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Dec 29, 2008 4:00 PM CSTIf a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England, UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts

If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;(Vote Below)

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a whore
26
15%
a stud and therefore a treasure
23
13%
a honey
14
8%
a dream fulfiller
12
7%
fuck*ed in the head
9
5%
a lost cause
15
9%
without a hope
5
3%
something else - please state
31
18%
something to be used and tossed aside
19
11%
a useless piece of shi*
17
10%
Total Votes
171
Why should the judgmet fall on women - men who do this are just as much to blame laugh

Add your own categories if I have missed some.........
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Dec 29, 2008 4:04 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
trish123: Why should the judgmet fall on women - men who do this are just as much to blame

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Trish...love you for this. hug laugh

I voted something else...he's just a man, and it was mutual. After all, it wouldn't happen without my consent. I pity the man that would ever try that again. laugh wine
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Dec 29, 2008 4:07 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia147 Threads 2 Polls 14,452 Posts
trish123: Why should the judgmet fall on women - men who do this are just as much to blame

Add your own categories if I have missed some.........


Why should there be any blame, if 2 people consent?

A good news story here: An old friend of my son's father, went to England to work as a doctor. Met a nurse, had a so-called 'one night stand'. Well, they got married and have 3 children, and live here in Oz. They are very happy.

cheers
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Dec 29, 2008 4:07 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
druidess6308: Trish...love you for this.

I voted something else...he's just a man, and it was mutual. After all, it wouldn't happen without my consent. I pity the man that would ever try that again.


Same here Darling, I have been celibate for the most of the last 10/12 yrs but if I chose to sleep with somebody tomorrow, in some peoples eyes it could make me a whore - go figure rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 29, 2008 4:09 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
A useless piece of shitbarf
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Dec 29, 2008 4:09 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK100 Threads 13,444 Posts
trish123: Same here Darling, I have been celibate for the most of the last 10/12 yrs but if I chose to sleep with somebody tomorrow, in some peoples eyes it could make me a whore - go figure
nice one trish thumbs up and a very valid point
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Dec 29, 2008 4:10 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
venere08: Why should there be any blame, if 2 people consent?

A good news story here: An old friend of my son's father, went to England to work as a doctor. Met a nurse, had a so-called 'one night stand'. Well, they got married and have 3 children, and live here in Oz. They are very happy.


Great for them Venere - I hope they and you are having a great holiday thumbs up

say hello to riz for me and thanks for his thumbs up on that last thread


laugh

hug
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Dec 29, 2008 4:11 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
cristina: A useless piece of shit


why do you see it that way Cristina?
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Dec 29, 2008 4:12 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
morgan5: nice one trish and a very valid point


Hey Morgan hug
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Dec 29, 2008 4:12 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
vinny1967
vinny1967vinny1967Dublin, Cork Ireland163 Threads 9 Polls 16,914 Posts
Yeah it was definitely somethin else..........please state confused

He is a


































Man grin Cause we are worth it tongue
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Dec 29, 2008 4:12 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123: Why should the judgmet fall on women - men who do this are just as much to blame

Add your own categories if I have missed some.........


He is a person just like the rest of us not any better or worse. No judgment call on that one from me.
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Dec 29, 2008 4:13 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
trish123: why do you see it that way Cristina?


What?laugh

help
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Dec 29, 2008 4:16 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
One time, I had been 6 yrs celibate and let the guy know and he pretended to take it as seriously as I was doing, had been speaking to him on messenger for weeks, thought it was really serious - I shagg*d him and in the morning he was gone - my mistake - my big mistake - but is it important that Im a woman?
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Dec 29, 2008 4:18 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
Ricco
RiccoRiccoSan Cristobal, Buenos Aires Argentina14 Threads 656 Posts
You shouldn't jodge a man because the Lady took him on her top on the first date!
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Dec 29, 2008 4:18 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
pubwrite08
pubwrite08pubwrite08Columbus, Georgia USA18 Threads 3,630 Posts
I know I have been celibate for... years, God it seems like forever. But if I decided to have sex with somebody.... welp. I do not think I would be concerned about what he was when it was all over. If he is any good, I may call him back.
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Dec 29, 2008 4:19 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
Ricco: You shouldn't jodge a man because the Lady took him on her top on the first date!


