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Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)? ( Archived) (100)

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#0
Apr 28, 2022 9:56 AM CSTHave you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas, Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas, Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts

Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?(Vote Below)

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Yes, but only once
13%
6 Votes
Yes, several times
42%
19 Votes
Yes, all the time. Variety is the spice of life.:)
16%
7 Votes
No, but always wanted to.
16%
7 Votes
No. I never wanted/felt the need to.
9%
4 Votes
Other
4%
2 Votes
45 Total Votes
Based upon how one is/was socialized, the inclination to date within or outside of one's race could be either 'strong' or even 'non-existent'. Some persons may be more adventurous than others, whilst some may be concerned about what others may say/not say about their choosing to date outside of their race.

What say you? Honest opinions and experiences are most welcome:D
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#1
Apr 28, 2022 10:06 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
secretagent09
secretagent09secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA198 Threads 4 Polls 7,230 Posts
secretagent09New Jersey Girl in, North Carolina USA7,230 posts
Up to the age of 20 I lived in a black neighborhood with my parents. We were the only white family in that neighborhood. We got along well with the neighbors and I walked to school with a black girl. One day I was sitting on the steps talking to a neighbor across the street. I guess I was around 10 or 12 years old. The man was probably 10 years older. We just talked and laughed. We were in perfect view of everybody. When I walked across the street to go home as I got inside my house my father took a belt to me and beat me so badly that I was hanging onto my dresser. He was furious that I was sitting with a black man......a man from the neighborhood....a man that he waved too and chatted with sometimes.

As I grew up to adulthood it never entered my mind to date a black man.
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#2
Apr 28, 2022 10:25 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Yes, I never found any difference, she made good sandwiches too, and she had all her bits in the right places.. wink
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#3
Apr 28, 2022 10:28 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
extraterrestrial hanky-panky ?
i may have pleasured myself to cosplay blue chick from Avatar

giggle
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#4
Apr 28, 2022 10:48 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
secretagent09: Up to the age of 20 I lived in a black neighborhood with my parents. We were the only white family in that neighborhood. We got along well with the neighbors and I walked to school with a black girl. One day I was sitting on the steps talking to a neighbor across the street. I guess I was around 10 or 12 years old. The man was probably 10 years older. We just talked and laughed. We were in perfect view of everybody. When I walked across the street to go home as I got inside my house my father took a belt to me and beat me so badly that I was hanging onto my dresser. He was furious that I was sitting with a black man......a man from the neighborhood....a man that he waved too and chatted with sometimes.

As I grew up to adulthood it never entered my mind to date a black man.
Oh my...I'm so sorry that you had to endure that SAhug comfort
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#5
Apr 28, 2022 10:51 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Didi7: Oh my...I'm so sorry that you had to endure that SA
It's also very unfair that men have never/seldom had to experience such a dreadful thing, just for chatting with a girl outside of their race...:(
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#6
Apr 28, 2022 10:58 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Didi7: It's also very unfair that men have never/seldom had to experience such a dreadful thing, just for chatting with a girl outside of their race...:(
Are you saying you would like more men to suffer under the whip Didi? crying
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#7
Apr 28, 2022 11:04 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Yes, I never found any difference, she made good sandwiches too, and she had all her bits in the right places..
Aren't you lucky...laugh
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#8
Apr 28, 2022 11:05 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Are you saying you would like more men to suffer under the whip Didi?
No, just musing over yet another 'double standard'...:(
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#9
Apr 28, 2022 11:06 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Didi7: Aren't you lucky...
I am blessed to be sure..wink angel2
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#10
Apr 28, 2022 11:07 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Dedovix: extraterrestrial hanky-panky ?
i may have pleasured myself to cosplay blue chick from Avatar
I was actually referring to 'real life' Dedovix....roll eyes
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#11
Apr 28, 2022 11:10 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Didi7: No, just musing over yet another 'double standard'...:(
'Tis a mans world after all..hole giggle
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#12
Apr 28, 2022 11:17 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
hmmm crying
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#13
Apr 28, 2022 11:24 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
Didi7: I was actually referring to 'real life' Dedovix....
Are you discriminating ? self pleasuring as being a unreal experience ...roll eyes
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#14
Apr 28, 2022 11:30 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Dedovix: Are you discriminating ? self pleasuring as being a unreal experience ...
No, an avatar as being a REAL person:)
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#15
Apr 28, 2022 11:38 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
michaelright
michaelrightmichaelrightMid louth, Louth Ireland75 Threads 1 Polls 5,769 Posts
michaelrightMid louth, Louth Ireland5,769 posts
Name_Taken_Two: 'Tis a mans world after all..
nonsense,, everything in the world was made to suit the women ,,even the men,,uh oh
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#16
Apr 28, 2022 11:55 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
michaelright: nonsense,, everything in the world was made to suit the women ,,even the men,,
Surely not urinals..laugh

