should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years? (69)

Jan 18, 2022 1:52 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
mariamarcela: Ask yourself, and your heart will give you the answer.

But...
From my experience...
...forgiveness brings inner peace.
yes it could...forever and evergrin
Jan 18, 2022 1:53 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
LeeCharming: you don't sound very forgiving
You are correct, I'm not.

Do you think you are the only man on CS who has had a woman, or women in general, be unkind to you?

Self pity is not attractive.
Jan 18, 2022 1:53 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Caprikious: Do you as you would have done by you by man or woman.
Forgive and never forget.
it might be the answerconfused grin
Jan 18, 2022 1:54 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
mikey4691: Don't do it Lee, just kick them old biddies to the curb.. They'd only do it again later, anyhow...
maybegrin
Jan 18, 2022 1:56 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Dedovix: well, i have stumbled on an interesting article

Shocking survey shows women today generally support censorship and totalitarianism while men prefer free speech and liberty

it seems they like rough games in the bedroom
many read fifty shades of greygrin
Jan 18, 2022 1:57 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Mesange1: Why bother Lee ? Forgiving is a spiritual thing ......... works only if your heart really wants it.

Forget those who hurt you, it made you stronger, sharpened your mind, likes and dislikes about what is good or not for you. Focus on that, leave them nasty women all alone and be happy again !
i'm still undecidedconfused grin
Jan 18, 2022 1:58 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Packersbabe1: New Year, New You
am i a new manconfused grin
Jan 18, 2022 2:00 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Packersbabe1: To add to that, you say unkind to you? I’m assuming arguments, you should be over that
cause you said over the year’s
but should i forgive those womenconfused grin
Jan 18, 2022 2:01 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
HappyCampero76: I'd say if the thing ended for a misunderstanding well go for it.
If there are other reasons why it ended it all depends on how bad was the reason...
None of the answer u gave apply to me...
no it's not about a relationship endinggrin
Jan 18, 2022 2:02 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
help need more adviceconfused grin
Jan 18, 2022 2:21 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: what by forgiving women...on cs who have been mean to me
ahhh you're talking about CS? Sorry I thought you were talking about real life...
Whichever way, after you forgive someone, what happens is that you no longer feel cut up about what happened even if the memory of it pops up.

It's your choice what you want for yourself. Do you want to have memories that upset you or do you want to release and let go. Only you can do it for yourself. wine
Jan 18, 2022 2:29 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Selenite: ahhh you're talking about CS? Sorry I thought you were talking about real life...
Whichever way, after you forgive someone, what happens is that you no longer feel cut up about what happened even if the memory of it pops up.

It's your choice what you want for yourself. Do you want to have memories that upset you or do you want to release and let go. Only you can do it for yourself.
Selenite: ahhh you're talking about CS? Sorry I thought you were talking about real life...
Whichever way, after you forgive someone, what happens is that you no longer feel cut up about what happened even if the memory of it pops up.

It's your choice what you want for yourself. Do you want to have memories that upset you or do you want to release and let go. Only you can do it for yourself.
was i seriouslaugh something i forgot to mentionrolling on the floor laughing this thread is under the humour sectionrolling on the floor laughing
Jan 18, 2022 2:29 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
tongue rolling on the floor laughing
Jan 18, 2022 2:33 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
the women in real life...are much...much kinder than most cs women and i have forgiven all women that ever mattered to me in my lifebeer
Jan 18, 2022 2:35 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
LeeCharming: did you watch the movie
OMG, you must have missed the first sentence in my earlier post.

I said that I watched all three movies. The movies were made from the three books.
Jan 18, 2022 2:37 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
secretagent09: OMG, you must have missed the first sentence in my earlier post.

I said that I watched all three movies. The movies were made from the three books.
so you didwow my mistakegrin
Jan 18, 2022 2:40 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
LeeCharming: was i serious something i forgot to mention this thread is under the humour section
I didn't notice!! doh laugh laugh
Jan 18, 2022 2:43 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
LeeCharming: so you did my mistake
No problem, I forgive you grin
Jan 18, 2022 2:45 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,223 Posts
Selenite: I didn't notice!!
Neither did I Sel. I never look at the venue a thread is listed under. I will try to do better next time giggle
Jan 18, 2022 2:46 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
hell no
yes...yes...yes
no they won't care if you do
yes they will be grateful if you do
no they enjoy being unkind to you
yes they will be kind to you in the future
no they don't like you lee and never will...forget them
yes they feel very guilty and you should forgive them
no many are grumpy old women...living with their cats
yes some might be attractive looking and dating material

the poll choicesrolling on the floor laughing
Jan 18, 2022 2:47 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
Melody1671
Melody1671Melody1671Maracaibo, Zulia Venezuela2,376 Posts
LeeCharming: was i serious something i forgot to mention this thread is under the humour section
I have been laughing so hard, since the first moment you posted this thread... Knowing you, it had to be one of your crazy, super funny, threads... But, I didn't want to spoil it, saying anything... You are as terrible as adorable!... laugh rolling on the floor laughing hug teddybear
Jan 18, 2022 2:54 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
Melody1671: I have been laughing so hard, since the first moment you posted this thread... Knowing you, it had to be one of your crazy, super funny, threads... But, I didn't want to spoil it, saying anything... You are as terrible as adorable!...

it was greatrolling on the floor laughing
Jan 18, 2022 3:02 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
Selenite
SeleniteSeleniteMálaga, Andalusia Spain59 Threads 1 Polls 6,299 Posts
Melody1671: I have been laughing so hard, since the first moment you posted this thread... Knowing you, it had to be one of your crazy, super funny, threads... But, I didn't want to spoil it, saying anything... You are as terrible as adorable!...
That is hilarious!! laugh laugh
Jan 18, 2022 3:13 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
you waited for me to tell them melodybeer grin
Jan 19, 2022 2:52 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
i bet many women were sweating...when i created this thread and now they feel reliefrolling on the floor laughing
Jan 19, 2022 6:33 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
LeeCharming: i bet many women were sweating...when i created this thread and now they feel relief
Hot pepper cheese, crackers makes em sweat, I'm not sure if this thread does tho?? dunno
Jan 20, 2022 12:22 AM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
gosh... Lee

forgiving someone doesn't mean you think what they did was ok...
forgiveness is for you, helping you to let go

hmmmmm...
carry all that baggage and bitterness around for a few more years,
or stop thinking about it, and enjoy yourself..

it's a touch decision
i'm sure you'll choose what's best for you


wine wink
Jan 20, 2022 6:42 AM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
Youcannow
YoucannowYoucannowLondon, Essex, England UK96 Threads 3,523 Posts
No , get your revenge by giving tomcat their phone no.
Jan 20, 2022 3:04 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming: am i a new man
laugh You are if you stop arguing head banger
Jan 20, 2022 3:06 PM CST should i forgive women...who have been unkind to me over the years?
LeeCharming: but should i forgive those women


Yes, you will feel so much better
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