Which is worst ( Archived) (14)

Mar 14, 2021 2:41 PM CSTWhich is worst
Lunabeam
LunabeamLunabeamSpencer, Massachusetts, USA17 Threads 1 Polls 239 Posts

Which is worst(Vote Below)

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cat fishing...using a different person's profile and picture
27%
4 Votes
showing a catfish that you have fallen for your online dating profile
20%
3 Votes
hacking the computer of someone you've fallen for
33%
5 Votes
sending nude pics to someone you've fallen for
20%
3 Votes
15 Total Votes
What are the chances of a trusting relationship being developed after any of these offenses?
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Mar 14, 2021 3:10 PM CST Which is worst
All the things .you wrote above...........all bad. Just be yourself. And the right one will come along.........hug
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Mar 14, 2021 3:51 PM CST Which is worst
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
It takes a life-time to build TRUST and a second to loose it. help
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Mar 15, 2021 1:57 AM CST Which is worst
LaFonda: It takes a life-time to build TRUST and a second to loose it.
Very true. Be careful on line and in real life.
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Mar 15, 2021 2:14 AM CST Which is worst
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
All that is mentioned on the poll
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Mar 15, 2021 2:33 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Hacking their computer obviously I do believe that's literally a crime.

Lying is just lying and catfishing is lying. Obviously not illegal because how would any fiction work if it was illegal to tell a lie?

Morally as well I can't think of a benign example of hacking into someone's computer. It's not like a fat woman pretending to be a 21 year old stunner in a chatroom, I can't honestly say that bothers me. We should expect that it's not really a 21 year old stunner.
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Mar 15, 2021 3:07 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And it couldn't be done. What would we do? Extend the trade descriptions act to cover casual chatter between private citizens? A precondition of this would be to make it so everybody is paid to talk to us. You have the legal right when purchasing for the purchased to be accurately described. But in free society not.
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Mar 15, 2021 3:20 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
You would have to merge property and people into the same thing. But because human beings exist as something other than property freedom of expression accepts people in the understanding of buyer beware. Buyer beware actually applies when no money is changing hands. A person can be a fraud, liar and fake without committing a crime or even being a bad person - which is just as well because everybody lies.
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Mar 15, 2021 4:17 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Catfishing because you're lonely will never be illegal like catfishing for money is, or impersonating a police officer is illegal when done in a serious way where you literally arrest people. Dressing up as a cop in the bedroom is not illegal for the same reason that catfishing is not illegal.
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Mar 15, 2021 4:49 AM CST Which is worst
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
The worst is to possess a mind, that's hosting such topics.
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Mar 15, 2021 5:10 AM CST Which is worst
irish78eyes
irish78eyesirish78eyesMeath/Louth, Louth Ireland22 Threads 6,274 Posts
The last one, coz you'll never get them pics back ... haunting
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Mar 15, 2021 5:50 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
I would argue that make-up itself is deceptive to have the whole truth and nothing but the truth is an act of cowardice. Particularly on a first date. It's supposed to be an unknown they're allowed to have privacy. This is why make up and catfishing are acceptable, but using her laptop as a window into her brain is not. I would throw away a relationship because she's been spying on me but I can't imagine not wishing to associate with a friend anymore because they've been catfishing. The impersonal masks of society do not upset me like spying does.
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Mar 15, 2021 6:14 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And yet I would grade it. Pretending to be a celebrity on the one hand with pretending someone you already know on the other. Catfishing would be bother me in so much as it relates to privacy. I admit that pretending to be someone you already know who is not at all in the public domain is frankly too weird.
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Mar 15, 2021 6:29 AM CST Which is worst
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
For example it is immoral to send nudes that can NOT be found on Google. It would have to be in some sense a public figure someone who wanted their privacy violated, someone who has chosen these things to happen.
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Mar 19, 2021 7:17 PM CST Which is worst
SimonLS
SimonLSSimonLSAdelaide, South Australia Australia2 Threads 28 Posts
they're all as bad as each other for different reasons
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