Online Dating ( Archived) (37)

Aug 2, 2021 2:32 AM CSTOnline Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal, India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts

Online Dating(Vote Below)

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Free dating sites where people can register anonymously without sharing personal information
41%
7 Votes
Paid dating sites where to register , people need to verify their payment details and to share Photo
12%
2 Votes
Well known matrimonial sites where to register , people need to verify valid personal documents (Id or Address proof)
6%
1 Votes
There is no full proof online sites to rely upon completely , I don't trust online Dating/Matrimonial sites to Find a Match
41%
7 Votes
17 Total Votes
Hi to all wave

When it comes to Find your Match Online , which One do you think is Most Appropriate Option according to Reliability ??

Feel free to share your views..
Have fun wave
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Aug 2, 2021 2:37 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
You go first .
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Aug 2, 2021 2:47 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Youcannow: You go first .
Nopp !! As the creator of the poll , I need to be neutral , so that I don't influence or manipulate other's opinion by disclosing my opinion first .. professor
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Aug 2, 2021 2:52 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Ok , so I see your brain is t functioning in normal mode , so I’ll give you my 2 pence worth.
I doubt many people on dating sites are serious about dating . CS is a prime example .
People who have been single for a long time, especially find it harder to date because they have become so independent & self sufficient, it would take someone extraordinary to convince them that they need someone in their life .
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Aug 2, 2021 2:53 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Tanzila: Nopp !! As the creator of the poll , I need to be neutral , so that I don't influence or manipulate other's opinion by disclosing my opinion first ..
How interesting that you create a poll but have no input .
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Aug 2, 2021 3:02 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow: How interesting that you create a poll but have no input .
Happens all the time, I wonder what anyone gets out of this stuff confused
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Aug 2, 2021 3:03 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Youcannow: How interesting that you create a poll but have no input .
Probably because most peeps are offline now confused Or May be because most folks here find my subjects not so interesting to make them comment upon it... uh oh

I know , I have a wired sense of interest !! giggle
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Aug 2, 2021 3:19 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
serene56: Happens all the time, I wonder what anyone gets out of this stuff
A bit of attention I suppose. dunno
Creating a blog without any additional input just give the usual suspects license to blabber on about everything & nothing .
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Aug 2, 2021 3:21 AM CST Online Dating
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
Tanzila: Probably because most peeps are offline now Or May be because most folks here find my subjects not so interesting to make them comment upon it...

I know , I have a wired sense of interest !!
So basically, you create polls but have no input, as far as the topic is concerned.
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Aug 2, 2021 4:10 AM CST Online Dating
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
I'm allergic to online dating..Most people I know are addicted to it...Best bet is to go out and meet people naturally rather than relying on nothing but typed words..Paid sites are a scam so if you prefer online dating stick with a free site

I do feel that online dating for woman is like some ridiculous competition..Most men are affiliated with many sites so more than likely we;re all fed the same things as the next woman is
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Aug 2, 2021 4:31 AM CST Online Dating
Mr_Amor
Mr_AmorMr_AmorAllahabad, Uttar Pradesh, Uttar Pradesh India8 Threads 87 Posts
Mercedes_00: I'm allergic to online dating..Most people I know are addicted to it...Best bet is to go out and meet people naturally rather than relying on nothing but typed words..Paid sites are a scam so if you prefer online dating stick with a free site

I do feel that online dating for woman is like some ridiculous competition..Most men are affiliated with many sites so more than likely we;re all fed the same things as the next woman is
peace
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Aug 2, 2021 4:36 AM CST Online Dating
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Thank you for confirming that I;m right in my way of thinking ^^^^^^^^ thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2021 4:51 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Youcannow: A bit of attention I suppose.
Creating a blog without any additional input just give the usual suspects license to blabber on about everything & nothing .
Oh !!! I thought you were talking about why there was no input from other people on the poll yet !!! confused

But actually you were talking about me to put more input in the pole myself to Explain the question " which One is Most Appropriate Option according to Reliability" !!!
You actually was expecting more input from me to explain the Definition of the words "according to Reliability" !!! wow

Now I Get You !!! wow giggle

BTW.. it's a Pole , not a Blog... wine
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Aug 2, 2021 4:54 AM CST Online Dating
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
"When it comes to Find your Match Online , which One do you think is Most Appropriate Option according to Reliability ??"

