Will your political views...limit who you date? (44)

Jan 7, 2021 8:54 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
yup I can add to my list- no one who does not honestly believe that men and women are equal - in terms of rights [but I will leave the sports arguments alone]laugh
Jan 9, 2021 8:59 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: Feminism is perceived very differently by different men and even women. So first we would have to have a conversation where we share what we think "feminism" means ... We might agree on the "principles" but not what we call it. In which case there is no cut off point
You seem fairly reasonable and willing to understand a man...before you decidewow
Are you saying...a man does not have to be a male feminist to date youconfused
Jan 9, 2021 9:06 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: You seem fairly reasonable and willing to understand a man...before you decide
Are you saying...a man does not have to be a male feminist to date you
I'm saying I don't care what he calls it as long as he sees women as having equal human rights as men in society, work place and home... Gender roles within our couple need not have a name either as long as we harmonise and fit like puzzle pieces acknowledging each others strengths and weaknesses according to who we are rather than "some external expectations" ... cool
Jan 9, 2021 9:08 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
felixis99: yup I can add to my list- no one who does not honestly believe that men and women are equal - in terms of rights [but I will leave the sports arguments alone]
Men and women are treated equally in terms of rights...but would also say...women are treated much better by the legal system and far more money is spent on women's causes...than mens...

If you really want eqaulity...it has to be 50/50 in every single thing...including the family courts...decisions on child birth...abolishing diversity quotas...that vastly favour women over men and a number of other thingswink
Jan 9, 2021 9:21 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: I'm saying I don't care what he calls it as long as he sees women as having equal human rights as men in society, work place and home... Gender roles within our couple need not have a name either as long as we harmonise and fit like puzzle pieces acknowledging each others strengths and weaknesses according to who we are rather than "some external expectations" ...
It's obvious to anyone...women have equal rights to men and I'm wondering if you want a man to repeat it like a parrotblah cause you feel some kind of superiority...over him when he says itconfused
Are you into the identity politicsconfused
Jan 9, 2021 9:49 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: It's obvious to anyone...women have equal rights to men and I'm wondering if you want a man to repeat it like a parrot cause you feel some kind of superiority...over him when he says it
Are you into the identity politics
How you assumed this from what I wrote is a mystery ...
Jan 9, 2021 10:18 AM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: How you assumed this from what I wrote is a mystery ...
Do you think...gender is a social construct and not biological? If so would you date a transgender person?
Jan 9, 2021 1:06 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: Do you think...gender is a social construct and not biological? If so would you date a transgender person?
I have no idea. I don't know enough about biology to answer your first question.

On the second question I have no idea unless I get presented with the situation ...

I know women don't attract me because I was "presented" with the option a couple of times and the answer was in no uncertain terms a resounding "nope" thank you very much but no! laugh
Jan 9, 2021 4:39 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: I know women don't attract me because I was "presented" with the option a couple of times and the answer was in no uncertain terms a resounding "nope" thank you very much but no!
I understand what you mean and in the past...I was presented with the option...but had to make it clear...I was only interested in women..we were on the same course at college...I thought of him as a friend...went to the pub often with him after college and had a laugh...I thought he fancied women as I do...but he was not honest with me and then one day at the pub...he told me about his feelings for me...admitted he was gay...I was not happy about his deception and turned down his advances...but was still friends with him...for a little while after...I knew his priority was finding a boyfriend and mine was finding a girlfriend...so the friendship was never going to last.

The lesson for people to learn is...friendship...can't be built on lies and deception...
Jan 9, 2021 5:12 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
I see you have a new profile Htongue rolling on the floor laughing doh
Jan 9, 2021 5:20 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
deviantsIice
deviantsIicedeviantsIiceWhy aye yer bugger, Tyne and Wear, England UK7 Threads 449 Posts
I've found your old profile pic.


Embedded image from another site
Jan 9, 2021 5:42 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Yes
15
68%
No
7
32%
Total Votes
22

wow
Jan 9, 2021 5:45 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
deviantsIice
deviantsIicedeviantsIiceWhy aye yer bugger, Tyne and Wear, England UK7 Threads 449 Posts
LeeCharming: Yes
15
68%
No
7
32%
Total Votes
22
Was there any votes for your profile pic. I'll not be able to sleep for half of my life unless I know.
Jan 9, 2021 6:18 PM CST Will your political views...limit who you date?
deviantsIice
deviantsIicedeviantsIiceWhy aye yer bugger, Tyne and Wear, England UK7 Threads 449 Posts
Come back you charming distributor of free thinking. People need answers.
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