same chick, that loves to tex? If they can’t make time for you, I say cut your losses, nobody is that busy that they can’t make time for you, but if you’re ok with it then more power to you, it seem like you been more on the back burner my opinion you can do so much better
galrads: Wow, the only time you can usually see someone who is really into you is on a Friday and Saturday night and they choose to see a buddy over you and that is ok?
No that’s not ok, apparently you’re not first option, you’re on the back burner waiting and being put last
Packersbabe1: Is this the same chick, that loves to tex? If they can’t make time for you, I say cut your losses, nobody is that busy that they can’t make time for you, but if you’re ok with it then more power to you, it seem like you been more on the back burner my opinion you can do so much better
I didn't know this crap thread went on for miles, when I clicked on it.. Keep your junk in your pants if your with someone, or you're soon to be without someone.. The rule is meant for guys, and gals..
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And the she would expect him to give a good reason why he didn't tell her sooner so that she could make other plans.
The point of the story is, is it okay for these two people to do something with other people and not all the time each other and the answer is YES.
But they should tell each other in advance of Friday night
G'nite guys