How many poor men have...had to pay for children...that are their own and may never know the truth It's just another thing to add to the massive list...of bad behaviour of so many women Women could be so much better and it's so disappointing...to see...what kind of evil activities...women have been getting upto...do they have any love at all...in their hearts for men...or is it all about using a men...for money and treating men like crap
How many poor men have...had to pay for children...that are "not" their own and may never know the truth. It's just another thing to add to the massive list...of bad behaviour of so many women. Women could be so much better and it's so disappointing...to see...what kind of evil activities...women have been getting upto...do they have any love at all...in their hearts for men...or is it all about using a men...for money and treating men like crap
What was meant in my post is that the man has the right to know if he is not the father and let to decide what to do, if he wants to be father of the child or not... The father of my son actually was married to a woman who just had a baby and he adopted the child...
That might be what you meant but it's not what you said.
You made it straightforward by saying it's unfair to provide for a child that isn't blood of the man you are seeing. (paraphrased)
I agree that a man has the right to know if his child is really his child.
However, in the meantime, legalities should be set aside when it comes to the welfare of a child.
secretagent09: That might be what you meant but it's not what you said.
You made it straightforward by saying it's unfair to provide for a child that isn't blood of the man you are seeing. (paraphrased)
I agree that a man has the right to know if his child is really his child.
However, in the meantime, legalities should be set aside when it comes to the welfare of a child.
That's just my American opinion
Actually I said that paying for the child is the least unfair thing here, because man's trust has been betrayed and his freedom of choice has been walked over... when a man is made to believe it's his child when it's not... I believe it was clear enough the way I said it...
pKrema: I think you just went too far on reading in your own way a simple sentence I posted... Countries? Different values? What on Earth are you talking about? No oranges or apples under a pear tree...
I didn't go "too far" in reading your first sentence. When someone writes an opinion I take it that it is their own personal opinion.
Your opinion is that it's unfair for a man to shell out money for a child that might not be his own.
I understand that but if you had continued your sentence with some sort of compassion for the child I would have respected your opinion.
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good point ,but we already have mandatory vaccination tho vaccines are not a cure - which means you are deliberate infecting a healthy human with some viruses to create immunity- killing natural immunity , based on assumptions -``you may catch a virus ``
Its mandatory to know the owner of a car or house during a transaction , its mandatory to have a bunch of numbers in your birth certificate - unique identification number - long story short - some laws are good, some are bad- in this particular case -a mandatory Paternity Tests seems as step in the right direction
secretagent09: I didn't go "too far" in reading your first sentence. When someone writes an opinion I take it that it is their own personal opinion.
Your opinion is that it's unfair for a man to shell out money for a child that might not be his own.
I understand that but if you had continued your sentence with some sort of compassion for the child I would have respected your opinion.
I understand that is a little too deep for you.
Don't worry about it. The OP has the answer
I said that spending money on a kid that's not his is the LEAST UNFAIR thing in this case... Because there are obviously more important things ... It's not about the child, it's about the right of a man to know if the child is his or not... As I mother I would never lie about such thing and that's why this question doesn't stand in my way at all... Jesus, I might not be perfect in English but, come on...
LeeCharming: Nope it's about stopping...women from paternity fraud...but someone like you is bound to twist it and try to put the blame on men...when women have to give consent for a child to be tested and if they refuse... man can't do a dam thing
It goes both ways Lee! If men can demand paternity tests so can women! The world doesn't exist just in your vision whether you like it or not.... I'm not twisting anything. I don't need to. What I describe is a fact.
It would be interesting to compare % of highest incidence. Men bringing children who aren't theird unbeknown to them OR men walking away from their responsibility once the mother of their child gets pregnant...
Selenite: It goes both ways Lee! If men can demand paternity tests so can women! The world doesn't exist just in your vision whether you like it or not.... I'm not twisting anything. I don't need to. What I describe is a fact.
It would be interesting to compare % of highest incidence. Men bringing children who aren't theird unbeknown to them OR men walking away from their responsibility once the mother of their child gets pregnant...
I'm not sure if it's a good thing or not, but a dna data base of sorts is already forming.
When people voluntarily do dna genealogy tests they're not just sharing their dna information, they are sharing large chunks of their extended family's dna information.
I've read about dna tested not being an exact mach for someone in the data base but being a familial match and an investigator being able to indentify the person from that.
LeeCharming: Maybe you can't accept...that another woman...won't agree with you and you think all women should agree by default
YOU SAID IN YOUR OPENING POST
"Vote and discuss"
That's what I did. I discussed it with her. I can accept it when someone doesn't agree with me. I can even accept your lack of knowledge about the subject.
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Should Paternity Tests…be mandatory?(Vote Below)
Stats show...that 1 in 3 men...are not the biological father...of the children he pays for.
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