Reason for this poll is that I just had to block a good looking women who refused to stop messaging me even though I asked her to stop. No it was not a scammer. No it was not on this site. I think good looking women gets more upset then the others. The rest of us are used to rejections.
The young, the female and the rich. The good looking only child - only daughter - from a rich family. Guaranteed to get what you want. The only thing you lack is manhood, endurance and staying power. By default you love what you can't have, and only what you can't have.
And gulf arabian men who are like the ultimate ladies of leisure. A patriarchy where all men are paid to exist. To hold all the cards both culturally and economically. Wherever power concentrates amongst the weakest of people. Abu Dhabi, Kuwait, Qatar etc
The poor beautiful lady . How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her . Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
It's in the nature of woman to truly fear slipping out of the gene pool. It's so much harder for her to handle rejection by saying plenty more fish in the sea, I would have forgotten him in a week. Men forget much easier than women do. Even this. The worst way a man handles rejection is when he forgets that he will have forgotten her in a week.
People seem to be so full of generalisations in spite of their limited experiences with the other gender...
I couldn't generalise because I've seen a varied bunch of different reactions from good looking young guys in their late 30's refusing the possibility that a woman in her early 60's would turn them down, to less good looking men in their 60's projecting their anger onto me when their offer is not being considered. It didn't strike as having anything to do with looks but rather with arrogance.
Youcannow: The poor beautiful lady . How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her . Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
It was not like that. She blamed me for my past life without even having a proper conversation to begin with me. I felt hate towards me, that was in reality towards her child/childrens father. Due to the fact I was divorced with children. When someones first messages starts with blame, something is wrong.
Selenite: People seem to be so full of generalisations in spite of their limited experiences with the other gender...
I couldn't generalise because I've seen a varied bunch of different reactions from good looking young guys in their late 30's refusing the possibility that a woman in her early 60's would turn them down, to less good looking men in their 60's projecting their anger onto me when their offer is not being considered. It didn't strike as having anything to do with looks but rather with arrogance.
Arrogance, or insecurity?
When we accept, they may read it as a personal affirmation, but most deeply when people aren't emotionally independent, or confident in the idea of 'I'm okay, you're okay'.
The cultures where arranged marriage is still a thing and casual dating not a thing. Who makes the first move? The parents. The parents do what the man would otherwise do and he'll never learn how usual rejection from a woman is. A male 8 gets rejected more than a female 3, it doesn't mean he's a failure.
If you say thanks but no thanks... One person calls you names and carries on, another says Ok then quietly jumps off a cliff... Who handled it better? you might think it's the one that said OK... because you didn't hear anything more.
Youcannow: The poor beautiful lady . How is she ever going to live with herself now that you’ve rejected her . Now that you’ve ruined her life , the civil thing to do is to pay for therapy sessions for her .
Insecure and people with a too high opinion of themselves.
It will never happen that rubbishing someone will get you anywhere with them.
I wouldn't give anyone the satisfaction of running after him when he isn't interested. Showing interest yes, but if this is not reciprocated, I just turn around and walk away.
I have no time for people that fawn over someone and when it doesn't happen, talk nasty about the same person. Grow up.
When we accept, they may read it as a personal affirmation, but most deeply when people aren't emotionally independent, or confident in the idea of 'I'm okay, you're okay'.
Arrogance may well be born out of insecurity... it depends... someone who's not used to receiving a no from anyone and can't handle it when it happens I would say is more arrogant than insecure. Someone who can't handle yet another rejection is probably more insecure than arrogant. And then there's those who have been wounded and carry a lot of anger they off load at first opportunity ... It takes emotional maturity and well being to feel and apply ''I'm ok, you're ok'' no matter the outcome
I don’t believe gender has anything to do with rejection. It’s personal very personal and pending the circumstances of the rejection this will determine how you feel.
Oh, so you blocked her on another site? maybe she thought you was gone change your mind, reason she was still doing it she just didn’t take you serious
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Who handles a rejection worst?(Vote Below)
I think good looking women gets more upset then the others. The rest of us are used to rejections.