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Jun 8, 2021 11:07 AM CSTAffair
ClassicM
ClassicMClassicMPAFOS, Paphos, Cyprus2 Threads 2 Polls 8 Posts

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Whats are your strong points about someone having an affair?
Jun 8, 2021 11:10 AM CST Affair
depends, If that someone is me, then YES , Im all for it professor
Jun 8, 2021 11:19 AM CST Affair
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK2,417 Posts
I'm not sure what you mean by "strong points". Are you trying to ask what would lead us to be ok with someone having an affair??

If yes, then it all depends on the circumstances and what led to the affair...

Sorry, vague answer I know but vague questions get vague answer lol....handshake
Jun 8, 2021 12:05 PM CST Affair
I think when anyone steps out of their relationship/marriage to have an affair, there is something lacking in them, that to me would be respect! Respect for their partner, respect for their family and for themselves. If there is problems with in their relationship/marriage having an affair does not and will not help.
Also I personally think affairs create an awful lot of hardship and sadness for everyone involved.
Just my little opinion and one who suffered a lot of sadness due to my ex and his affair.
Jun 8, 2021 12:59 PM CST Affair
ClassicM
ClassicMClassicMPAFOS, Paphos Cyprus2 Threads 2 Polls 8 Posts
Hi again

I hope this helps ...
Are there any right circumstances to have an affair? If yes which are they?
Jun 8, 2021 1:16 PM CST Affair
ChesneyChristonline today!
ChesneyChristonline today!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK8,608 Posts
ClassicM: Hi again

I hope this helps ...
Are there any right circumstances to have an affair? If yes which are they?
Neglect. An affair would be completely justified if they normally sent you three love poems in a month and this month only one. Having an affair would be the right thing to do.
Jun 8, 2021 1:18 PM CST Affair
ChesneyChrist: Neglect. An affair would be completely justified if they normally sent you three love poems in a month and this month only one. Having an affair would be the right thing to do.
Made me smile. Unexpectedly :)
Jun 8, 2021 1:24 PM CST Affair
Can you explain the poll. What arevthe options. The two listed are the same thing.
Jun 8, 2021 1:33 PM CST Affair
The context is of paramount importance here.

Is it one or two left steps - quick and discrete - during a 50-years long marriage? Well, life happens. Turn a blind eye and deaf ear.

Is it a chain of lovers, no concerns about who's getting hurt? "Why the wronged part is enduring this?", one might wonder.

Is it a loud thing broadcasted all over the neighbourhood and beyond? It is rather a statement or a demand for a divorce. Should be granted, I think.


I personally still keep in touch with my lover from the first marriage. Faithfulness is my middle name.
Jun 8, 2021 2:49 PM CST Affair
Nules: I think when anyone steps out of their relationship/marriage to have an affair, there is something lacking in them, that to me would be respect! Respect for their partner, respect for their family and for themselves. If there is problems with in their relationship/marriage having an affair does not and will not help.
Also I personally think affairs create an awful lot of hardship and sadness for everyone involved.
Just my little opinion and one who suffered a lot of sadness due to my ex and his affair.
I agree teddybear
Jun 8, 2021 3:06 PM CST Affair
ClassicM
ClassicMClassicMPAFOS, Paphos Cyprus2 Threads 2 Polls 8 Posts
Ok
I understand the difficulties in a marriage the routine life the habits that its possible to be disliked. I also understand how easy is to start an affair if you convince urself u r not happy in a marriage /relation.

But what is actually the real reason for keeping the affair for a long time?
Jun 8, 2021 5:16 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
Jun 8, 2021 5:19 PM CST Affair
ClassicM, Lee in disguise
Jun 8, 2021 5:23 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
Bnaughty: ClassicM, Lee in disguise
rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 8, 2021 5:33 PM CST Affair
ClassicM: Ok
I understand the difficulties in a marriage the routine life the habits that its possible to be disliked. I also understand how easy is to start an affair if you convince urself u r not happy in a marriage /relation.

