Who handles a rejection worst? ( Archived) (24)

Dec 24, 2021 6:28 AM CSTWho handles a rejection worst?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg, Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts

Who handles a rejection worst?(Vote Below)

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Good looking man
6
23%
Ugly man
2
8%
Transvestite
1
4%
Lesbian
0
0%
Gay guy
2
8%
Good looking women
9
35%
Ugly women
0
0%
I don't care
3
12%
Stupid poll
3
12%
Total Votes
26
Reason for this poll is that I just had to block a good looking women who refused to stop messaging me even though I asked her to stop. No it was not a scammer. No it was not on this site.
I think good looking women gets more upset then the others. The rest of us are used to rejections.
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Dec 24, 2021 7:15 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Looks has nothing to do with how bad rejection is handled
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Dec 24, 2021 7:33 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The young, the female and the rich. The good looking only child - only daughter - from a rich family. Guaranteed to get what you want. The only thing you lack is manhood, endurance and staying power. By default you love what you can't have, and only what you can't have.
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Dec 24, 2021 7:58 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
And gulf arabian men who are like the ultimate ladies of leisure. A patriarchy where all men are paid to exist. To hold all the cards both culturally and economically. Wherever power concentrates amongst the weakest of people. Abu Dhabi, Kuwait, Qatar etc
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Dec 24, 2021 8:03 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Mercedes_00: Looks has nothing to do with how bad rejection is handled
Not true.
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Who do you think would handle a rejection better?
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Dec 24, 2021 9:00 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
The poor beautiful lady .
How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her .
Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
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Dec 24, 2021 10:46 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Those with low self esteem and who don't believe they are worthy of love.
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Dec 24, 2021 11:06 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
It's in the nature of woman to truly fear slipping out of the gene pool. It's so much harder for her to handle rejection by saying plenty more fish in the sea, I would have forgotten him in a week. Men forget much easier than women do. Even this. The worst way a man handles rejection is when he forgets that he will have forgotten her in a week.
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Dec 24, 2021 1:56 PM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
People seem to be so full of generalisations in spite of their limited experiences with the other gender...

I couldn't generalise because I've seen a varied bunch of different reactions from good looking young guys in their late 30's refusing the possibility that a woman in her early 60's would turn them down, to less good looking men in their 60's projecting their anger onto me when their offer is not being considered.
It didn't strike as having anything to do with looks but rather with arrogance.
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Dec 25, 2021 5:13 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
There is a difference in real life then online.
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Dec 25, 2021 5:18 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
Youcannow: The poor beautiful lady .
How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her .
Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
It was not like that. She blamed me for my past life without even having a proper conversation to begin with me.
I felt hate towards me, that was in reality towards her child/childrens father. Due to the fact I was divorced with children. When someones first messages starts with blame, something is wrong.
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Dec 25, 2021 5:33 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
Selenite: People seem to be so full of generalisations in spite of their limited experiences with the other gender...

I couldn't generalise because I've seen a varied bunch of different reactions from good looking young guys in their late 30's refusing the possibility that a woman in her early 60's would turn them down, to less good looking men in their 60's projecting their anger onto me when their offer is not being considered.
It didn't strike as having anything to do with looks but rather with arrogance.
Arrogance, or insecurity?

When we accept, they may read it as a personal affirmation, but most deeply when people aren't emotionally independent, or confident in the idea of 'I'm okay, you're okay'.
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Dec 25, 2021 5:35 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The cultures where arranged marriage is still a thing and casual dating not a thing. Who makes the first move? The parents. The parents do what the man would otherwise do and he'll never learn how usual rejection from a woman is. A male 8 gets rejected more than a female 3, it doesn't mean he's a failure.
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Dec 25, 2021 6:10 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
pat8lanips
pat8lanipspat8lanipsbabinda, Queensland Australia67 Threads 14 Polls 6,372 Posts
If you say thanks but no thanks... One person calls you names and carries on, another says Ok then quietly jumps off a cliff... Who handled it better? you might think it's the one that said OK... because you didn't hear anything more.

I think you're a bit wrapped up in yourself.
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Dec 25, 2021 6:16 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 1,163 Posts
Youcannow: The poor beautiful lady .
How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her .
Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
Actually she even don't know how lucky she ischeers
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Dec 25, 2021 6:20 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
fantaziya
fantaziyafantaziyawindsor, Nova Scotia Canada4 Threads 1,163 Posts
MysteriousGirl80: Those with low self esteem and who don't believe they are worthy of love.
I would add self-centered, egoistic bunch cheers
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Dec 25, 2021 6:32 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
I would guess that people with psychological disorders cant handle rejection ,people like the pharmaceutical vaccination lobby grin
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Dec 25, 2021 7:49 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden96 Threads 22 Polls 707 Posts
fantaziya: Actually she even don't know how lucky she is
Ne ochen' priyatnyye slova! Yesli ya ne publikuyu vashi kommentarii, pozhaluysta, ne delayte etogo v moikh.
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Dec 25, 2021 8:28 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
KNenagh
KNenaghKNenaghAachen, Kilkenny Ireland12 Threads 11,160 Posts
Insecure and people with a too high opinion of themselves.

It will never happen that rubbishing someone will get you anywhere with them.

I wouldn't give anyone the satisfaction of running after him when he isn't interested. Showing interest yes, but if this is not reciprocated, I just turn around and walk away.

I have no time for people that fawn over someone and when it doesn't happen, talk nasty about the same person. Grow up.
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Dec 25, 2021 9:30 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
jac_the_gripper: Arrogance, or insecurity?

When we accept, they may read it as a personal affirmation, but most deeply when people aren't emotionally independent, or confident in the idea of 'I'm okay, you're okay'.
Arrogance may well be born out of insecurity... it depends... someone who's not used to receiving a no from anyone and can't handle it when it happens I would say is more arrogant than insecure.
Someone who can't handle yet another rejection is probably more insecure than arrogant.
And then there's those who have been wounded and carry a lot of anger they off load at first opportunity ...
It takes emotional maturity and well being to feel and apply ''I'm ok, you're ok'' no matter the outcome
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Dec 25, 2021 11:21 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
I don’t believe gender has anything to do with rejection. It’s personal very personal and pending the circumstances of the rejection this will determine how you feel.wine
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Dec 25, 2021 12:15 PM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
I will tell you one thing Jaavisst.
If you wanna søkksiid here I'd get of the 'us n them' competition attitude of yours.

That advice was for free.

beer
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Dec 26, 2021 2:16 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Saying good looking people don't have feelings is ridiculous
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Dec 28, 2021 5:31 AM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
blathin
blathinblathinGlasgow, Central, Scotland UK3,125 Posts
I take it she doesn't read the forums then..laugh
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Jan 4, 2022 1:43 PM CST Who handles a rejection worst?
Oh, so you blocked her on another site?
maybe she thought you was gone change
your mind, reason she was still doing it
she just didn’t take you serious
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Created: Dec 2021
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