The Initiative (47)
online today!online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Postspat8lanips: During dinner, for sure. But after that it's open season really.
If I did that with all the Protein I consume he would leave me 
Tanzila: This time I won't say that I understand .. Because I can't really know how you would have been felt that time... Only you know that feeling... But it was not an easy experience to handle , that's for sure...
To be honest it was the best decision I ever made..You can always replace items but you can never replace peace & safety staying in an unhealthy environment.I don't understand why people jump the gun so quick..They pack up everything to be with the person they're into without giving much thought to long term..let's face it both people work so who is going to leave their employment & move to a place that has little to no opportunities to work..Both have to go halves in utilities and the rest that has to do with money...It's all good to allow ones heart to rule for the sake of that feeling of being in love..It's another thing to think of reality and that's with your head
That's just how I feel about things for me
Mercedes_00: I already walked out of my home once leaving everything behind..It was all mine I worked bloody hard for nothing was his,,The only way for me to be free and live in peace was to leave it all..Put that scenario aside you have two adults who have occupied their own homes for so long..It's a huge ask deciding who is going to leave what they have known for so long to leave for the unknown..You would have to be in a long relationship with that person to say to yourself yes I can leave what I have known for so long for the unknown.
My own perception is that if both have their own place it means there is no rush to make decisions apart from defining the 'relationship' boundaries (ie monogamous etc.) and how much time to spend together. It allows getting to know one another without pressure... Eventually they can jump into the unknown (completely new place) together if they choose to...
Mercedes_00: To be honest it was the best decision I ever made..You can always replace items but you can never replace peace & safety staying in an unhealthy environment.
I don't understand why people jump the gun so quick..They pack up everything to be with the person they're into without giving much thought to long term..let's face it both people work so who is going to leave their employment & move to a place that has little to no opportunities to work..Both have to go halves in utilities and the rest that has to do with money...It's all good to allow ones heart to rule for the sake of that feeling of being in love..It's another thing to think of reality and that's with your head
That's just how I feel about things for me
Very true... A life can not be lived by only support of emotions and feelings , no matter how pure they are , but the reality will demand to pay prices more than that ...I don't understand why people jump the gun so quick..They pack up everything to be with the person they're into without giving much thought to long term..let's face it both people work so who is going to leave their employment & move to a place that has little to no opportunities to work..Both have to go halves in utilities and the rest that has to do with money...It's all good to allow ones heart to rule for the sake of that feeling of being in love..It's another thing to think of reality and that's with your head
That's just how I feel about things for me
Tanzila: Very true... A life can not be lived by only support of emotions and feelings , no matter how pure they are , but the reality will demand to pay prices more than that ...
I have never loved nor been in love with a man..I have been attracted to a man and that was a really nice feeling so I can just imagine how lovely it would be to be in love with a man.\
Mercedes_00: I have never loved nor been in love with a man..I have been attracted to a man and that was a really nice feeling so I can just imagine how lovely it would be to be in love with a man.
Love , a fairytale , we all dream to be true ...
It’s the woman who chooses the man who chooses her .
pat8lanips: You wanna hit it real hard, like, totally nail it to the wall. If that involves the initiative, then so be it.
Yeh yeh....yer all talk pat8lanips....Youcannow: It’s the woman who chooses the man who chooses her .
No it's not! far from it indeed. A man can catch any woman he wants if he's sincere and puts enough effort in it..."Effort" being the operative word there
Yeah, nah, thats just the way it goes and there's nothing can be done about it. It's incredible.
Losted: Initiative? On a site known as
Disconnecting Singles?
Question here is universal... Disconnecting Singles?
Regardless of any website...
Can even stand for the real world out there...
Youcannow: It’s the woman who chooses the man who chooses her .
So that means , the woman needs who chooses her first ... !! 
blathin: No it's not! far from it indeed. A man can catch any woman he wants if he's sincere and puts enough effort in it...
"Effort" being the operative word there
If only that were true...."Effort" being the operative word there
Tanzila: Love , a fairytale , we all dream to be true ...
That was sweet 
Selenite: As if it's their decision whether you work or go to the gym
Fortunately there are many more guys out there who think different ... just a matter of meeting one ...
I think that was their way of saying they will look after me..Let's face it there are many woman who would like that..I'm not one of those woman..The way things are here he would have to be fully vaccinated for starters..Have never been one looking for a man for anything for that matter..People on dating sites know what they're looking for..I'm not like that I'm one of those when I come across that attraction I will just know without looking for anything specific..In saying that I like a funny weird sarcastic sense of humour..Fortunately there are many more guys out there who think different ... just a matter of meeting one ...
I don't read profiles..Those few meet ups I had was because how they interacted with me in mail..The men I met in mail certainly weren't the same face to face..It was me helping them to get a convo flowing because they were nervous and shy..I didn't meet these men all dressed up with makeup on and such..I went straight from the gym to the meet up looking like a drowned rat..I warned them before we met up..
The worse part was them wanting to know if they were the one..Wanting to know when we could meet up again..Wanting to know will I continue to meet other men..They did my head in..I only did these meet ups out of curiosity..I shouldn't of bothered
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