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#17
Apr 28, 2022 11:57 AM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Surely not urinals..
laugh
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#18
Apr 28, 2022 12:02 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Dedovix
DedovixDedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia12 Threads 1 Polls 5,492 Posts
DedovixBig Place, Central Serbia Serbia5,492 posts
Didi7: No, an avatar as being a REAL person:)
you kinda missed the word ``cosplay`` - a person wearing a costume -from the movie Avatar
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#19
Apr 28, 2022 12:21 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
Dedovix: you kinda missed the word ``cosplay`` - a person wearing a costume -from the movie Avatar
Sorry, yes I did miss that word.bowing
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#20
Apr 28, 2022 12:44 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5,363 posts
Didi7: It's also very unfair that men have never/seldom had to experience such a dreadful thing, just for chatting with a girl outside of their race...:(
The murder of Emmett Till, or the execution of Edward Earl Johnson ring any bells?

Black men have been projected as an animalistic threat to white women as a means of control and subjugation for centuries.
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#21
Apr 28, 2022 12:48 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
jac_the_gripper: The murder of Emmett Till, or the execution of Edward Earl Johnson ring any bells?

Black men have been projected as an animalistic threat to white women as a means of control and subjugation for centuries.
Yes, you are right Jac. I was referring to white boys chatting with black girls in a similar manner to what SecretAgent has described.
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#22
Apr 28, 2022 12:50 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Funnybunnybaby
FunnybunnybabyFunnybunnybabyWeymouth, Dorset, England UK2 Threads 2,628 Posts
FunnybunnybabyWeymouth, Dorset, England UK2,628 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Yes, I never found any difference, she made good sandwiches too, and she had all her bits in the right places..
laugh laugh
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#23
Apr 28, 2022 12:58 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5,363 posts
I forgot to answer your question which is pertinent in the current (and long overdue) climate of social ferment and hopefully, paradigm shift.

Yes, I have dated outside my race, but given my mixed heritage, it's improbable that I'll ever date completely within it. laugh

There have been cultural differences with everyone I've dated, even if we have looked roughly the same. I enjoy that, but I grew up with, and come from a long line of mixed unions. Difference is familiar territory as far as I'm concerned.
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#24
Apr 28, 2022 1:00 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
jac_the_gripper
jac_the_gripperjac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK24 Threads 5,363 Posts
jac_the_gripperTonyrefail, South Glamorgan, Wales UK5,363 posts
Didi7: Yes, you are right Jac. I was referring to white boys chatting with black girls in a similar manner to what SecretAgent has described.
I hear you.
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#25
Apr 28, 2022 1:10 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Didi7
Didi7Didi7Central, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago92 Threads 39 Polls 1,342 Posts
Didi7OPCentral, Chaguanas Trinidad and Tobago1,342 posts
jac_the_gripper: I forgot to answer your question which is pertinent in the current (and long overdue) climate of social ferment and hopefully, paradigm shift.

Yes, I have dated outside my race, but given my mixed heritage, it's improbable that I'll ever date completely within it.

There have been cultural differences with everyone I've dated, even if we have looked roughly the same. I enjoy that, but I grew up with, and come from a long line of mixed unions. Difference is familiar territory as far as I'm concerned.
Nice...you may be one of the fortunate few, I think:-)
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#26
Apr 28, 2022 2:19 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
My Jamaican girlfriend used to ask me when I was giving her pleasure "Hey Irish!" she called me Irish grin "Do I taste sweeter than those while gals?" I remember the accent as I type smitten , I would say "yes dear." but she never did, she was sweet but I think all women are sweet..heart beating grin
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#27
Apr 28, 2022 2:24 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Bid64
Bid64Bid64Waterford, Ireland7 Threads 5,462 Posts
Bid64Waterford, Ireland5,462 posts
Name_Taken_Two: My Jamaican girlfriend used to ask me when I was giving her pleasure "Hey Irish!" she called me Irish "Do I taste sweeter than those while gals?" I remember the accent as I type , I would say "yes dear." but she never did, she was sweet but I think all women are sweet..
laugh laugh laugh it's the way you tell emm laugh
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#28
Apr 28, 2022 2:26 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Bid64: it's the way you tell emm
Oh Bid, are you doubting The Dino? scold banana
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#29
Apr 28, 2022 2:29 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Bid64
Bid64Bid64Waterford, Ireland7 Threads 5,462 Posts
Bid64Waterford, Ireland5,462 posts
Name_Taken_Two: Oh Bid, are you doubting The Dino?
No not for one minute laugh laugh
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#30
Apr 28, 2022 2:31 PM CST Have you ever dated outside of your race? If so, what differences did you encounter (if any)?
Name_Taken_Two
Name_Taken_TwoName_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland75 Threads 2,322 Posts
Name_Taken_TwoBelfast, Antrim Ireland2,322 posts
Bid64: No not for one minute
Nice one, sure I've pics to prove it laugh you know the craic..wink dancing
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