I think, that a paid service would have less trash and multiple profiles made by loonies. But the provider of these service isn't interested in you finding your match and leaving. They would like you to stay and pay for ever.

A service, that's focused on result, should be more reliable for people, who really want to meet someone for marriage. My guess is that it ought to be more expensive. Whether it works? Mabbe.

A free of charge dating site is heavily infested by scammers and overrun by bullies, but there are real and nice people as well. It's up to you to find them, make acquaintance and proceed from that :)
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Aug 2, 2021 4:55 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Mercedes_00: I'm allergic to online dating..Most people I know are addicted to it...Best bet is to go out and meet people naturally rather than relying on nothing but typed words..Paid sites are a scam so if you prefer online dating stick with a free site

I do feel that online dating for woman is like some ridiculous competition..Most men are affiliated with many sites so more than likely we;re all fed the same things as the next woman is

I agree with most of your points .. thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2021 5:04 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
Tulefell: "When it comes to Find your Match Online , which One do you think is Most Appropriate Option according to Reliability ??"

I think, that a paid service would have less trash and multiple profiles made by loonies. But the provider of these service isn't interested in you finding your match and leaving. They would like you to stay and pay for ever.

A service, that's focused on result, should be more reliable for people, who really want to meet someone for marriage. My guess is that it ought to be more expensive. Whether it works? Mabbe.

A free of charge dating site is heavily infested by scammers and overrun by bullies, but there are real and nice people as well. It's up to you to find them, make acquaintance and proceed from that :)
You've explained it very well.. thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2021 5:07 AM CST Online Dating
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
I think the clear answer really is any site that is heavily regulated and monitored and that you have to pay to be a member..
That automatically weeds out the boys from the men really.

A site like this anyone can join...not pay.. not post a pic...can give all the wrong info about themselves and it doesn't matter.

As Merc said and I agree...men would normally be on multiple sites...women less so....so you really are having to use your gut instinct with alot of them...a guy could pass himself off as one thing on here and another on a different site..

Only here to pass time have fun with who I want to have fun with...have serious conversations when I fancy....for that it'd a great site and I've made and continue to make good friends here...
But really I'm just waiting for social life to get more back to normal and to go meet new people that way...its the best way really...rather than some random idle chit chat with complete strangers online.
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Aug 2, 2021 5:40 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
deedee123xo: I think the clear answer really is any site that is heavily regulated and monitored and that you have to pay to be a member..
That automatically weeds out the boys from the men really.

A site like this anyone can join...not pay.. not post a pic...can give all the wrong info about themselves and it doesn't matter.

As Merc said and I agree...men would normally be on multiple sites...women less so....so you really are having to use your gut instinct with alot of them...a guy could pass himself off as one thing on here and another on a different site..

Only here to pass time have fun with who I want to have fun with...have serious conversations when I fancy....for that it'd a great site and I've made and continue to make good friends here...
But really I'm just waiting for social life to get more back to normal and to go meet new people that way...its the best way really...rather than some random idle chit chat with complete strangers online.
Truly said thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2021 5:51 AM CST Online Dating
noeleena
noeleenanoeleenawaimate, Canterbury New Zealand2 Threads 251 Posts
Evening ,

I,m well known so i dont have an issue with the truth aspect thing is i,m not used to lie,s scammer,s and conartists. and i have had a few cross my path and if i wont to or need to check if some one is real or not i,ll check on our German scammer forum and i have had to , i dont trust any one one forums like this one or a few i have been on ,

As of now this is the only one i,m on had enough of the other,s .

I will say i had to learn and from friends, dont trust any one i thought ....OH.... so that was a wow, okay. i would liked to have found some one for a long term relastionship. so really i learnt that wont happen , so very disapointing,

...noeleena...
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Aug 2, 2021 5:56 AM CST Online Dating
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Yes it would be nice to share really nice genuine times with a genuine man..I can guarantee you if you find that needle in a haystack on the internet as soon as there is trouble in the relationship he will be back on line as soon as your out the door doing the grocery shopping.
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Aug 2, 2021 6:03 AM CST Online Dating
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
Mercedes_00: Yes it would be nice to share really nice genuine times with a genuine man..I can guarantee you if you find that needle in a haystack on the internet as soon as there is trouble in the relationship he will be back on line as soon as your out the door doing the grocery shopping.
There's nothing more certain than that..
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Aug 2, 2021 6:07 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
What I've observed so far , I personally think ,

