The Initiative (47)
I don't make the first move..I'm not that stupid 
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I couldn't imagine being a man having to think of something to say with their first reply..I have 50 lots of emails in my mail box..Which means when I can be bothered I have to think of 50 things to say
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Mercedes_00: I don't make the first move..I'm not that stupid
I can relate to you !! 
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Tanzila: I can relate to you !!
I had 92 that did my head in for real ------ This poll is Archived ------
Mercedes_00: I had 92 that did my head in for real
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if i found a woman the same age as my self........i would make the first move...oh yes.........a nice shady spot........where i could puke my heart out.......
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Mercedes_00: I had 92 that did my head in for real
92 !!!!! 
I can understand 
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I just don't see the point in being bothered with it all..Have accepted I will always be single..Doesn't mean I'm abnormal just means that's how it has to be.
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Take the initiative, make the first move, then hit it real hard.
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truheart1941: if i found a woman the same age as my self........i would make the first move...oh yes.........a nice shady spot........where i could puke my heart out....... :
Hope it won't be too good to be true for your heart though 
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Mercedes_00: I just don't see the point in being bothered with it all..Have accepted I will always be single..Doesn't mean I'm abnormal just means that's how it has to be.
Oh yezzz !!! Singlehood has it's own unique charm !!! I completely agree with this 
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pat8lanips: Take the initiative, make the first move, then hit it real hard.
Are you talking about yourself or telling the other one to take the initiative !! 
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Tanzila: Oh yezzz !!! Singlehood has it's own unique charm !!! I completely agree with this
In my case he isn't out there..I want to live life to the fullest..I don't want to waste my time looking for a needle in a hay stack when I just want to enjoy my life as best I can.------ This poll is Archived ------
You wanna hit it real hard, like, totally nail it to the wall. If that involves the initiative, then so be it.
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Mercedes_00: In my case he isn't out there..I want to live life to the fullest..I don't want to waste my time looking for a needle in a hay stack when I just want to enjoy my life as best I can.
And even if you find the needle , the chances are that , it may also poke your heart and lead it to bleed !! 
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Tanzila: And even if you find the needle , the chances are that , it may also poke your heart and lead it to bleed !!
If your in your teens yes you have time to waste..I'm not in my teens which means the odds are against me as that would be like winning the lottery ------ This poll is Archived ------
pat8lanips: You wanna hit it real hard, like, totally nail it to the wall. If that involves the initiative, then so be it.
Like this may be !! 
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Nailing someone to the wall sounds painful
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Mercedes_00: If your in your teens yes you have time to waste..I'm not in my teens which means the odds are against me as that would be like winning the lottery
Indeed ... Finding someone for something long lasting , actually feels like a gambling this days... But the bet here is too much comparing to the chances of winning
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It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
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pat8lanips: It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
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pat8lanips: It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
I think I get it what you are trying to say... Life (or Love) is not about fantasy... It's all about facing the harsh reality ..
So better be practical as much as possible if you want to achieve the aim...
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On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.
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pat8lanips: On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.
i say do whatever rocks your boat..... 
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pat8lanips: On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.
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Some situations require more initiative than others, of course I am talking about the Dutch Oven.
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Tanzila: Your ideal relationship seems in fact very challenging to pursue in practical life ... And it has to be mutual dedication to make it work.. A tough one !! I agree
I already walked out of my home once leaving everything behind..It was all mine I worked bloody hard for nothing was his,,The only way for me to be free and live in peace was to leave it all..Put that scenario aside you have two adults who have occupied their own homes for so long..It's a huge ask deciding who is going to leave what they have known for so long to leave for the unknown..You would have to be in a long relationship with that person to say to yourself yes I can leave what I have known for so long for the unknown.------ This poll is Archived ------
pat8lanips: Some situations require more initiative than others, of course I am talking about the Dutch Oven.
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During dinner, for sure. But after that it's open season really.
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Mercedes_00: I already walked out of my home once leaving everything behind..It was all mine I worked bloody hard for nothing was his,,The only way for me to be free and live in peace was to leave it all..Put that scenario aside you have two adults who have occupied their own homes for so long..It's a huge ask deciding who is going to leave what they have known for so long to leave for the unknown..You would have to be in a long relationship with that person to say to yourself yes I can leave what I have known for so long for the unknown.
This time I won't say that I understand .. Because I can't really know how you would have been felt that time... Only you know that feeling... But it was not an easy experience to handle , that's for sure... 
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Created: Jul 2021
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The Initiative(Vote Below)
Whenever it comes to meet someone for the First time as a potential future relationship partner ,
WHO would you MOSTLY like to make the First Move , take the First Step , Initiate the Conversation or to approach for a Dating Proposal ???
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Wishing you all to have a nice time !