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Mar 11, 2021 10:06 AM CSTWhich one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal, India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts

Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?(Vote Below)

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Choose/Select the one Who PERFECTLY MATCHES with your criteria
43%
9 Votes
Choose/Select the one Who DOES NOT MATCH with your criteria but you LIKE and ACCEPT them as they are
52%
11 Votes
Choose/Select the one you LIKE who DOES NOT MATCH with your criteria and then CHANGE THEM ACCORDING to YOUR CRIETERIA
5%
1 Votes
21 Total Votes
Hello to you all !

When it comes to choose or select a partner for a Relationship/Marriage , people tend to have some predetermined criteria...
Like about their Appearance , Qualification , Profession , Social Background , Personality etc..
But the irony is often when people find someone , whom they think they like upon initial basis , DO NOT match with their criteria mostly...

But still people take chances ... Sometimes it works and sometimes it does not...

So
According to all your experience and outlook about life , what is all your opinion on this matter !!

What is the best thing an individual can do to choose or select the most suitable partner for a SUCCESSFUL Relationship/Marriage !?
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Mar 11, 2021 1:28 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
If they treat you as a person and not. Their plaything. Who is honest. Don't go for a person........who go.s to a party thinking he.s or she is the main attraction. There are. Of course. Many. Other things........to consider. But it.s a start......grin hug
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Mar 12, 2021 12:30 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Even if you choose someone who matches what you are looking for, they might not choose you as you might not match what they are looking for.

Its hard to find someone and then have both agree they found the right person. Sometimes, its 1 of them that just accepts the other, even though they are not quite right.
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Mar 12, 2021 12:36 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts
Thazager: Even if you choose someone who matches what you are looking for, they might not choose you as you might not match what they are looking for.

Its hard to find someone and then have both agree they found the right person. Sometimes, its 1 of them that just accepts the other, even though they are not quite right.
Usually the one thinking he is doing the accepting is the one who can't accept his self and focuses on the other's faults and wants to fix her or him because he is so righteous and superior, the blame must be on her. He can't accept his own issues or mistakes.
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Mar 12, 2021 12:55 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam: ... so righteous and superior
I make no claim to either.
I would rather find the right person, than to try and change them or even suggest changing them.
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Mar 12, 2021 1:05 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Cranky_Geezer
Cranky_GeezerCranky_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA29 Threads 1 Polls 2,239 Posts
I go wherever my wiener leads me. professor
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Mar 12, 2021 5:38 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
OP, some people can't stand to be alone

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Mar 12, 2021 6:33 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
For me it is simple: She is a woman. Then we work out the rest. I am not perfect, she is not. We can work out the details with time..or not, but in the long run: the kids grow up, the assets are split or remains in the family, then we both dies.grin

It will not really matter in the long run..so it is very important that I find a warm space for as much time as possible before I die. laugh
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Mar 12, 2021 6:38 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
I use my gun most of the time
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Mar 12, 2021 7:33 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
If they show you respect, treat you like a lady, and take you shopping. laugh
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Mar 12, 2021 7:46 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
LaFonda: If they show you respect, treat you like a lady, and take you shopping.
What about just a beer or two or.... laugh I like girls who drink beet.

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Mar 16, 2021 5:25 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
SimonLS
SimonLSSimonLSAdelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 28 Posts
so yours is weenie, the women must be breaking your door down
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Mar 18, 2021 2:29 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
The best policy is not to be on the hunt.
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Mar 20, 2021 8:44 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts
“A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality.”

? John Lennon
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Mar 20, 2021 8:52 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Draegoneer
DraegoneerDraegoneerPrudenville, Michigan USA1 Threads 1,370 Posts
None of the above.

Each person is different. If there's a mutual interest, both should give things a try.

you can't force or "choose" any thing. it's naturally going to be there and grow or it's absent on one or both parts for the long haul. don't leave out or forget that if it's there, it's still going to be work on many fronts to maintain.
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Mar 20, 2021 9:08 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts
Respect is not earned, it is given, trust is built with consistency.
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Mar 20, 2021 9:12 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
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Mar 20, 2021 9:18 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts
Dedovix, i have no idea what is, but it doesn't look like it belongs in a loving relationship.
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Mar 20, 2021 9:23 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Lunabeam: Dedovix, i have no idea what is, but it doesn't look like it belongs in a loving relationship.
I see, you`re a traditional girl

so chloroform cloth ?uh oh
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Mar 20, 2021 9:29 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts
Dedovix: I see, you`re a traditional girl

so chloroform cloth ?
no words for that. Sometimes you just have to feel what you feel, it's the only way to heal.
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Mar 20, 2021 9:39 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
In context, I think the OP is talking about arranged marriages.

teddybear
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Mar 21, 2021 5:11 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
No on is perfect. Everyone has their own ideas, preferences etc. I accept someone as they are and would never try to change someone. We either accept each other with our way of life or forget about it. It takes 2 equally interested and engaged people to make something work.

I only date in RL. It works best for me when I know someone for a while and got a chance to get to know him. Then give it a chance to see if it works out. wave
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Mar 21, 2021 11:09 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Friskyone
FriskyoneFriskyoneSanta Fe, New Mexico USA271 Threads 26 Polls 4,631 Posts
I think I'm better off alone. A lot of con men and maybe has two secret lives.
I probably watch too much tv. Actually I've had too many "mistakes" to take any chances.

rolling on the floor laughing
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Mar 23, 2021 6:25 PM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
shipper50
shipper50shipper50kokomo, Indiana USA1 Threads 1 Polls 8 Posts
Bnaughty: I use my gun most of the time
People like you make us legal and long time gun owners and CCP owners have a bad reputation.sigh
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Mar 24, 2021 8:52 AM CST Which one is the BEST policy to find a Partner for a successful Relationship/Marriage ?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
Lunabeam: no words for that. Sometimes you just have to feel what you feel, it's the only way to heal.
Dont you just miss the good old days


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