Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ? ( Archived) (35)

Sep 26, 2019 4:50 PM CSTWhy is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio, USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts

Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?(Vote Below)

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People don’t know how to communicate in a different way
33%
5 Votes
People feel good expressing gender hate
20%
3 Votes
People are lonely
0%
0 Votes
People are horny
0%
0 Votes
People just hate
40%
6 Votes
Other
7%
1 Votes
15 Total Votes
I just don’t get why the other-gender hatred goes on in the cs forum threads. Why not do something positive and fun. Political crap is better than men bashing women and women bashing men.
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Sep 26, 2019 5:13 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
I noticed the misandry and a lot of trolling recently
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Sep 26, 2019 7:00 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Lack of natural lubricant , turns women on men..
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Sep 26, 2019 7:22 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
mikey4691: Lack of natural lubricant , turns women on men..
doh i forgot about that one too.
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Sep 26, 2019 9:08 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
galrads: Yeah, on a dating website to boot.
What's there to be confused about?
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Sep 26, 2019 9:27 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Bearwoman: What's there to be confused about?
Negativity help
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Sep 26, 2019 9:43 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
I'm wondering why there is so much hatred in general in the forums. There's not a single day that goes by where someone is insulting another over the most asinine things and all it has done is create major negativity. It is the reason why I rarely post in the forums or log in anymore. wave
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Sep 26, 2019 9:53 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
This is all they have in their lives.
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Sep 26, 2019 11:01 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
Social media allows anti-social behaviour with impunity. There are a lot of damaged people here who bring their neurosis to the forum. There's probably also too much vodka.


professor
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Sep 27, 2019 12:15 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
OnlyLiveTwice: Social media allows anti-social behaviour with impunity. There are a lot of damaged people here who bring their neurosis to the forum. There's probably also too much vodka.
Are you speaking of yourself, cause it seems close??
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Sep 27, 2019 12:45 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
OnlyLiveTwice
OnlyLiveTwiceOnlyLiveTwiceValletta, Majjistral Malta162 Threads 29 Polls 1,446 Posts
mikey4691: Are you speaking of yourself, cause it seems close??
Jealousy is corrosive little Mikey.

Get a life, and take up bowling or something because, 3 strikes and you're out of this game anyway.

laugh
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Sep 27, 2019 1:29 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads: White Sharia !
laugh I kid you not. They want to go back somewhat between 1930 - 1955. As if.. shows like, Leave It Beaver, was real life. As if women as a majority would even agree to that laugh
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Sep 27, 2019 1:30 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
mikey4691: Lack of natural lubricant , turns women on men..
rolling on the floor laughing

No comment
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Sep 27, 2019 2:54 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
I'll take the fifth... drinking
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Sep 27, 2019 7:21 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
A man's means have become redundant, but a woman's wiles have not. Hard power is now the result of government and industry, no generation in history has competed on the basis of soft power to the extent we do and for that reason you will find it's mostly men falling behind.
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Sep 28, 2019 4:55 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
I don't know if this helps but it is not just on CS. I have noticed since I have been single that quite a few people who reach a certain age carry a lot of baggage called resentment and anger. Most likely resulting feeling from being hurt in previous relationships. It actually I can say scares people off that are not of that kin.This is only how I see it. cheers
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Sep 28, 2019 5:01 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
Nuffnsussonline today!
Nuffnsussonline today!NuffnsussCoffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia2 Posts
It's just the way social media the internet has made everyone, have you seen the hatred on Facebook lol you can't post anything without haters hating on it..it's pathetic.
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Sep 28, 2019 5:45 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Men are more cutthroat capitalist tending to be the best and worst example of something. Natural inequality.

Women are more like the welfare state and cosy capitalism. Nets and ceilings, things you need or a partner are more easily got and mistakes more easily forgiven but dissatisfaction is born on easy street. Challenges are not worthy of you, you don't trust life as a breeze and the men who make it that easy for you(normally because they're only after one thing). Woman is a being untested, a being of the middle.
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Sep 28, 2019 6:33 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
EXRED
EXREDEXREDNorthumberland, England UK6 Threads 1,659 Posts
doh just cat and dog mentality BUT sometimes they love each other and snuggle up together , just until the next fight laugh laugh
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Sep 28, 2019 9:42 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
But where else would you encounter so many bitter individuals if not on a dating site?!
dunno
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Sep 28, 2019 9:59 AM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Ano751: ENGLISH 101
I'm pretty sure you got a grasp on it, or there would have been no response.. grin
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Sep 28, 2019 1:40 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
Guess we will never find out, I don’t even think
it’s a hatred thing but more of a bully thing
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Sep 28, 2019 2:29 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
personally...I think its more of a pansy thing.....wave
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Sep 28, 2019 6:55 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
For years people have seen hatred and divisive all around the world from nation to nation, from man to man, from men to women. It becomes part of brain activity to be negative no matter what you do.

