Would you date someone who is? (48)

Jan 27, 2021 2:00 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
deedee123xo: What about a moral contract between two consenting adults..is that not worth more than a government and religious conjured one
I was just pointing out marriage is far different from long term relationship...cause the government are involved when people are married...so one of many good reasons for me to never consider marriage.

When I care about a woman...I don't need a wedding ring for her to know this and won't sign a contract...that puts me at risk...to being taken to the cleaners...no shared bank accounts for me either
Jan 27, 2021 2:34 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: Do you think doppelgangers exist
Lookalikes exist...but it's not the same as a double
What if you had a identical twin...you never knew about and she was telling me all your secrets
The doppelganger stories sound pretty wierd!! uh oh

A double is someone who looks identical but has their own life unlike the doppelganger stalker ... I have been told I had a double in a town I used to work at every Saturday morning about 1h30 away from where I lived ...


laugh @ identical twins ... if I never knew about my identical twin she could only tell you all her own secrets because she wouldn't know mine grin

I worked with identical twins for years in my language department when I was a teacher ... To me they didn't look identical because one had a slightly rounder face and a twinkle in her eye the other one lacked ... from further away you couldn't tell them apart. Many of the staff and students couldn't tell them apart even close up laugh
Jan 27, 2021 2:48 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
I don't know if any of you guys have watched this, but it broke my heart that these triplets were used as part of an experiment by an adoption agency...

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Jan 27, 2021 5:45 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
LeeCharming: not really the same...cause marriage vowels are....in sickness and in health...as long as you both shall live...till death us do part...a contract is made up and both must sign...in a long term relationship...no such contract is present and both parties could walk away....without legal action being taken

typo - without
Marriage vowels?

Gotta love your sense of humour..so funny, you posted it twice.....thumbs up

laugh
Jan 27, 2021 10:12 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Thinker463
Thinker463Thinker463East Central Kansas, Kansas USA1 Threads 4 Posts
So where is the "it doesn't matter" or maybe the "it all depends" option?
So many people are stuck on things that individuals don't always have control over, and they get judged for it. How can I say it's an automatic deal-breaker if a woman has been married and divorced 3 or more times if I don't know the circumstances? We have all done stupid things in our youth, sometimes it takes a while for us to mature and realize what led us to make those mistakes, and then make the necessary corrections.
That said, a woman having multiple children with multiple fathers regardless of marital status is more likely to be a red flag than just having been married and divorced. I would, however, NEVER even consider dating a woman who was currently married or separated as that's just asking for more trouble than you may want. And in the end, how could you ever trust such a person - they left one partner for you - so what would stop them from leaving you for a different partner in the future?
Jan 28, 2021 1:32 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: The doppelganger stories sound pretty wierd!!

A double is someone who looks identical but has their own life unlike the doppelganger stalker ... I have been told I had a double in a town I used to work at every Saturday morning about 1h30 away from where I lived ...


@ identical twins ... if I never knew about my identical twin she could only tell you all her own secrets because she wouldn't know mine

I worked with identical twins for years in my language department when I was a teacher ... To me they didn't look identical because one had a slightly rounder face and a twinkle in her eye the other one lacked ... from further away you couldn't tell them apart. Many of the staff and students couldn't tell them apart even close up
I can read a woman's mind..but my powers only work...if she is naked in person...or on skypewow grin

If a man could read your mind...what would you want him to readconfused
imagine if a man knew what you were thinking...the moment you were thinking it and
knew just what to say...he would be irresistible to you and what could you do to resist himconfused grin
Jan 28, 2021 2:34 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: I can read a woman's mind..but my powers only work...if she is naked in person...or on skype

laugh laugh you should be so lucky!!


