pat8lanips: It's not easy these days, we have to consider other planets and aliens. Like the one with 3 breasts in Total Recall, a good Arnold Schwarzenegger
film.
I agree ! This Earth seems not enough anymore to fulfill so much desire of love for all of us !!
Geno2809: Probably depends on the type of relationship involved imo.
For me it's over 2.5hrs travel time ..
In Ireland that's pretty much the whole width of the country
Ideally ,he'd live close enough for us to have some spontaneity, but not so close it'd feel like we were in each others' pockets. In other words, too far to walk but handy enough to nip over in the car...
What I don't understand is men in the US/EU contacting me (or women halfway around the world). They must have a gazzilion perfectly ok women on their own doorstep yet they're contacting a woman in the remotest part of Ireland?? Eh why??
blathin: In Ireland that's pretty much the whole width of the country
Ideally ,he'd live close enough for us to have some spontaneity, but not so close it'd feel like we were in each others' pockets. In other words, too far to walk but handy enough to nip over in the car...
What I don't understand is men in the US/EU contacting me (or women halfway around the world). They must have a gazzilion perfectly ok women on their own doorstep yet they're contacting a woman in the remotest part of Ireland?? Eh why??
The reason is very simple, blathin! Those gazzilion women just don't like 'em or want those men! I thought that you were a smart woman, blathin! (ahem....can i ask if you are pretty too? )
blathin: In Ireland that's pretty much the whole width of the country
Ideally ,he'd live close enough for us to have some spontaneity, but not so close it'd feel like we were in each others' pockets. In other words, too far to walk but handy enough to nip over in the car...
What I don't understand is men in the US/EU contacting me (or women halfway around the world). They must have a gazzilion perfectly ok women on their own doorstep yet they're contacting a woman in the remotest part of Ireland?? Eh why??
Like I said .. depends on the relationship type ..
Whatever distance prevents us from being together on a regular basis. I'm aware that a "regular basis" is a subjective term, but it's a reality based thing not some internet fantasy.
I have done the whole move to his neck of the woods before...was always taken for granted. I don't blame the distance I blame the now insignificant other.
I'm not sure I want to be so far away from my large family, that will be ever increasing.
The only relationship I'll consider in future is if they live in the same county or one of the neighbouring counties. And if thay never comes then so be it....but the excitement of what's around the corner has me intrigued enough not to fully shut the door...but certainly shutting it on here. I'll meet new people on my travels around Ireland fingers crossed.
pat8lanips: It's not easy these days, we have to consider other planets and aliens. Like the one with 3 breasts in Total Recall, a good Arnold Schwarzenegger
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The Distance(Vote Below)
So....
HOW FAR DISTANCE should Be Considered as LONG DISTANCE for a RELATIONSHIP according to you all ??
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Have fun !!