done the beautiful , to busy , ended up dirt poor raising kids myself , I'll be taking the dirt poor beauty thanks . It is a crime against humanity to breed ugly kids .
M4_Mischief: someone whose animal magnetism makes me want to jump his bones right there on the spot just by being in the same room with him....someone who can make me belly laugh because he's so damn goofy....someone who I never have to question my trust in him...the fact that he has my back and his word.....
But SERIOUSLY I'd not 'settle' for anything less than authentic
Those who settle for less generally realise their short term pleasure will be like usurious credit card debt - for the rest of your life you'll never be free of the pain that follows the brief pleasure of (whatever) you bought !
Emm...i'm disappointed. Just a little. Most comments to this poll state their choice on the subject, not the poll options. Yes, of course, most respondees reject compromise yadda yadda, but that wasn't the question. To reiterate, the question was, if you HAD TO CHOOSE, what would your choice be? The aim of the poll was an amateur psychoanalysis to tease out people's values, their values in a list of compromises. Life is a compromise, right? Most of the time, we never get what we want, it's always a compromise. Do you see the strategy, amigos?
PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
Beautyful but dirt poor. I make enough money to make us both happy, and I can buy her beautyfull clothes and a regular hair do. At the moment I often go to the pub, for living alone gives me not much reason to go home early after work. When I have a beautyful wife at home waiting, I have a reason to go home.
OnlyLiveTwice: Emm...i'm disappointed. Just a little. Most comments to this poll state their choice on the subject, not the poll options. Yes, of course, most respondees reject compromise yadda yadda, but that wasn't the question. To reiterate, the question was, if you HAD TO CHOOSE, what would your choice be? The aim of the poll was an amateur psychoanalysis to tease out people's values, their values in a list of compromises. Life is a compromise, right? Most of the time, we never get what we want, it's always a compromise. Do you see the strategy, amigos?
actually it not...its a series of choices and we are always free to choose....we don't have to compromise ourselves and what we want for anybody....we don't have to settle and we certainly don't have to choose someone just because they're there.....we can also choose not to choose and remain single....
Someone who isn't self righteous...I like to live my life care free as life is to short and as far as I'm concerned self righteousness is null & void in my book.
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