Online dating is more in trend now..
But practically speaking , it's kind of a Gambling (specially on Free Dating Sites) ...
And paid service is not totally clear from doubt either...
Money can act as a Double Edged Sword ...
If a fraud want to register in a authentic paid site with fake ID proof , it will be easy for them to do it by paying some hidden commission to the authority ... Corruption is everywhere ...
And I think , very less people will really dare to take the risk to Gamble over their own life in this scenario ...

I'm not saying that in reality everything is perfectly fine.. Frauds exist everywhere...
And there are exception exist online too..
Genuine people do exist online too..
But they are unfortunately hard to find , mostly because of the demands of the compatibility criteria ...

But still , the chances to verify someones authenticity is better out there than on a free dating site , where people can pretend to be whatever they want...
Just seeing someone's photo or having a video chat is not enough to verify someone ... Specially when it comes to long distance online dating.. conversing

So..
Does that mean ,
Online dating is totally hopeless for serious relationship ??

Not really... If you are lucky and too much smart to recognise genuine people from the loads of scammers and frauds , and too much flexible abput your compatibility criteria , then you might have a chance to find a potential match online ...
Otherwise just treat it as a side option , not the main medium to find a Match... thumbs up
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Aug 2, 2021 6:07 AM CST Online Dating
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
deedee123xo: There's nothing more certain than that..
When you hurt it really hurts..I'm so not perfect but I'm way too nice to be hurt
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Aug 2, 2021 6:13 AM CST Online Dating
Tanzila
TanzilaTanzilaCity Of Joy, West Bengal India77 Threads 47 Polls 554 Posts
noeleena: Evening ,

I,m well known so i dont have an issue with the truth aspect thing is i,m not used to lie,s scammer,s and conartists. and i have had a few cross my path and if i wont to or need to check if some one is real or not i,ll check on our German scammer forum and i have had to , i dont trust any one one forums like this one or a few i have been on ,

As of now this is the only one i,m on had enough of the other,s .

I will say i had to learn and from friends, dont trust any one i thought ....OH.... so that was a wow, okay. i would liked to have found some one for a long term relastionship. so really i learnt that wont happen , so very disapointing,

...noeleena...
Good evening !!

Yes... We do learn things unfortunately which made us disappointed sometimes... handshake
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Aug 2, 2021 11:34 AM CST Online Dating
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
It's a bunch of crap.
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Aug 7, 2021 4:53 AM CST Online Dating
FairyTree22
FairyTree22FairyTree22Grand Rapids, Michigan USA3 Threads 20 Posts
A lot off giys all the want is get in you pans
They tell ypu all sweet words to get a woman
There isnt many normal conversations most men lack of real connection
Girls lets get out off here
And start a girls club where we can make fun off men!banana
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Aug 7, 2021 4:53 AM CST Online Dating
FairyTree22
FairyTree22FairyTree22Grand Rapids, Michigan USA3 Threads 20 Posts
A lot off giys all the want is get in you pans
They tell ypu all sweet words to get a woman
There isnt many normal conversations most men lack of real connection
Girls lets get out off here
And start a girls club where we can make fun off men!banana
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Aug 7, 2021 10:42 AM CST Online Dating
Letstalkitover
LetstalkitoverLetstalkitoverunknown, California USA41 Posts
Some people say it works, others say no.

It could be the luck of the straw.
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Aug 7, 2021 1:53 PM CST Online Dating
FairyTree22: A lot off giys all the want is get in you pans
They tell ypu all sweet words to get a woman
There isnt many normal conversations most men lack of real connection
Girls lets get out off here
And start a girls club where we can make fun off men!
Feel free to make fun of us here .. laugh
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Aug 7, 2021 6:53 PM CST Online Dating
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
I'm getting all into it.

I can't wait to see the outcome.
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Aug 7, 2021 6:53 PM CST Online Dating
LaFonda
LaFondaLaFondaIrving, Texas USA1 Threads 835 Posts
I'm getting all into it.

I can't wait to see the outcome.
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