But what is actually the real reason for keeping the affair for a long time?
Jun 8, 2021 5:41 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
I couldn't be assed with an affair. Too much hassle. Give me a bit of this guy and I'll be happy laugh

He could certainly dive in my mott rolling on the floor laughing

Long live Sir Billy Connolly cheering
Jun 8, 2021 5:55 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous: I couldn't be assed with an affair. Too much hassle. Give me a bit of this guy and I'll be happy

He could certainly dive in my mott

Long live Sir Billy Connolly
WTF???dunno
Jun 8, 2021 6:07 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
We're a long time dead. Do what you have to do whilst you're living. No one can make those choices for you. It's all up to youthumbs up

These guys never even got the chance to make it into their mid 50's so count your blessings while you can. As for affairs, I haven't had to endure that situation. I'm too old for that now rolling on the floor laughing
Jun 8, 2021 6:16 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
mikey4691: WTF???
DILLIGAF mickey?



















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Jun 8, 2021 6:20 PM CST Affair
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada63 Threads 1 Polls 4,597 Posts
Monogamy is a noose around the neck of true love.


bouquet
Jun 8, 2021 6:32 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
Mickey seems to have a problem with me for some reason? Maybe it's because I visit America so many times and because I'm English and I'm from the Ukdunno
Jun 8, 2021 8:00 PM CST Affair
ClassicM: Hi again

I hope this helps ...
Are there any right circumstances to have an affair? If yes which are they?
There is never a "right circumstance" for having an affair unless you are in an open marriage agreement.

If you have an affair you are cheating. There is no other way to say it.

If I no longer had romantic feelings for the person I would tell him that it's over and THEN look for someone else but not while still in the relationship.

People who cheat are cowards and don't have a backbone to confront the person they no longer love.
Jun 8, 2021 9:16 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous
Miss_CellaneousMiss_CellaneousWyre, Lancashire, England UK1 Threads 1,791 Posts
mikey4691: WTF???
This is just for you Mikey. Now bugger off and report me. Call yourself a man rolling on the floor laughing I've farted more men out of my arse in a day than you will ever be a mangrin Get your guns out, it might give you some confidence sleep

Jun 8, 2021 9:35 PM CST Affair
Miss_Cellaneous: This is just for you Mikey. Now bugger off and report me. Call yourself a man I've farted more men out of my arse in a day than you will ever be a man Get your guns out, it might give you some confidence
I've never reported anyone.. You get angry over nothing.. I must have touched a nerve... tongue
Jun 9, 2021 12:12 AM CST Affair
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 25,385 Posts
When I was with my ex I was very very happy when he rooted repulsive scabby looking woman..I say scabby because they had scabs on their face..Scabs all over them..They looked filthy & whilst he was occupied with such filth it meant he left me well enough alone.

In saying the above it pisses me off when a man or woman think their partner only has eyes for him or her & one of them is cheating..I would love to know why a man or woman can't be respectful telling the one they no longer wish to be with that they need to end things because of such and such..Using children to stay in a marriage or relationship is a dead set cop out...What does it say about a person who roots around but at the same time still has the audacity to sleep with their partner?
Jun 9, 2021 12:57 AM CST Affair
Affair is good . It's give us happyness . But positive . Don't speak lying with any one .bouquet
Jun 9, 2021 1:43 AM CST Affair
My ex wife's new husband brought home herpes to her,(came from a hooker) which was funny to me since she was always giving me a hard time about visitation with our son... Nice bargaining chip.. laugh
Jun 9, 2021 2:17 AM CST Affair
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyocean city plymouth, Devon, England UK325 Threads 3 Polls 6,869 Posts
ClassicM: Hi again

I hope this helps ...
Are there any right circumstances to have an affair? If yes which are they?
This does not seem a proper and well-conducted poll in my opinionlaugh
Jun 9, 2021 2:28 AM CST Affair
tomcatty: This does not seem a proper and well-conducted poll in my opinion
wat did u have for breakfast son?
Jun 9, 2021 2:33 AM CST Affair
tomcatty
tomcattytomcattyocean city plymouth, Devon, England UK325 Threads 3 Polls 6,869 Posts
pedro27: wat did u have for breakfast son?
You must be ready for yourslaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
Jun 9, 2021 3:01 AM CST Affair
ClassicM
ClassicMClassicMPAFOS, Paphos Cyprus2 Threads 2 Polls 8 Posts
What do u mean?

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