Relationships gone bad (42)
A relationship break-up is never easy even if you are the one to do it.
Especially if you still care about the person but the relationship just isn't working.
Especially if you still care about the person but the relationship just isn't working.
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mollybaby: A relationship break-up is never easy even if you are the one to do it.
Especially if you still care about the person but the relationship just isn't working.
I too, would rather being the one to be broken up with. It's hard to be a heart breaker unless the situation involves severe circumstances, i.e. domestic violence, drug abuser, alcoholic, etc.Especially if you still care about the person but the relationship just isn't working.
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I'd rather he break up with me. If he lies and/or cheats, if he is abusive emotionally and/or physically I won't hesitate to tell him it's over.
The best breakup is when it's mutual, when both parties realize it's not working and each wish the other a happy life ahead.
The best breakup is when it's mutual, when both parties realize it's not working and each wish the other a happy life ahead.
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secretagent09: I'd rather he break up with me. If he lies and/or cheats, if he is abusive emotionally and/or physically I won't hesitate to tell him it's over.
The best breakup is when it's mutual, when both parties realize it's not working and each wish the other a happy life ahead.
Agreed!The best breakup is when it's mutual, when both parties realize it's not working and each wish the other a happy life ahead.
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Friskyone: I too, would rather being the one to be broken up with. It's hard to be a heart breaker unless the situation involves severe circumstances, i.e. domestic violence, drug abuser, alcoholic, etc.
I have never been in a circumstance like that, thankfully.But in those cases, it is often even more difficult as there is emotional damage, lowered self-confidence and esteem etc.
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Thank god,I'm extremely young,free,and single
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mollybaby: I have never been in a circumstance like that, thankfully.
But in those cases, it is often even more difficult as there is emotional damage, lowered self-confidence and esteem etc.
I haven't either. But maybe it's easier said than done. My ex-husband divorced amicably thank goodness.But in those cases, it is often even more difficult as there is emotional damage, lowered self-confidence and esteem etc.
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Friskyone: I haven't either. But maybe it's easier said than done. My ex-husband divorced amicably thank goodness.
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mollybaby: Most things are easier said than done unfortunately
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I'm not fussed either way.
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I’d rather see you heartbroken than me. If you don’t grasp the nettle youll spend too much time with persons you don’t like just to avoid loneliness.
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ChesneyChrist: I’d rather see you heartbroken than me. If you don’t grasp the nettle youll spend too much time with persons you don’t like just to avoid loneliness.
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if its not working...its not working so it doesn't really matter who breaks up with who....its better to move on than to stay either way.....
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It doesn't matter to me. If its toxic get the hell out anyway you can.
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Mercedes_00: I'm not fussed either way.
Its the poor cat the one I feel sorry for !!!
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Bad relationships are good lessons...
What's more important than "who did what" is to not repeat the pattern...
You can hardly feel sorry for those who complain "I always attract the wrong ones..."...or... "Men/women are all the same"...
What's more important than "who did what" is to not repeat the pattern...
You can hardly feel sorry for those who complain "I always attract the wrong ones..."...or... "Men/women are all the same"...
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Breaking up is hard to do. I think couples should sign a pact before they consummate the communal bedroom. Sign on the dotted line that in the event of a meltdown, 2 months after the event, they will meet to negotiate terms of endearment or sue for separation and peace. I have the pro-forma Word doc, if you need it, email me.
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What happened to my earlier post in this thread? 
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Just broke up today with a super nice woman. Feel like crap. Feel like puking up.
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galrads: Just broke up today with a super nice woman. Feel like crap. Feel like puking up.
Alright Gal, she is super nice but you dumped her.Do you want to tell us why?
Do you feel like crap because you are having second thoughts if you did the right thing?
Nosey people want to know
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raphael119: Its the poor cat the one I feel sorry for !!!
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secretagent09: I never doubted that you are a human that makes mistakes the same as the rest of us.
It sounds like you are doubting your decision. I have a recipe for that. Instead of thinking about the good times you shared with her think about the times you had arguments, the times when you fought about silly things when neither of you comprised. Think about the ...I shoulda done this or that. Think about the insults, the absence of phone calls between the two of you etc.
Is she the lady you had a problem with last Friday night? The one who said they would rather meet with high school friends than to see you?
Well, She didn't sa that. She just did that. It sounds like you are doubting your decision. I have a recipe for that. Instead of thinking about the good times you shared with her think about the times you had arguments, the times when you fought about silly things when neither of you comprised. Think about the ...I shoulda done this or that. Think about the insults, the absence of phone calls between the two of you etc.
Is she the lady you had a problem with last Friday night? The one who said they would rather meet with high school friends than to see you?
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Breaking up is hard to do no matter who does the breaking up and it's one of the many reasons why I don't bother getting into a relationship....it's just too darn painful no matter who does it. 
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galrads: Well, She didn't sa that. She just did that.
I kinda thought it was the same lady. My guess is you weren't feeling that you were a priority in that relationship. That sucks.
Just remember......People are what they DO.....they are not what they SAY.
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Very good advice..
It is what they do..not what they say...
They show you who they really are.
Very good advice..
It is what they do..not what they say...
They show you who they really are.
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secretagent09: I kinda thought it was the same lady.
My guess is you weren't feeling that you were a priority in that relationship. That sucks.
Just remember......People are what they DO.....they are not what they SAY.
Yep, that did suck. My guess is you weren't feeling that you were a priority in that relationship. That sucks.
Just remember......People are what they DO.....they are not what they SAY.
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2intrigued: Breaking up is hard to do no matter who does the breaking up and it's one of the many reasons why I don't bother getting into a relationship....it's just too darn painful no matter who does it.
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Thanks for the slaps in post #23 secretagent. I needed that. 
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