This comes from a conversation I have w/ co-workers a lot. A few of them always seem to pick a "type" of person. No matter what they do, there they are w/ that same broken/airhead/chaotic person just a different body.
Why do we do this to ourselves? I always seem to pick the unavailable ones or the flakey airheads. All well, something to work on.
I seem to draw the broken ones. I'm now seeking to find one that was able to "fix" themself, and is already whole. It's time to look within, first, and fix me. I was on track for that, and I need to get back on it. Then, I need to change my patterns.
druidess6308: I seem to draw the broken ones. I'm now seeking to find one that was able to "fix" themself, and is already whole. It's time to look within, first, and fix me. I was on track for that, and I need to get back on it. Then, I need to change my patterns.
Mines not on here...emotionally unavailable....BUT I am working on not choosing another one of those....
tipaly81: This comes from a conversation I have w/ co-workers a lot. A few of them always seem to pick a "type" of person. No matter what they do, there they are w/ that same broken/airhead/chaotic person just a different body.
Why do we do this to ourselves? I always seem to pick the unavailable ones or the flakey airheads. All well, something to work on.
It hurts and it is getting tiresome to clean up the cuts and abrasions...
I do the same. And I learned quite a bit this last time. I was too open, too soon. I trusted and gave too much of me way too early. I do it often, and this time it hurt enough to teach me the lesson. So...now, I've learned. I'll move slower next time. I'm learning to move slower in many things through this. And to get back to me...and get more balance back in my life.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
druidess6308: I do the same. And I learned quite a bit this last time. I was too open, too soon. I trusted and gave too much of me way too early. I do it often, and this time it hurt enough to teach me the lesson. So...now, I've learned. I'll move slower next time. I'm learning to move slower in many things through this. And to get back to me...and get more balance back in my life.
druidess6308: I think that's pretty much what mine does say!
Some, however, put on a very good act. They can fool ya. And apparently, I can still be a fool.
Hey haven't we all been fools at one time or another...yep there are definitely some good acts out there...but what they fail to remember is that eventually they will be found out...unfortunately there are people out their who only revel in anothers strife...and they love to victimize others and will go to any lengths sometimes to make sure that happens...what a sad sad way to live...and person to be.....
Oh and the ones who get played as fools once...just learn more lessons...and how to spot those who have nothing better to do...and such sad wasted lives....
ApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa1,937 posts
Hello girls,
I'ts not the end of the world making mistakes i've learned and as you all so rightly say it teaches us lessons and speaking strictly for myself, to laugh at myself some more.
If i like the guy enough i will open up fully - it's the only way to go.
I'ts not the end of the world making mistakes i've learned and as you all so rightly say it teaches us lessons and speaking strictly for myself, to laugh at myself some more.
If i like the guy enough i will open up fully - it's the only way to go. Long live "love" and the quest for it.
uuuuuuaaaaaaaa...who's feeling sassy this morning then?
I'ts not the end of the world making mistakes i've learned and as you all so rightly say it teaches us lessons and speaking strictly for myself, to laugh at myself some more.
If i like the guy enough i will open up fully - it's the only way to go. Long live "love" and the quest for it.
I hear ya doll...It's just hard to trust and figure out who is genuine on here sometimes with all the fakes and trolls on here..and sometimes we end up giving our hearts to the wrong ones...so for me...I give myself a lot of time anymore to get to know someone before I give my heart anymore...
I just started this site because my wife and i just separated. I was looking for some one to vent. You know what my wife was physical. Ive taken it for 5 years. I do still love her but how much can a heart take. The last time she, she called the cops and i went to jail. I am starting a career in Criminal Justice law. And that's why she did it. She was intoxicated at the time but she still knew. Now shes trying to pick up the peaces and put them back once again. How many times can you break and fix something. Its not about bashing. The people bashing where never in love. Love is forever and marriage is sacred. For better or for worse. I said that and meant it. How strong is a person do i fall my knees and take her back. Maybe to fall again. Or do i push my love away to hopefully find another if there is a such thing. I am a very strong willed person and any one that knows me will say this. So any way the choices here are for daters not lovers.
ApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa1,937 posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: I hear ya doll...It's just hard to trust and figure out who is genuine on here sometimes with all the fakes and trolls on here..and sometimes we end up giving our hearts to the wrong ones...so for me...I give myself a lot of time anymore to get to know someone before I give my heart anymore...
Sad but true,
Problem really is that men are from Mars and we're from Venus. We think with our hearts and they think with their penises!
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Why do we do this to ourselves? I always seem to pick the unavailable ones or the flakey airheads. All well, something to work on.