Define attractive - (42)

Mar 14, 2022 6:59 AM CSTDefine attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England, UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts

Define attractive -(Vote Below)

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drop dead gorgeous, slightly narcissistic, fun, everyone envies you
0%
0 Votes
thinks you are perfect in every way
0%
0 Votes
rich and generous, not hideous
0%
0 Votes
ready whenever you are, and good in bed
7%
1 Votes
reliable and loving
43%
6 Votes
all-rounder, loving, generous, you could definitely pull a better-looking one
50%
7 Votes
14 Total Votes
Which is closest to ideal? By this age I should know which one I shouldn't have let go. confused
Mar 14, 2022 7:01 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
What do you mean?
Is this poll for what I am looking for or how see my self?
Mar 14, 2022 7:02 AM CST Define attractive -
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden89 Threads 3 Polls 3,922 Posts
Rich and generous any time.
Mar 14, 2022 7:03 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Should be added, two of them took themselves off so probably not included in my personal vote uh oh laugh
Mar 14, 2022 7:04 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Jaavisst: What do you mean?
Is this poll for what I am looking for or how see my self?
What you're looking for, but interesting to add how you see yourself?
Mar 14, 2022 7:05 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Tulefell: Rich and generous any time.
There are always flaws. If they are not at all attractive, or boring, or controlling - still?
Mar 14, 2022 7:12 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
So I voted reliable and loving.
I can live with only that. But if I feel no attraction it will be a life without sex.
The first option was just scary!
Mar 14, 2022 7:15 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Jaavisst: So I voted reliable and loving.
I can live with only that. But if I feel no attraction it will be a life without sex.
The first option was just scary!
Agreed! and yet fun laugh Well, once, anyway rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 14, 2022 7:16 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Jaavisst:
So I voted reliable and loving.
I can live with only that. But if I feel no attraction it will be a life without sex.
The first option was just scary!
Forgot about my self being busy judging!

I have know to be a chameleon I adapt and adjust according to partners wishes.
I just don't want to fight over triviality.
I tend to walk away after some years if things are boring or hostile.
A lot of I:s there but you wanted to know about I.
Mar 14, 2022 7:26 AM CST Define attractive -
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden89 Threads 3 Polls 3,922 Posts
suziecute: There are always flaws. If they are not at all attractive, or boring, or controlling - still?
Sure.

Just imagine: fat, ugly, boring, controlling and poor. Even if it's 4 different men, the quantity won't compensate for anything :)
Mar 14, 2022 7:34 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Tulefell: Sure.

Just imagine: fat, ugly, boring, controlling and poor. Even if it's 4 different men, the quantity won't compensate for anything :)
Haha show me the moneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey rolling on the floor laughing I do sometimes look at the bloggers and - bearing in mind they have their best pics up - I still think no no no not for millions. Which would no doubt be mutual if I had a pic up ... So now I am chatting on the forums, lol.
Mar 14, 2022 7:52 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
suziecute: Haha show me the moneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey I do sometimes look at the bloggers and - bearing in mind they have their best pics up - I still think no no no not for millions. Which would no doubt be mutual if I had a pic up ... So now I am chatting on the forums, lol.
Good for you. This forum needs fresh voices. Don't take it personal though if you will get some negativity tossed your way. Please forgive them because they know not what they are doing!
Mar 14, 2022 7:54 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Tulefell: Sure.

Just imagine: fat, ugly, boring, controlling and poor. Even if it's 4 different men, the quantity won't compensate for anything :)
OK you mean like 90% of Swedish middle age men then!
Mar 14, 2022 8:01 AM CST Define attractive -
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden89 Threads 3 Polls 3,922 Posts
suziecute: Haha show me the moneeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey I do sometimes look at the bloggers and - bearing in mind they have their best pics up - I still think no no no not for millions. Which would no doubt be mutual if I had a pic up ... So now I am chatting on the forums, lol.
Even if a list of features, taken separately, seem attractive, it doesn't yet mean that you'd like the sum of them.

For me looks matter from the point that they tell the story about the wearer, more so as we age. A mug shot seldom says especially much, but a boring blog after a boring blog does. One also starts to wonder - even if briefly - about those people's choices: no job to attend to? no imagination or drift to maintain a hobby?

And then, as you said above, there's no light without shadow: you have to be prepared to compromise and adjust as everybody has some negative sides, both in appearance and character.
Mar 14, 2022 8:09 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Tulefell:
For me looks matter from the point that they tell the story about the wearer, more so as we age. A mug shot seldom says especially much, but a boring blog after a boring blog does. One also starts to wonder - even if briefly - about those people's choices: no job to attend to? no imagination or drift to maintain a hobby?

