What do you say to an ex you don’t want to see but have to see closely at a social event in a swimmi (53)
"Yikes!"
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MustangWriter: "Yikes!"
oh that’s going to help.------ This poll is Archived ------
Do you want psychological warfare or to just be ignored?
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Stan_147: Do you want psychological warfare or to just be ignored?
Thanks fir asking. I’m not into drama and ignoring each other isnt going to be an option.------ This poll is Archived ------
You don’t have to say nothing, unless out of kindness
say hi and keep moving
say hi and keep moving
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Packersbabe1: You don’t have to say nothing, unless out of kindness
say hi and keep moving
I get that Packersbabe. Problem is she still owns most of the real-estate In my natural cardiac pump.say hi and keep moving
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galrads: I get that Packersbabe. Problem is she still owns most of the real-estate In my natural cardiac pump.
I did say, you can say hi
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Packersbabe1: I did say, you can say hi
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What if she wants to hold a conversation, after that?
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Packersbabe1: You don’t have to say nothing, unless out of kindness
say hi and keep moving
I don't know why, but the following comes to mind after reading this thread:say hi and keep moving
(several authors of the same thing--Dolly Parton, Phil McGraw, etc...)
"Try to take the high road. There's less traffic up there, anyway".
so, if you find yourself in an awkward situation such as mentioned, be as courteous as possible. It is less regrettable, at least. JMO
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rohaan: I don't know why, but the following comes to mind after reading this thread:
(several authors of the same thing--Dolly Parton, Phil McGraw, etc...)
"Try to take the high road. There's less traffic up there, anyway".
so, if you find yourself in an awkward situation such as mentioned, be as courteous as possible. It is less regrettable, at least. JMO
I agree be courteous by saying hello and then immediately turn your back and walk away.(several authors of the same thing--Dolly Parton, Phil McGraw, etc...)
"Try to take the high road. There's less traffic up there, anyway".
so, if you find yourself in an awkward situation such as mentioned, be as courteous as possible. It is less regrettable, at least. JMO
It will hurt her feelings but she will get the message.
Avoid her at all costs during the party. Make yourself always be talking to somebody else.
Whatever you do don't say.......Hey, howya doing cause that encourages her to tell you how she's doing.
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Packersbabe1: What if she wants to hold a
conversation, after that?
I don’t know but I doubt it. She txt msgs me, asks a question, i’ll text back with a reply, then she’ll text me again with some kind of shirt comment 18 to 24 hours later closing with ‘ “take care, love you, (name withheld)” conversation, after that?
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galrads: I don’t know but I doubt it. She txt msgs me, asks a question, i’ll text back with a prompt reply, then she’ll text me again with some kind of shirt comment 18 to 24 hours later closing with ‘ “take care, love you, (name withheld)”
Short not shirt 
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secretagent09: I agree be courteous by saying hello and then immediately turn your back and walk away.
It will hurt her feelings but she will get the message.
Avoid her at all costs during the party. Make yourself always be talking to somebody else.
Whatever you do don't say.......Hey, howya doing cause that encourages her to tell you how she's doing.
Thanks, secretagent, i like the idea of turning my back after a brief greet but doing that i think is going to get a bad reaction from mostly her friends in the pool. I’m not sure but this might be easier if she had regular clothes on and not in a swimming pool. It will hurt her feelings but she will get the message.
Avoid her at all costs during the party. Make yourself always be talking to somebody else.
Whatever you do don't say.......Hey, howya doing cause that encourages her to tell you how she's doing.
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rohaan: I don't know why, but the following comes to mind after reading this thread:
(several authors of the same thing--Dolly Parton, Phil McGraw, etc...)
"Try to take the high road. There's less traffic up there, anyway".
so, if you find yourself in an awkward situation such as mentioned, be as courteous as possible. It is less regrettable, at least. JMO
Your opinion is valued. Don’t see you around the forums much. Hope all is well your way. (several authors of the same thing--Dolly Parton, Phil McGraw, etc...)
"Try to take the high road. There's less traffic up there, anyway".
so, if you find yourself in an awkward situation such as mentioned, be as courteous as possible. It is less regrettable, at least. JMO
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unless you're being handcuffed and taken against your will....you don't even have to attend said social gathering....so if you don't want to see the ex....guess what...you don't have to.......
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M4_Mischief: unless you're being handcuffed and taken against your will....you don't even have to attend said social gathering....so if you don't want to see the ex....guess what...you don't have to.......
True but its an infrequent swim event thing we both like. So it sounds like I should stay at one end and her at the other. ------ This poll is Archived ------
Ok, after reading, the only advice I can offer is...
Bourbon.
Bourbon.
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galrads: I get that Packersbabe. Problem is she still owns most of the real-estate In my natural cardiac pump.
Time for you to go find yourself a real good therapist and get her the hell off your property!She ' owns ' nothing and saying so is you self victimising and blaming her instead of accepting responsibility for your own feelings!
" to thine self be true ...' actually BE your own man !
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HexagonKeySet: Time for you to go find yourself a real good therapist and get her the hell off your property!
She ' owns ' nothing and saying so is you self victimising and blaming her instead of accepting responsibility for your own feelings!
" to thine self be true ...' actually BE your own man !
Im not sure what blame you are talking about but there are always three sides to every story. His side, her side and the truth. She ' owns ' nothing and saying so is you self victimising and blaming her instead of accepting responsibility for your own feelings!
" to thine self be true ...' actually BE your own man !
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galrads: Im not sure what blame you are talking about but there are always three sides to every story. His side, her side and the truth.
Only going on what Ewe wrote sheepy!
If a guy tells me an ex 'owns his heart' then 100% he hasn't moved on and he's blaming her for ( for example) feeling inadequate and not knowing how to behave around her !
“Above all, don't lie to yourself. The man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point that he cannot distinguish the truth within him, or around him, and so loses all respect for himself and for others. And having no respect he ceases to love.”
? Fyodor
Dostoevsky, The Brothers Karamazov
But Fyodor was a Russian and well, we know how you guys about Russians so from dear ole Eleanor ( Roosevelt)
" No one can make you feel inferior without you give your permission "
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galrads: Im not sure what blame you are talking about but there are always three sides to every story. His side, her side and the truth.
Send her a link to your signature tune :-) ...
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When my ex walks around the corner you see he's obese guts first..He's so obese he can't see over he's guts so I'm safe.
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Mercedes_00: When my ex walks around the corner you see he's obese guts first..He's so obese he can't see over he's guts so I'm safe.
Sounds like you me about 0.8M tall then ... to be below gut level ?
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HexagonKeySet: Sounds like you me about 0.8M tall then ... to be below gut level ?
I'm taller than him.------ This poll is Archived ------
Can we still be friends....
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HexagonKeySet: Send her a link to your signature tune :-)
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Hahaha ‘the Stranglers’...
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galrads: Ok, I wont wear a speedo and handicap myself. Be worth it. I’ll stay in the deep end; she will have the shallow end. I still have to walk past her on the water
Wow ... you can walk on water ?Shhhhhh cos the last bloke who did that got himself nailed up !!!
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HexagonKeySet: Wow ... you can walk on water ?
Shhhhhh cos the last bloke who did that got himself nailed up !!!
Shhhhhh cos the last bloke who did that got himself nailed up !!!
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I say nothing at all ??
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