What is it that you're looking for? Men and woman a like are always complaining about money issues. Why are woman soooooo shallow? Why are men sooo stingy? I mean is this really a good classification to put one another in. Aren't we all looking for a sort of stability? Then why not just be honest about our money motives? Where do you land in the whole scope of things?
I replied looking for equal, but that is not exactly true. I believe we will never be equals, but in a long term relationship you learn to work out those differences and usually end up trying things you never thought you would.
sassy49senior: I replied looking for equal, but that is not exactly true. I believe we will never be equals, but in a long term relationship you learn to work out those differences and usually end up trying things you never thought you would.
I guess I was speaking more of a $$$ fashion. I have just come from a worker's gathering where we just talked of money and devision of labour based upon money and responsiblity.
Over all we felt that those w/ the large paycheck could become a little over inflated. I just wondered if people thought that could happen in a realtionship. It's kind of nice when we meet someone who views our work and monitary involvment as equal to their own.
I've supported myself for 17+ years. I supported me & my ex when I was married, because he worked when he felt like it. Now, it'd be nice to share the burden. But if it doesn't happen, so be it. Life goes on & I have fun.
Hugz_n_Kissez: Money has nothing to do with it for me...I do and always have supported myself and my 2 kids....matters of the heart and soul for me...he could have Donald Trumps money and be an a**hole and I still wouldn't have anything to do with him...The important things to me in life can't be bought....nor can my own peace of mind....
I have to agree. I married a poor jerk who worked when & where he felt like. Then I dated a guy with plenty of money who didn't trust me with it. Both were HELL!!! I just want someone who believes & trusts in me to know that I just want to enjoy life.
sweetowen: I've supported myself for 17+ years. I supported me & my ex when I was married, because he worked when he felt like it. Now, it'd be nice to share the burden. But if it doesn't happen, so be it. Life goes on & I have fun.
the more I read your replies , the more I fall for your inner woman..
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For the Woman, Inspired by another poll. . . .(Vote Below)
Is it money talks and bullsh!t walks?
Or matters of the heart and soul?