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Jul 21, 2021 7:42 AM CSTThe Initiative

The Initiative(Vote Below)

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As a GUY I would like to make the First move MYSELF
15%
2 Votes
As a GIRL I would like to make the First move MYSELF
0%
0 Votes
(In case of encounters Between SAME GENDERS) I would like to make the First move
0%
0 Votes
As a GUY I would like the GIRL to make the First move by HERSELF
23%
3 Votes
As a GIRL I would like the GUY to make the First move by HIMSELF
46%
6 Votes
(In case of encounters between SAME GENDERS) I would like THE OTHER PERSON to make the First move
15%
2 Votes
My option is not here.. I'll talk about it in the COMMENT section
0%
0 Votes
13 Total Votes
Hello to you all ! wave

Whenever it comes to meet someone for the First time as a potential future relationship partner ,
WHO would you MOSTLY like to make the First Move , take the First Step , Initiate the Conversation or to approach for a Dating Proposal ??? conversing

You all are welcome to share you views here...
Wishing you all to have a nice time ! wave
Jul 21, 2021 7:44 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
I don't make the first move..I'm not that stupid laugh
Jul 21, 2021 7:47 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
I couldn't imagine being a man having to think of something to say with their first reply..I have 50 lots of emails in my mail box..Which means when I can be bothered I have to think of 50 things to say laugh
Jul 21, 2021 7:49 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: I don't make the first move..I'm not that stupid
I can relate to you !! giggle

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Jul 21, 2021 7:51 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Tanzila: I can relate to you !!
I had 92 that did my head in for real giggle
Jul 21, 2021 7:52 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Mercedes_00: I had 92 that did my head in for real
Thats ^^ in reference to my second post
Jul 21, 2021 7:54 AM CST The Initiative
if i found a woman the same age as my self........i would make the first move...oh yes.........a nice shady spot........where i could puke my heart out.......wow rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing :
Jul 21, 2021 7:55 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: I had 92 that did my head in for real
92 !!!!! wow wow
hmmm I can understand conversing
Jul 21, 2021 7:57 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
I just don't see the point in being bothered with it all..Have accepted I will always be single..Doesn't mean I'm abnormal just means that's how it has to be.
Jul 21, 2021 7:59 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia87 Threads 18 Polls 8,351 Posts
Take the initiative, make the first move, then hit it real hard.
Jul 21, 2021 8:00 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: I just don't see the point in being bothered with it all..Have accepted I will always be single..Doesn't mean I'm abnormal just means that's how it has to be.
do single woman shag...?????dunno rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 21, 2021 8:01 AM CST The Initiative
truheart1941: if i found a woman the same age as my self........i would make the first move...oh yes.........a nice shady spot........where i could puke my heart out....... :
Hope it won't be too good to be true for your heart though wink giggle
Jul 21, 2021 8:03 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
truheart1941: do single woman shag...?????
In my case nah roll eyes laugh
Jul 21, 2021 8:04 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: I just don't see the point in being bothered with it all..Have accepted I will always be single..Doesn't mean I'm abnormal just means that's how it has to be.
Oh yezzz !!! Singlehood has it's own unique charm !!! I completely agree with this thumbs up
Jul 21, 2021 8:07 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips: Take the initiative, make the first move, then hit it real hard.
Are you talking about yourself or telling the other one to take the initiative !! confused
Jul 21, 2021 8:07 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Tanzila: Oh yezzz !!! Singlehood has it's own unique charm !!! I completely agree with this
In my case he isn't out there..I want to live life to the fullest..I don't want to waste my time looking for a needle in a hay stack when I just want to enjoy my life as best I can.
Jul 21, 2021 8:10 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia87 Threads 18 Polls 8,351 Posts
You wanna hit it real hard, like, totally nail it to the wall. If that involves the initiative, then so be it.
Jul 21, 2021 8:13 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: In my case he isn't out there..I want to live life to the fullest..I don't want to waste my time looking for a needle in a hay stack when I just want to enjoy my life as best I can.
And even if you find the needle , the chances are that , it may also poke your heart and lead it to bleed !! uh oh
Jul 21, 2021 8:16 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Tanzila: And even if you find the needle , the chances are that , it may also poke your heart and lead it to bleed !!
If your in your teens yes you have time to waste..I'm not in my teens which means the odds are against me as that would be like winning the lottery laugh
Jul 21, 2021 8:16 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips: You wanna hit it real hard, like, totally nail it to the wall. If that involves the initiative, then so be it.
hmmm Like this may be !! frustrated

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Jul 21, 2021 8:17 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Nailing someone to the wall sounds painful laugh
Jul 21, 2021 8:21 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: If your in your teens yes you have time to waste..I'm not in my teens which means the odds are against me as that would be like winning the lottery
Indeed ... Finding someone for something long lasting , actually feels like a gambling this days...
But the bet here is too much comparing to the chances of winning doh
Jul 21, 2021 8:24 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia87 Threads 18 Polls 8,351 Posts
It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
Jul 21, 2021 8:32 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
pat8lanips: It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
For sure you're fibbing laugh
Jul 21, 2021 8:35 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia20 Threads 27,079 Posts
Tanzila: Indeed ... Finding someone for something long lasting , actually feels like a gambling this days...
But the bet here is too much comparing to the chances of winning
Well my kind of relationship was always going to be we don't live together..We have our own space..That takes a shitload of trust but to me if you don't trust a man your into then you shouldn't be with him..Many men I have spoken to think my idea of not living together is crazy..To me they would be the control type
Jul 21, 2021 8:37 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips: It's like this... You can either flounce about talking rubbish about flowers or curtains, maybe holding hands or whatever... Or you can take the initiative and completely jam it instead, then the matter is resolved.
I think I get it what you are trying to say... hmmm
Life (or Love) is not about fantasy... It's all about facing the harsh reality ..
So better be practical as much as possible if you want to achieve the aim... hmmm
Jul 21, 2021 8:38 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia87 Threads 18 Polls 8,351 Posts
On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.
Jul 21, 2021 8:44 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips: On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.
i say do whatever rocks your boat.....rolling on the floor laughing dunno laugh
Jul 21, 2021 8:45 AM CST The Initiative
Mercedes_00: Well my kind of relationship was always going to be we don't live together..We have our own space..That takes a shitload of trust but to me if you don't trust a man your into then you shouldn't be with him..Many men I have spoken to think my idea of not living together is crazy..To me they would be the control type
Your ideal relationship seems in fact very challenging to pursue in practical life ... And it has to be mutual dedication to make it work.. A tough one !! I agree wow
Jul 21, 2021 8:52 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips: On the other hand, having too much initiative can be an issue as well. For example, hiding in the bushes then jumping out in front of people while having a flog, well thats a bit much really.


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Jul 21, 2021 8:52 AM CST The Initiative
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia87 Threads 18 Polls 8,351 Posts
Some situations require more initiative than others, of course I am talking about the Dutch Oven.

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Created: Jul 21
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