Choose/Select the one Who PERFECTLY MATCHES with your criteria
43%
9 Votes
Choose/Select the one Who DOES NOT MATCH with your criteria but you LIKE and ACCEPT them as they are
52%
11 Votes
Choose/Select the one you LIKE who DOES NOT MATCH with your criteria and then CHANGE THEM ACCORDING to YOUR CRIETERIA
5%
1 Votes
21 Total Votes
Hello to you all !
When it comes to choose or select a partner for a Relationship/Marriage , people tend to have some predetermined criteria... Like about their Appearance , Qualification , Profession , Social Background , Personality etc.. But the irony is often when people find someone , whom they think they like upon initial basis , DO NOT match with their criteria mostly...
But still people take chances ... Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not...
So According to all your experience and outlook about life , what is all your opinion on this matter !!
What is the best thing an individual can do to choose or select the most suitable partner for a SUCCESSFUL Relationship/Marriage !?
If they treat you as a person and not. Their plaything. Who is honest. Don't go for a person........who go.s to a party thinking he.s or she is the main attraction. There are. Of course. Many. Other things........to consider. But it.s a start......
Even if you choose someone who matches what you are looking for, they might not choose you as you might not match what they are looking for.
Its hard to find someone and then have both agree they found the right person. Sometimes, its 1 of them that just accepts the other, even though they are not quite right.
Thazager: Even if you choose someone who matches what you are looking for, they might not choose you as you might not match what they are looking for.
Its hard to find someone and then have both agree they found the right person. Sometimes, its 1 of them that just accepts the other, even though they are not quite right.
Usually the one thinking he is doing the accepting is the one who can't accept his self and focuses on the other's faults and wants to fix her or him because he is so righteous and superior, the blame must be on her. He can't accept his own issues or mistakes.
For me it is simple: She is a woman. Then we work out the rest. I am not perfect, she is not. We can work out the details with time..or not, but in the long run: the kids grow up, the assets are split or remains in the family, then we both dies.
It will not really matter in the long run..so it is very important that I find a warm space for as much time as possible before I die.
Each person is different. If there's a mutual interest, both should give things a try.
you can't force or "choose" any thing. it's naturally going to be there and grow or it's absent on one or both parts for the long haul. don't leave out or forget that if it's there, it's still going to be work on many fronts to maintain.
No on is perfect. Everyone has their own ideas, preferences etc. I accept someone as they are and would never try to change someone. We either accept each other with our way of life or forget about it. It takes 2 equally interested and engaged people to make something work.
I only date in RL. It works best for me when I know someone for a while and got a chance to get to know him. Then give it a chance to see if it works out.
I think I'm better off alone. A lot of con men and maybe has two secret lives. I probably watch too much tv. Actually I've had too many "mistakes" to take any chances.
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Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?(Vote Below)
When it comes to choose or select a partner for a Relationship/Marriage , people tend to have some predetermined criteria...
Like about their Appearance , Qualification , Profession , Social Background , Personality etc..
But the irony is often when people find someone , whom they think they like upon initial basis , DO NOT match with their criteria mostly...
But still people take chances ... Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not...
So
According to all your experience and outlook about life , what is all your opinion on this matter !!
What is the best thing an individual can do to choose or select the most suitable partner for a SUCCESSFUL Relationship/Marriage !?