LeeCharming: If a man could read your mind...what would you want him to read
imagine if a man knew what you were thinking...the moment you were thinking it and
knew just what to say...he would be irresistible to you and what could you do to resist him
If a man could read my mind, I'd like him to read what's there....and if his reaction is irresistible to me it would have to be because he has little lights dancing in his eyes when he looks at me and as the song says "Ça fait quelque chose!" smitten
Jan 29, 2021 1:17 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Geronimolion
GeronimolionGeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
I would probably say, voulez-vous coucher avec moi... rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 29, 2021 1:21 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Geronimolion
GeronimolionGeronimolionSan Pedro Alcantara, Andalusia Spain63 Posts
To answer that doppelganger, had to meet him and have a conversation, would be hugely tiring ... since I question everything, and my double does the same thing ... so endless conversations.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 29, 2021 3:21 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Geronimolion: I would probably say, voulez-vous coucher avec moi...
How "passé"!! yawn Good spelling though! thumbs up
Feb 3, 2021 11:06 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Divorced 1 time
2
13%
Divorced 2 times
0
0%
Divorced 3 or more times
2
13%
Still Married but separated
1
7%
never married
7
47%
widowed
3
20%
Total Votes
15

At the top of the pol...never married with 7 voteswow
At the bottom of the poll...married twice with 0 zero votes...but married three times or more...get 2 votesrolling on the floor laughing
Feb 11, 2021 1:31 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
shyandquiet1
shyandquiet1shyandquiet1Gorey, Wexford Ireland3 Posts
I have two divorces and have had long term relationships...do I consider myself as a red flag?... more than likely loldunno but I'm happy as I am and don't intend to change for anyone...
Feb 11, 2021 6:05 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
shyandquiet1: I have two divorces and have had long term relationships...do I consider myself as a red flag?... more than likely lol but I'm happy as I am and don't intend to change for anyone...
I’ve vacillated regarding this, but here is how I feel and believe now..( at this confluence in life): Women have (righteously) taken a stand advocating for themselves. They are no longer complacent about “standing by their man” if he is not honoring them. Negative traits are not obvious at the start of a relationship, and a new broom sweeps clean...I say that it’s far, far better to get out rather than be miserable. And, unfortunately, marrying the wrong person can happen more than once. I don’t know what your situations were, but I give you the benefit of the doubt. I do not see you as a red flag. (I KNOW about men, and 99% are turdballs...) Blessings, lovie..

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Feb 17, 2021 7:09 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
I guess I was raised wrong.......with morals .

So a red flag is " never had a live with relationship at our age " ?

If he or she wasn't good enough to marry, then you aren't doing each other any good by not letting them be free to find the one who would make the lifelong commitment. But then, there are a lot of selfish people in this world, who care only about their own gratification, and to hell with whatever problems that attitude brings to others.
Feb 19, 2021 10:49 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Brandolsva
BrandolsvaBrandolsvaLincoln, Nebraska USA2 Posts
A lot of sense in one comment
Feb 19, 2021 11:51 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
rohaan: I’ve vacillated regarding this, but here is how I feel and believe now..( at this confluence in life): Women have (righteously) taken a stand advocating for themselves. They are no longer complacent about “standing by their man” if he is not honoring them. Negative traits are not obvious at the start of a relationship, and a new broom sweeps clean...I say that it’s far, far better to get out rather than be miserable. And, unfortunately, marrying the wrong person can happen more than once. I don’t know what your situations were, but I give you the benefit of the doubt. I do not see you as a red flag. (I KNOW about men, and 99% are turdballs...) Blessings, lovie..
who the heck gave this a “thumbs-down”? Freakin’ weirdo...ah, to each his own I suppose...













Freakin weirdo.....mumbling
Feb 19, 2021 11:58 AM CST Would you date someone who is?
Selenite: The doppelganger stories sound pretty wierd!!

A double is someone who looks identical but has their own life unlike the doppelganger stalker ... I have been told I had a double in a town I used to work at every Saturday morning about 1h30 away from where I lived ...


@ identical twins ... if I never knew about my identical twin she could only tell you all her own secrets because she wouldn't know mine

I worked with identical twins for years in my language department when I was a teacher ... To me they didn't look identical because one had a slightly rounder face and a twinkle in her eye the other one lacked ... from further away you couldn't tell them apart. Many of the staff and students couldn't tell them apart even close up
I wonder if you’ve ever seen documentaries where twins were separated at birth, and meet some 30+ years later to find they lead pretty much “carbon-copy” lives...and it has occurred way more times than one might think. What is that saying from a Shakespeare play...” There are more——- in your philosophies——“ that’s all I can recall, but it’s about the odd serendipities of Life. help
Feb 19, 2021 12:08 PM CST Would you date someone who is?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Brandolsva: A lot of sense in one comment
Must be one of minegrin
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