What is more important for a lasting relationship? ( Archived) (110)

Nov 10, 2020 10:12 AM CSTWhat is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio, USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts

What is more important for a lasting relationship?(Vote Below)

- (To Vote: select an option above, then press this button)
Chemistry
12
38%
Comparability
6
19%
Money
3
9%
Loyalty
11
34%
Total Votes
32
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Among the options, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why... wave
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Nov 10, 2020 10:17 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
2 people would helpgrin
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Nov 10, 2020 10:18 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
@gals


check out the twitter views
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Nov 10, 2020 10:35 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pedro27: @gals


check out the twitter views
dunno link please
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Nov 10, 2020 10:36 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
germanspitz: 2 people would help
Just two? laugh bouquet
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Nov 10, 2020 10:42 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads: Just two?
Trust you to lower the tone.rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 10, 2020 10:46 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
Honest and caring................why write reams.......if you. Have thos.
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Nov 10, 2020 11:14 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Loyalty and compatibility are important for a lasting relationshipwave
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Nov 10, 2020 11:21 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
If I knew the answer to that one I wouldn't be on CS laugh laugh
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Nov 10, 2020 11:25 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
Trust respect and understanding of each other..hug
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Nov 10, 2020 11:26 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: If I knew the answer to that one I wouldn't be on CS
I told you it would not last beyond six monthsvery happy
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Nov 10, 2020 11:30 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Interesting thread topic...to just pick one thing is not easy...cause a number of things are key to a long lasting relationship...if you look back at traditional relationships...all the ingredients existed for a long lasting marriage/relationship and most couples meant...till death us do partwink
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Nov 10, 2020 11:33 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: I told you it would not last beyond six months
Why would it matter to you Lee?

We had the balls to give it a try and be honest the whole way through ... we are both better people for it ...

This a was new territory for me as it happens as there was such an age gap... interesting ... laugh
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Nov 10, 2020 11:41 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: Interesting thread topic...to just pick one thing is not easy...cause a number of things are key to a long lasting relationship...if you look back at traditional relationships...all the ingredients existed for a long lasting marriage/relationship and most couples meant...till death us do part
Where you ever married?
Why did your last relationship break up? Did she leave you or did you leave her?
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Nov 10, 2020 11:50 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
There are many factors for a successful relationship
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Nov 10, 2020 11:52 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
lillipution: Loyalty and compatibility are important for a lasting relationship
I agree with you here. handshake
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Nov 10, 2020 11:55 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
TheDino1: Trust respect and understanding of each other..
No doubt they are. Here is my question again though ...
“Among the options”, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why

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Nov 10, 2020 11:56 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
ali110: There are many factors for a successful relationship
Yes, true Ali .... Here is my question again though ...
“Among the (pole) options”, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why

wave
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Nov 10, 2020 11:59 AM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Selenite: If I knew the answer to that one I wouldn't be on CS
Awe come on ... No
“Among the (Pole) options”, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why

wave
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Nov 10, 2020 12:02 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: Why would it matter to you Lee?
it don't bother me and just wanted to let you know...i told you sowink
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Nov 10, 2020 12:02 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
galrads: Awe come on ... No
“Among the (Pole) options”, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why
amongst the pole options ...

Compatibility
Chemistry

Getting those 2 right will hopefully take care of loyalty ...
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Nov 10, 2020 12:04 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: it don't bother me and just wanted to let you know...i told you so
rolling on the floor laughing

And what did you base your analysis on?
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Nov 10, 2020 12:04 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: Where you ever married?
Why did your last relationship break up? Did she leave you or did you leave her?
you have still not explained what happened in your previous relationship and as to why it endedgrin
I can't be giving you the ammo your looking forwink
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Nov 10, 2020 12:11 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: And what did you base your analysis on?
Just my understanding about certain types of women...in terms of age...attitude and stubbornness/being set in their ways..add to that...you wanting complete equality or perhaps dominance...as you were his mother figure and older tends to think wiser
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Nov 10, 2020 12:16 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: you have still not explained what happened in your previous relationship and as to why it ended
I can't be giving you the ammo your looking for
I did, you must have missed it ...
We both agreed that as much as we enjoyed our 3 month honeymoon lockdown, once life went back to near normal life, realised we were not compatible for everyday life together and agreed to "not live together", "not be a couple" and instead enjoy an honest friendship ...

Super simple ...


Wasn't looking for ammo ... was wondering how your views on relationships "till death do us part" impacted on your relationships and where they're buried rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Sorry couldn't help myself ... laugh Since you're the one writing, they must be the deceased ones... sigh
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Nov 10, 2020 12:19 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada3 Threads 907 Posts
I said Chemistry, Gal.....

If two people don't have the "spark", they're not sticking around for the long haul. The spark keeps things going while the loyalty and respect kicks in.

Do I get a prize now????

please please please
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Nov 10, 2020 12:20 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
TheDino1
TheDino1TheDino1Belfast, Antrim Ireland139 Threads 1 Polls 5,029 Posts
galrads: No doubt they are. Here is my question again though ...
“Among the options”, which is more important for a lasting relationship? And Why
Okay, I guess out of them all it has to be compatibility, as a square peg don't fit in a round hole.. wave
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Nov 10, 2020 12:22 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada3 Threads 907 Posts
Selenite: I did, you must have missed it ...
We both agreed that as much as we enjoyed our 3 month honeymoon lockdown, once life went back to near normal life, realised we were not compatible for everyday life together and agreed to "not live together", "not be a couple" and instead enjoy an honest friendship ...

Super simple ...


Wasn't looking for ammo ... was wondering how your views on relationships "till death do us part" impacted on your relationships and where they're buried
Sorry couldn't help myself ... Since you're the one writing, they must be the deceased ones...
I do believe that you answered that same question for him a while back.........

conversing
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Nov 10, 2020 12:22 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Cranky_Geezer
Cranky_GeezerCranky_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA29 Threads 1 Polls 2,239 Posts
I didn't see an option for pizza. confused
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Nov 10, 2020 12:23 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Taralyn
TaralynTaralynFunk Island, Newfoundland Canada3 Threads 907 Posts
TheDino1: Okay, I guess out of them all it has to be compatibility, as a square peg don't fit in a round hole..
But sometimes you can get a round peg fit inside a square hole..........

wave
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Nov 10, 2020 12:23 PM CST What is more important for a lasting relationship?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: Just my understanding about certain types of women...in terms of age...attitude and stubbornness/being set in their ways..add to that...you wanting complete equality or perhaps dominance...as you were his mother figure and older tends to think wiser
Wrong on all counts ... on this occasion ...

Equality is not dominance and wisdom is wisdom no matter the age or the gender...
Anyone can be set in their ways, no matter their age and gender ...
Determination is sometimes confused for stubbornness ...

I already mentioned I would not disclose the details to respect the privacy of the other person even though they are not a CS member ...
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