I dated someone who didn't handle his finances well. I broke up with him because of that and other things. He lost everything and went back home to live with his mother.....two years ago. He is still there. She is around 85 years old. He's hoping she will heave her condo to him. He is 54 years old.
secretagent09: I dated someone who didn't handle his finances well. I broke up with him because of that and other things. He lost everything and went back home to live with his mother.....two years ago. He is still there. She is around 85 years old. He's hoping she will heave her condo to him. He is 54 years old.
Nuff said ...
I wonder she has something like a reverse mortgage going on. That would shock him on her passing.
galrads: I wonder she has something like a reverse mortgage going on. That would shock him on her passing.
No, she has another son who is very careful with his money. I'm sure she knows that this son will blow the money and destroy the condo. My guess is that her Will says the condo should be sold and they share the money but they wouldn't give him a place to live. He can't afford to buy out his brother.
secretagent09: No, she has another son who is very careful with his money. I'm sure she knows that this son will blow the money and destroy the condo. My guess is that her Will says the condo should be sold and they share the money but they wouldn't give him a place to live. He can't afford to buy out his brother.
Wow, I would be glad to get oit of that situation ,
Draegoneer: I would have to take into consideration as to why that adult aged child is still living at home.
Disabilities? Recent marital issues and it's only temporary?
There are reasonable possibilities why a situation would warrant a 38 year old still at home.
If it's because the apron strings were never untied among other similarities; no way in hell.
Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home? Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
galrads: Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home? Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
Another hell no.
I'm not in a relation ship yet, and may not be for a while yet again.
Already with the current woman I've been seeing, she has a 31 year old son that treats her like crap, has been to prison, behind on child support. He does hold a job at current but still expects to sponge off mom(and his girlfriend that is also treated like crap). Mom complains yet says nothing will ever hurt her son etc.
She clearly leans toward other ideas and plans as far as an "us" goes, even though I'm already at the walk away and leave it alone point.
galrads: Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home? Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
Galrads you appear to keep asking questions of strangers on the internet hypothetical questions, yet it seems that they are actually about a relationship you're in that you have many doubts about.
My suggestion would be to remove yourself from that situation
serene56: Galrads you appear to keep asking questions of strangers on the internet hypothetical questions, yet it seems that they are actually about a relationship you're in that you have many doubts about.
My suggestion would be to remove yourself from that situation
Thank you for your observation and suggestion serene.
I'm not in a relation ship yet, and may not be for a while yet again.
Already with the current woman I've been seeing, she has a 31 year old son that treats her like crap, has been to prison, behind on child support. He does hold a job at current but still expects to sponge off mom(and his girlfriend that is also treated like crap). Mom complains yet says nothing will ever hurt her son etc.
She clearly leans toward other ideas and plans as far as an "us" goes, even though I'm already at the walk away and leave it alone point.
If I were you mate I'd run from that situation, run and never look back.
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