Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there? (98)

Mar 30, 2022 12:07 PM CSTIs it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?(Vote Below)

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Sure. Some long distance relationships work out
22%
7 Votes
No, you're just wasting your/their time
34%
11 Votes
Why not? You may be surprised that he/she might be willing to move to you
12%
4 Votes
It depends upon what the other person thinks
16%
5 Votes
Not sure if it is/isn't fair.
6%
2 Votes
Yes, it's fair. You could visit as often as you like
9%
3 Votes
32 Total Votes
Finding the right person for you might mean looking in other countries for 'candidates', even though you may not relish the thought of relocating. Leaving behind the familiar can be somewhat daunting.
Mar 30, 2022 12:26 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country.
Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
Mar 30, 2022 12:48 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country.
Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
Really... nothing to keep you rooted at home?
Mar 30, 2022 12:53 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
not really
Mar 30, 2022 12:54 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst: In the past I was looking for someone to come to my country, now I am looking to move to another country.
Today finally someone seams to buy my properties so soon I can move.
But you lived in so many countries, according to you .
Why did you move back ?
Mar 30, 2022 12:56 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: not really
Well then, it wouldn't matter that you pursued a relationship abroad, you'd has no reason to join the person wherever they live. That would be just fine with them:)
Mar 30, 2022 12:56 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Maybe the other person could relocate to your country .
Just because you pursue someone from abroad , doesn’t necessarily mean you have to relocate there .
Mar 30, 2022 12:59 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Youcannow: But you lived in so many countries, according to you .
Why did you move back ?
I visited many countries, I didn't live in so many.
Mar 30, 2022 1:01 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Didi7: Well then, it wouldn't matter that you pursued a relationship abroad, you'd has no reason to join the person wherever they live. That would be just fine with them:)
I don't understand?
Mar 30, 2022 1:04 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
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Youcannow: Maybe the other person could relocate to your country .
Just because you pursue someone from abroad , doesn’t necessarily mean you have to relocate there .
I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
Mar 30, 2022 1:06 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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You don't have anything to keep you from relocating and you're all ready to do so. So if you found a new love abroad, there'd be no dilemma about moving to where they live, not so?
Mar 30, 2022 1:07 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
So find someone where the weather is just right for you. The change of scenery and culture may be just the think that you need:)
Mar 30, 2022 1:07 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden89 Threads 3 Polls 3,922 Posts
Well.. if it's pen-pal relationship and the both parts agree on it: then yes. Otherwise - no!
Mar 30, 2022 1:08 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
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Didi7: You don't have anything to keep you from relocating and you're all ready to do so. So if you found a new love abroad, there'd be no dilemma about moving to where they live, not so?
OK yes. But most likely I will move before finding someone. And most likely I will be on my own in a new country. It's no problem for me.
Mar 30, 2022 1:10 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
if you have a lot of money and a lot of free time...then i guess long distance relations could be an option...but i'm not interested in one
Mar 30, 2022 1:11 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: I don't understand?
Please forgive my typos....:(
Mar 30, 2022 1:12 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
Why do you rely on other people for your happiness .
No one responsible for your happiness other than yourself .
If you’re an unhappy person , even paradise won’t change that .
Mar 30, 2022 1:18 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
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Youcannow: Why do you rely on other people for your happiness .
No one responsible for your happiness other than yourself .
If you’re an unhappy person , even paradise won’t change that .
I don't rely on other people, it's the opposite. To many now, got to go.
I am never happy or unhappy. Just bored.
Mar 30, 2022 1:21 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: OK yes. But most likely I will move before finding someone. And most likely I will be on my own in a new country. It's no problem for me.
Whilst it may not be a problem for you, wouldn't you rather have made a friend beforehand, so that they may show you around (food, culture, sites) and share the experience with you? That may certainly a more personal approach.
Mar 30, 2022 1:22 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Didi7: Whilst it may not be a problem for you, wouldn't you rather have made a friend beforehand, so that they may show you around (food, culture, sites) and share the experience with you? That may certainly a more personal approach.
Not needed but not refused either.
Mar 30, 2022 1:25 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: Not needed but not refused either.
Sometimes things aren't always about "need", but It's good that you "...wouldn't refuse either" :)
Mar 30, 2022 1:25 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
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Jaavisst: Not needed but not refused either.
I'm not normal in that I never feel fear. even in the worst situations I am calm and calculating. I also have a high tolerance to pain. Maybe it's my high percenrtence of Neanderthal genes.
Mar 30, 2022 1:26 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: I'm not normal in that I never feel fear. even in the worst situations I am calm and calculating. I also have a high tolerance to pain. Maybe it's my high percenrtence of Neanderthal genes.
lol! I guess so...
Mar 30, 2022 1:28 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Didi7: lol! I guess so...
Perhaps why you seem so easily bores too...nothing "moves" you much
Mar 30, 2022 1:28 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst: I want to move to better climate. Far south of Sweden maybe wwould work. But I am honestly tired of Swedish people mentaly! Even more so after latest 2 years.
It is good you can ... and have... made your own parameters for happiness, for we know ourselves best than anybody ... most of all the armchair opinionated ones all too eager to give unwarranted/biased/baseless comments to your personal choices that affect your personal and nobody else's life ... For we can't always keep standing by the edge of the pond wondering if the water's too cold or just right temp. to wade in... At some point, many of us actually brave the unknown and take a leap of faith instead of being an adventurer from the comfort of their computer only and give their opinions left and right .wink
Mar 30, 2022 1:28 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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bored
Mar 30, 2022 1:30 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Didi7: Perhaps why you seem so easily bores too...nothing "moves" you much
No I don't get bored easy. I can count ants for hours! But get upset when they same ant come back and I have start all over!
Mar 30, 2022 1:31 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Jaavisst: No I don't get bored easy. I can count ants for hours! But get upset when they same ant come back and I have start all over!
Lol! Oh my...:D
Mar 30, 2022 1:31 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
Islandgirl61: It is good you can ... and have... made your own parameters for happiness, for we know ourselves best than anybody ... most of all the armchair opinionated ones all too eager to give unwarranted/biased/baseless comments to your personal choices that affect your personal and nobody else's life ... For we can't always keep standing by the edge of the pond wondering if the water's too cold or just right temp. to wade in... At some point, many of us actually brave the unknown and take a leap of faith instead of being an adventurer from the comfort of their computer only and give their opinions left and right .
You are absolutely right!
Mar 30, 2022 1:35 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
Jaavisst
JaavisstJaavisstLjusdal, Gavleborg Sweden141 Threads 27 Polls 1,474 Posts
I have probably some letters connected to my personality. As a small child I rather read or run to the woods then play with other kids. I could read and write at age 5. Ten years old I rather have discussions with adults and studied many things to know everything.
Mar 30, 2022 1:36 PM CST Is it fair to pursue a relationship abroad, if you have no intention of moving there?
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Didi7: Lol! Oh my...:D
Thanks for your inputs all. I've got to go walk my puppy, Sweetie Pie, so enjoy the rest of your day.wave

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