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He he I am self centered so I readily accept this phrase as pointed towards me.
Mar 14, 2022 8:12 AM CST Define attractive -
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden89 Threads 3 Polls 3,922 Posts
Jaavisst: He he I am self centered so I readily accept this phrase as pointed towards me.
Only if you want to.
Mar 14, 2022 8:21 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Tulefell: Only if you want to.
Näh,det bara kändes så! Du har ju haft åsikter förr om mig.
Mar 15, 2022 9:09 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Jaavisst: Good for you. This forum needs fresh voices. Don't take it personal though if you will get some negativity tossed your way. Please forgive them because they know not what they are doing!
The blogs are monopolised now by tantrum-throwers, seems to me, so how bad can the forums be ... so far definitely so good, thank you for the friendly welcome handshake
Mar 15, 2022 9:19 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Tulefell: : you have to be prepared to compromise and adjust as everybody has some negative sides, both in appearance and character.
This gets more true with age and in the end I guess we balance what we want most against whichever flaws come bubbling up. I find I'm reaching the point where the eggtimer is taking over. This person is a 5 minuter, that person I can enjoy talking to for an hour, this one good for an entire evening, that one I won't even start the timer but race in the opposite direction, haha. Friendships grow when timers match and maybe love has nothing to do with the list and everything to do with not even noticing time spent together is passing ...

that whole comment came out of back brain. I shall have to think more about it, rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 15, 2022 9:31 AM CST Define attractive -
Awesome lips and an abnormal desire for ...







can I be honest ..... hmmm





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Mar 15, 2022 11:45 AM CST Define attractive -
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
suziecute: This gets more true with age and in the end I guess we balance what we want most against whichever flaws come bubbling up. I find I'm reaching the point where the eggtimer is taking over. This person is a 5 minuter, that person I can enjoy talking to for an hour, this one good for an entire evening, that one I won't even start the timer but race in the opposite direction, haha. Friendships grow when timers match and maybe love has nothing to do with the list and everything to do with not even noticing time spent together is passing ...

that whole comment came out of back brain. I shall have to think more about it,
Question is do one want many 5 minute friends or one all evening one?
Mar 15, 2022 12:53 PM CST Define attractive -
Circlip
CirclipCirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK29 Threads 1,131 Posts
Physical attractiveness can quickly diminish in significance if it is accompanied by an unpleasant or uninteresting personality, or character. On the other hand, the personality can make someone with unremarkable looks incredibly attractive. That’s what I have found, anyway.
Mar 17, 2022 5:32 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
BB_snickers: Awesome lips and an abnormal desire for ...







can I be honest .....
Sounds like #4 to me, assuming you want to be honest about appetite ... rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 17, 2022 5:40 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Jaavisst: Question is do one want many 5 minute friends or one all evening one?
Good question! a 5 minute friend, someone you stop to talk to in the street, not just smile and wave. We all have some of those, especially in a small town. An hour friend is coffee and chat and it is lovely to have those. Evening friends, very nice to have those, mine tend to be couples (hence, hello, listing on a singles site) and romantically wouldn't it be great to have a plus one for those evenings? smitten
Mar 17, 2022 5:45 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute
suziecutesuziecuteEnfield, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 2 Polls 24 Posts
Circlip: Physical attractiveness can quickly diminish in significance if it is accompanied by an unpleasant or uninteresting personality, or character. On the other hand, the personality can make someone with unremarkable looks incredibly attractive. That’s what I have found, anyway.
Oh help yes, some drop-dead gorgeous can trigger get-away get-away the minute they start talking (usually about themselves, haha) and those few who can make us think or laugh (or both!) are gems. But they are few sigh and then they have to think the same of you uh oh
Mar 17, 2022 6:02 AM CST Define attractive -
Circlip
CirclipCirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK29 Threads 1,131 Posts
suziecute: and then they have to think the same of you
Yes, I've always found that to be my main stumbling block. sigh
Mar 17, 2022 6:50 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute: The blogs are monopolised now by tantrum-throwers, seems to me, so how bad can the forums be ... so far definitely so good, thank you for the friendly welcome
wave Welcome to the forums. You will find out here you get what you send out. You send out positive and happy and it will come home to roost. I find a person attractive by how they carry their selfs. How they take care of their bussiness in life. I find a person with good morals attractive. wine
Mar 17, 2022 8:43 AM CST Define attractive -
suziecute: Sounds like #4 to me, assuming you want to be honest about appetite ...
ehmmm, very close to #4 blushing
Mar 17, 2022 5:35 PM CST Define attractive -
Oozes layed-back selfconfidence. Has lived a little and gained some wisdom. Has nothing to prove. Is kind. smitten
Mar 17, 2022 5:37 PM CST Define attractive -
Circlip
CirclipCirclipNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK29 Threads 1,131 Posts
Selenite: Oozes layed-back selfconfidence. Has lived a little and gained some wisdom. Has nothing to prove. Is kind.
I'll get my coat. moping
Mar 17, 2022 5:38 PM CST Define attractive -
Circlip: I'll get my coat.
laugh laugh

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