It makes sense that it would spread to the CS community.
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Sep 28, 2019 7:23 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
gonelikethewimdonline today!
gonelikethewimdonline today!gonelikethewimdOsprey, Florida USA3,320 Posts
^^^

It is a choice..

I don't care to think..Oh well, everyone else is mean as heck....so, I should just follow the crowd...

I have learned to let go of those that are negative..

If someone gets their kicks out of cutting other's down..It says alot about them..now doesn't it...

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Sep 28, 2019 7:57 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
secretagent09: For years people have seen hatred and divisive all around the world from nation to nation, from man to man, from men to women. It becomes part of brain activity to be negative no matter what you do.

It makes sense that it would spread to the CS community.
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I agree that it's far to easy to focus on negativity. It pushes our buttons. A lot has to do with the anonymity of posting online. Even if one's identity is known there is physical and emotional distance that makes it "safer" to express negative commentary. I also agree that the more time one spends in negative bashing, the more the mind feeds on that and it cycles permanently to form ones state of mind.

I think people in the forums here tend to bring baggage or rejection from previous relationships, and can't let go of it long enough to consider that all men or women are not going to be like the previous partner that hurt them.
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Sep 28, 2019 8:08 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
felixis99: I agree that it's far to easy to focus on negativity. It pushes our buttons. A lot has to do with the anonymity of posting online. Even if one's identity is known there is physical and emotional distance that makes it "safer" to express negative commentary. I also agree that the more time one spends in negative bashing, the more the mind feeds on that and it cycles permanently to form ones state of mind.

I think people in the forums here tend to bring baggage or rejection from previous relationships, and can't let go of it long enough to consider that all men or women are not going to be like the previous partner that hurt them.
So nice to see you Felix wave Been a long time.

I agree that people in the forums bring baggage from their previous lifestyle whether it be loss of a job or loved one through divorce. There is so much tension in the world it's difficult for me to say it's not my problem so then I worry about everything.
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Sep 28, 2019 8:31 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
secretagent09: So nice to see you Felix Been a long time.

I agree that people in the forums bring baggage from their previous lifestyle whether it be loss of a job or loved one through divorce. There is so much tension in the world it's difficult for me to say it's not my problem so then I worry about everything.
It can be hard to optimistic sometimes. I used to do a lot of environmental activism back in the day, and one phrase that was tossed around a lot was " think globally, act locally" It made a lot of sense then and I think it makes a lot of sense in this context now. We can be concerned about world issues, but need to focus on things that we can really impact. A kind comment a least once a day. Recycle and purchase fewer items with lots of packaging. Buy local produce in season. Use less water and electric. Conserve gasoline Buy glass instead of plastic, don't litter. clean up after after oneself, be honest, follow the golden rule. Plant a tree. The world will be a better place if we collectively do what we can in our own little worlds wave peace
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Sep 29, 2019 12:13 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
jlvlv
jlvlvjlvlvLas Vegas, Nevada USA33 Posts
It's called reality and dealing with self-absorbed takers for too long!
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Sep 29, 2019 12:25 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
felixis99: It can be hard to optimistic sometimes. I used to do a lot of environmental activism back in the day, and one phrase that was tossed around a lot was " think globally, act locally" It made a lot of sense then and I think it makes a lot of sense in this context now. We can be concerned about world issues, but need to focus on things that we can really impact. A kind comment a least once a day. Recycle and purchase fewer items with lots of packaging. Buy local produce in season. Use less water and electric. Conserve gasoline Buy glass instead of plastic, don't litter. clean up after after oneself, be honest, follow the golden rule. Plant a tree. The world will be a better place if we collectively do what we can in our own little worlds
Hiya Felix wave
Well said.
Sage advice.
One day at work, as I was walking down the hallway, I smiled at a student.
He grinned back.
Later that day, the CA came by and thanked me...saying that, for that student it would probably be the only smile he received that day.
That really touched me, and changed me. Since that day I consciously, and genuinely, smile at someone everyday. It reminds me that we are all connected.
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Sep 30, 2019 4:21 PM CST Why is there so much other-gender hatred in the cs forums ?
wave Ladies & Gents wave
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