Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ? ( Archived) (38)

Nov 5, 2019 2:16 PM CSTWould you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio, USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts

Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?(Vote Below)

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As usual, I’m Curious if you would you date someone whose 38 year old child still lived at home. wave
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Nov 5, 2019 2:25 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyCoral Bay, Paphos, Paphos Cyprus368 Threads 6 Polls 6,885 Posts
My God do you still live at home Galwow
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Nov 5, 2019 2:36 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
tomcatty: My God do you still live at home Gal


yes, my home rolling on the floor laughing banana
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Nov 5, 2019 2:37 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
Not2seriously
Not2seriouslyNot2seriouslyle Marais Paris & SmallTown CO, Ile-de-France France6 Threads 184 Posts
Only if she had seventeen cats and four pit bulls.

That way I would know that she is a very caring person.
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Nov 5, 2019 2:38 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
professor I kinda doubt it, She could be my Daughterlaugh
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Nov 5, 2019 2:52 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Post a short bio of the guy and I'll have a think if I know someone who could date him. popcorn
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Nov 5, 2019 2:53 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Not2seriously: Only if she had seventeen cats and four pit bulls.

That way I would know that she is a very caring person.
If you all lived in China I would think something much different.
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Nov 5, 2019 2:54 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
I dated someone who didn't handle his finances well. I broke up with him because of that and other things. He lost everything and went back home to live with his mother.....two years ago. He is still there. She is around 85 years old. He's hoping she will heave her condo to him. He is 54 years old.

Nuff said ...
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Nov 5, 2019 2:59 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: I dated someone who didn't handle his finances well. I broke up with him because of that and other things. He lost everything and went back home to live with his mother.....two years ago. He is still there. She is around 85 years old. He's hoping she will heave her condo to him. He is 54 years old.

Nuff said ...
I wonder she has something like a reverse mortgage going on. That would shock him on her passing. wave
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Nov 5, 2019 3:09 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
galrads: I wonder she has something like a reverse mortgage going on. That would shock him on her passing.
No, she has another son who is very careful with his money. I'm sure she knows that this son will blow the money and destroy the condo. My guess is that her Will says the condo should be sold and they share the money but they wouldn't give him a place to live. He can't afford to buy out his brother.
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Nov 5, 2019 3:20 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
secretagent09: No, she has another son who is very careful with his money. I'm sure she knows that this son will blow the money and destroy the condo. My guess is that her Will says the condo should be sold and they share the money but they wouldn't give him a place to live. He can't afford to buy out his brother.
Wow, I would be glad to get oit of that situation
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Nov 5, 2019 3:56 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
well, if it is a very lovely good looking girl, why not, then I can make love to them both laugh laugh laugh
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Nov 5, 2019 5:28 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
no.,.....tongue
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Nov 5, 2019 5:33 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
Oh No
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Nov 5, 2019 6:51 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
sure.
i can think of many good reasons for a 38 year old to still live at home, and many benefits.
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Nov 5, 2019 6:52 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
jono7: sure.
i can think of many good reasons for a 38 year old to still live at home, and many benefits.
ps.... if i was single
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Nov 5, 2019 7:03 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
jono7: ps.... if i was single
I guess i should have been more specific with the situation details.

wave jono
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Nov 5, 2019 7:10 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
I would have to take into consideration as to why that adult aged child is still living at home.

Disabilities? Recent marital issues and it's only temporary?

There are reasonable possibilities why a situation would warrant a 38 year old still at home.

If it's because the apron strings were never untied among other similarities; no way in hell.
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Nov 5, 2019 7:17 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Draegoneer: I would have to take into consideration as to why that adult aged child is still living at home.

Disabilities? Recent marital issues and it's only temporary?

There are reasonable possibilities why a situation would warrant a 38 year old still at home.

If it's because the apron strings were never untied among other similarities; no way in hell.
Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home?
Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
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Nov 5, 2019 8:06 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
No way....... I don't want to be quiet in the heat of passion.
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Nov 5, 2019 8:10 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
No way Jose
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Nov 5, 2019 8:21 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads: Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home?
Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
Another hell no.

I'm not in a relation ship yet, and may not be for a while yet again.

Already with the current woman I've been seeing, she has a 31 year old son that treats her like crap, has been to prison, behind on child support. He does hold a job at current but still expects to sponge off mom(and his girlfriend that is also treated like crap). Mom complains yet says nothing will ever hurt her son etc.

She clearly leans toward other ideas and plans as far as an "us" goes, even though I'm already at the walk away and leave it alone point.
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Nov 6, 2019 12:40 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
If I was into three sums
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Nov 6, 2019 12:43 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
amrick81
amrick81amrick81MIAMI, Florida USA8 Posts
I guess the assumption is they failed as a parent if their child is that old and living at home. Or they're freeloading off their dumba** child?
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Nov 6, 2019 1:17 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
HotrodLarrys: I kinda doubt it, She could be my Daughter
I guess I misunderstood that the CHILD was 38frustrated


But I tried something similar to that a few years ago, and it was not a good outcomescold



NEVER AGAIN!pointing
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Nov 6, 2019 1:43 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
galrads: Well... What if your girlfriend and her 38-year old daughter were well and your girlfriends daughter didn't want to work and was a slacker with many boyfriends in and out of your girlfriends 1100 sq ft home?
Not to forget to mention your girlfriends daughter didn’t save any money but just quit a secure six-figure job and drove a new jaguar. Now the daughter wants to go to school and get certified to sell real estate in a different state when its all over. The daughter could have done the study part while still employed in the secure job.
Galrads you appear to keep asking questions of strangers on the internet hypothetical questions, yet it seems that they are actually about a relationship you're in that you have many doubts about.

My suggestion would be to remove yourself from that situation handshake
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Nov 6, 2019 7:31 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
serene56: Galrads you appear to keep asking questions of strangers on the internet hypothetical questions, yet it seems that they are actually about a relationship you're in that you have many doubts about.

My suggestion would be to remove yourself from that situation
Thank you for your observation and suggestion serene. handshake
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Nov 6, 2019 7:34 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Younger people need to be twice as good to afford half the house. To be middle class these days is a challenge and not a given.
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Nov 6, 2019 8:30 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
ChesneyChrist: Younger people need to be twice as good to afford half the house. To be middle class these days is a challenge and not a given.
That’s right, not a given... al the younger people need to do is get a J.O.B. Sweat a little and stick with it. wave
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Nov 6, 2019 9:01 AM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
Maybe, as long as I don't have to tuck the little rug rat in at night... drinking
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Nov 6, 2019 12:40 PM CST Would you date someone whose 38 year old child lived at home ?
Draegoneer: Another hell no.

I'm not in a relation ship yet, and may not be for a while yet again.

Already with the current woman I've been seeing, she has a 31 year old son that treats her like crap, has been to prison, behind on child support. He does hold a job at current but still expects to sponge off mom(and his girlfriend that is also treated like crap). Mom complains yet says nothing will ever hurt her son etc.

She clearly leans toward other ideas and plans as far as an "us" goes, even though I'm already at the walk away and leave it alone point.
If I were you mate I'd run from that situation, run and never look back.
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