No you would rather them lie u believe your Past and some content should stay hidden
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No just lie I won't be around long enough to know
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Yes that would be amazing sokeone who is upfront even if it horribly feelimgs
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Yes for the most part
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Just curious to know what otjers think anymore this worldbseems to have no loyalty respect or quality of life anymore not everyone os judgemental when your honest so lets see who has balls and who dont
When a person tell you something, you can only take there word for it, so you still wouldn’t know if they are being honest or not, like I been talking to this guy for a whole year, we went to Grammer school together, I just found out this year he’s been lying to me the whole time and I really thought he was telling the truth and he wasn’t, he lied cause he thought I was gone move him in, I actually was till I start putting the puzzle together, with a little help, that’s as far as I’m going cause it’s deep, glad I dodge a bullet tho people will lie, deceive you cause they think you’re weak
CossackCat: Honesty does not mean someone is a good, moral, law abiding individual
So you are saying honesty is not a good trait. I happen to disagree as honesty goes along with all other qualities as I have all the qualities. I am not perfect by any means but they are connected.
It is hard to find these qualities in a male unfortunately. Honesty seems hard to find as well as moral
There are degrees in every side of human interaction. I wouldn’t want him to lie about his feelings to me and what our relationship means to him. Nor would I want him to lie about significant events in his past. But I am of an opinion that a person is entitled for some private space – I myself need a lot – so he’s free to keep some parts of his soul to himself.
Oh the terrible fights and loss of friendships over “honesty”. I don’t know what to believe anymore. Franklin said “honesty is the best policy” but that is extremely situational. Corrie Tenboom could not have saved the refugees hiding in her attic if she had been “honest” with the Gestapo. Soldiers won’t survive if they’re “honest”. Things are not always what they seem, or what we would like to believe is fair and true. America would not be here had colonial citizens been lawful and truthful.
rohaan: Oh the terrible fights and loss of friendships over “honesty”. I don’t know what to believe anymore. Franklin said “honesty is the best policy” but that is extremely situational. Corrie Tenboom could not have saved the refugees hiding in her attic if she had been “honest” with the Gestapo. Soldiers won’t survive if they’re “honest”. Things are not always what they seem, or what we would like to believe is fair and true. America would not be here had colonial citizens been lawful and truthful.
The thread is created 'in the context' of a social / dating site and women;'s demands for honesty ... regrettably this puts 'Conversations with enemies who want to kill your friends' somewhat out of context.
But Tenboom understood that by lying she was placing her life on the line, a risk that she was willing to take vs certain death of her friends eh? A brave decision from an ethical and compassionate woman ...
America - well, that's interesting that you raise it.
Of course it would still have been there ( to dismiss that as a nonsense )
However, your history IS Indeed founded on those who cheated and stole ( from the British Crown who financed the explorations - as was the manner of the day ) and who rightfully expected ( according to contracts made ) to benefit by the acquisition of the territory and income from taxes etc.
Those involved at the time created the Foundations For American Dishonesty @ Governmental Level.
Trump is famed for ripping up contracts the he doesn't like and is not willing to honour ... but history shows ( and the American Tribal Peoples will attest ) that 'Cheating Lying and Stealing IS in fact 'The American Way'
So, Pompous Mick is something of a superstar for having said that so clearly ... the Ultimate Freudian Slip !
A man will play Mr Nice..But when he get's cranky thats when he becomes honest with the truth in how he really feels...Don't ya just hate any gender being like that?
Mercedes_00: A man will play Mr Nice..But when he get's cranky thats when he becomes honest with the truth in how he really feels...Don't ya just hate any gender being like that?
HexagonKeySet: The thread is created 'in the context' of a social / dating site and women;'s demands for honesty ... regrettably this puts 'Conversations with enemies who want to kill your friends' somewhat out of context.
But Tenboom understood that by lying she was placing her life on the line, a risk that she was willing to take vs certain death of her friends eh? A brave decision from an ethical and compassionate woman ...
America - well, that's interesting that you raise it.
Of course it would still have been there ( to dismiss that as a nonsense )
However, your history IS Indeed founded on those who cheated and stole ( from the British Crown who financed the explorations - as was the manner of the day ) and who rightfully expected ( according to contracts made ) to benefit by the acquisition of the territory and income from taxes etc.
Those involved at the time created the Foundations For American Dishonesty @ Governmental Level.
Trump is famed for ripping up contracts the he doesn't like and is not willing to honour ... but history shows ( and the American Tribal Peoples will attest ) that 'Cheating Lying and Stealing IS in fact 'The American Way'
So, Pompous Mick is something of a superstar for having said that so clearly ... the Ultimate Freudian Slip !
. So “honesty is the best policy” IS too broad a stroke, and sometimes, “honesty”, as it were, is NOT the best policy, after all.
I’m ok with little white lies if it’s done with good intentions the problem is once you discover someone has lied to you it’s hard to believe other things they tell you.
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