Why not? You may be surprised that he/she might be willing to move to you
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It depends upon what the other person thinks
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Not sure if it is/isn't fair.
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Yes, it's fair. You could visit as often as you like
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Finding the right person for you might mean looking in other countries for 'candidates', even though you may not relish the thought of relocating. Leaving behind the familiar can be somewhat daunting.
In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country. Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
Jaavisst: In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country. Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
Jaavisst: In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country. Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
But you lived in so many countries, according to you . Why did you move back ?
Well then, it wouldn't matter that you pursued a relationship abroad, you'd has no reason to join the person wherever they live. That would be just fine with them:)
Maybe the other person could relocate to your country . Just because you pursue someone from abroad , doesn’t necessarily mean you have to relocate there .
Didi7: Well then, it wouldn't matter that you pursued a relationship abroad, you'd has no reason to join the person wherever they live. That would be just fine with them:)
Youcannow: Maybe the other person could relocate to your country . Just because you pursue someone from abroad , doesn’t necessarily mean you have to relocate there .
I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
You don't have anything to keep you from relocating and you're all ready to do so. So if you found a new love abroad, there'd be no dilemma about moving to where they live, not so?
Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
So find someone where the weather is just right for you. The change of scenery and culture may be just the think that you need:)
Didi7: You don't have anything to keep you from relocating and you're all ready to do so. So if you found a new love abroad, there'd be no dilemma about moving to where they live, not so?
OK yes. But most likely I will move before finding someone. And most likely I will be on my own in a new country. It's no problem for me.
Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
Why do you rely on other people for your happiness . No one responsible for your happiness other than yourself . If you’re an unhappy person , even paradise won’t change that .
Youcannow: Why do you rely on other people for your happiness . No one responsible for your happiness other than yourself . If you’re an unhappy person , even paradise won’t change that .
I don't rely on other people, it's the opposite. To many now, got to go. I am never happy or unhappy. Just bored.
Jaavisst: OK yes. But most likely I will move before finding someone. And most likely I will be on my own in a new country. It's no problem for me.
Whilst it may not be a problem for you, wouldn't you rather have made a friend beforehand, so that they may show you around (food, culture, sites) and share the experience with you? That may certainly a more personal approach.
Didi7: Whilst it may not be a problem for you, wouldn't you rather have made a friend beforehand, so that they may show you around (food, culture, sites) and share the experience with you? That may certainly a more personal approach.
I'm not normal in that I never feel fear. even in the worst situations I am calm and calculating. I also have a high tolerance to pain. Maybe it's my high percenrtence of Neanderthal genes.
Jaavisst: I'm not normal in that I never feel fear. even in the worst situations I am calm and calculating. I also have a high tolerance to pain. Maybe it's my high percenrtence of Neanderthal genes.
Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
It is good you can ... and have... made your own parameters for happiness, for we know ourselves best than anybody ... most of all the armchair opinionated ones all too eager to give unwarranted/biased/baseless comments to your personal choices that affect your personal and nobody else's life ... For we can't always keep standing by the edge of the pond wondering if the water's too cold or just right temp. to wade in... At some point, many of us actually brave the unknown and take a leap of faith instead of being an adventurer from the comfort of their computer only and give their opinions left and right .
Islandgirl61: It is good you can ... and have... made your own parameters for happiness, for we know ourselves best than anybody ... most of all the armchair opinionated ones all too eager to give unwarranted/biased/baseless comments to your personal choices that affect your personal and nobody else's life ... For we can't always keep standing by the edge of the pond wondering if the water's too cold or just right temp. to wade in... At some point, many of us actually brave the unknown and take a leap of faith instead of being an adventurer from the comfort of their computer only and give their opinions left and right .
I have probably some letters connected to my personality. As a small child I rather read or run to the woods then play with other kids. I could read and write at age 5. Ten years old I rather have discussions with adults and studied many things to know everything.
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