Ricco, long time no see. You in Italy now?wink cheers
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Dec 29, 2008 4:20 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123: One time, I had been 6 yrs celibate and let the guy know and he pretended to take it as seriously as I was doing, had been speaking to him on messenger for weeks, thought it was really serious - I shagg*d him and in the morning he was gone - my mistake - my big mistake - but is it important that Im a woman?


We can't always tell who is going to stick around and who's not sometimes people talk a good game but really that's all it was to them is a game. Thank god there are plenty of nongamers out there too.teddybear
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Dec 29, 2008 4:20 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
Let me put a different light to this....

If there isn't at least.....

one man....

and one woman....

nobody gets shagged right?

The point is.....what's the worry?

Just keep on shagging people.....

dancing dancing dancing dancing
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Dec 29, 2008 4:21 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
trish123: One time, I had been 6 yrs celibate and let the guy know and he pretended to take it as seriously as I was doing, had been speaking to him on messenger for weeks, thought it was really serious - I shagg*d him and in the morning he was gone - my mistake - my big mistake - but is it important that Im a woman?


Maybe he thought you would want him forever since you've been for long without it?dunno
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Dec 29, 2008 4:24 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina: A useless piece of shit


Heck Cristina .....I was thinking of posting this when I saw your post....... Great minds think alike.. wink

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 29, 2008 4:25 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa99 Threads 2,751 Posts
If a man sleeps with you on the first date it's pretty obvious - you're the tart - who let him!!!










snooty
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Dec 29, 2008 4:28 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
Lillym: Heck Cristina .....I was thinking of posting this when I saw your post....... Great minds think alike..


Yeah? Right, now you explain her why!grin

laugh super
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Dec 29, 2008 4:30 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
Apostophe: If a man sleeps with you on the first date it's pretty obvious - you're the tart - who let him!!!



So if the lady is the tart......

what does that make the guy?

the cream on top?

nerd
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Dec 29, 2008 4:31 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
gozoman2: So if the lady is the tart......

what does that make the guy?

the cream on top?


Heeeeey........what about the cherry? laugh
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Dec 29, 2008 4:31 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
gozoman2: So if the lady is the tart......

what does that make the guy?

the cream on top?


No...the creme filling. rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 29, 2008 4:32 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
trish123: Why should the judgmet fall on women - men who do this are just as much to blame

Add your own categories if I have missed some.........


For me, I said other b/c I would hope it was one that was staying for the long haul.hug hug
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Dec 29, 2008 4:33 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
Apostophe: If a man sleeps with you on the first date it's pretty obvious - you're the tart - who let him!!!


Tartidea

Ik heb een apple tarje, ik zal er/het(?) nu eten, mmmm, ik kome zo met ééngotta go
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Dec 29, 2008 4:37 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia20 Threads 3 Polls 1,500 Posts
Lillym: Heck Cristina .....I was thinking of posting this when I saw your post....... Great minds think alike..



ah your missing point here ladies, the vote here is, if a man sleep with you on first date, well for that to happen, it would have to be consenual sex, so how can a "man be a useless piece of shit" if the women also was in agreement with it...

confused
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Dec 29, 2008 4:39 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia147 Threads 2 Polls 14,452 Posts
trish123: Great for them Venere - I hope they and you are having a great holiday

say hello to riz for meand thanks for his thumbs up on that last thread


Hi trish,

Oh, dear, not you, too! sigh I am NOT involved with riz. As lovely a man as he is, it is Australia1 who is.

I have already alerted him to the fact that he needs to be careful about saying he is in love with an Australian lady, without adding that it is... did I mention, 'Australia1'? drinking

teddybear
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Dec 29, 2008 4:47 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
maybesoon: ah your missing point here ladies, the vote here is, if a man sleep with you on first date, well for that to happen, it would have to be consenual sex, so how can a "man be a useless piece of shit" if the women also was in agreement with it...


we seem to have a lot in common my friend...

agreed.
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Dec 29, 2008 4:50 PM CST If a man sleeps with you on the first date is he;
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands323 Threads 15 Polls 22,257 Posts
maybesoon: ah your missing point here ladies, the vote here is, if a man sleep with you on first date, well for that to happen, it would have to be consenual sex, so how can a "man be a useless piece of shit" if the women also was in agreement with it...




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