Do women want a player? (44)
ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 PostsWhat they're really into is a reformed man which means they must have a problem with you to begin.
And that makes perfect sense when you know that it's woman's nature to "improve" a man a bit like civilisation in general. Man represents the wild and she's here to domesticate it, he's the Amazon and woman the astroturf and if you become too much like astroturf, too domesticated, she will have lost interest.
Ches, this analysis was one of the better ones I've seen so far.
With other words, it's just a fantasy in her head.
Hence most mature women not only is aware of this
but has moved on to the next level.
With other words, it's just a fantasy in her head.
Hence most mature women not only is aware of this
but has moved on to the next level.
another great thread...thanks to the participation of many
Women that want a player should just buy a toy cause they not a true woman
Ten_of_cupss: Sooo, you disagree with what I said but you had several of them?!
Can you see the contradiction?
You were obviously attracted to this type somehow never mind if you got the same resultahain and again.
I'm glad you don't want a player anymore but do you know how not to fall for one again?
What has changed in you?
What happened was the poor girl was heartbroken. You see this guy pulled the wool over her eyes and bamboozled her. By the time she realized she had been hornswaggled it was too late , she had already been put through the mill.Can you see the contradiction?
You were obviously attracted to this type somehow never mind if you got the same resultahain and again.
I'm glad you don't want a player anymore but do you know how not to fall for one again?
What has changed in you?
Obviously many do not but alot of women do I have noticed. It's hard to say, but most of them do in my opinion. Sorry.
Ray650: What happened was the poor girl was heartbroken. You see this guy pulled the wool over her eyes and bamboozled her. By the time she realized she had been hornswaggled it was too late , she had already been put through the mill.
Ah, a spokeman..What happened is that she fell for a player and had her heart broken Several times.
Does that ring a bell to you?
She was attracted to the same type of guy.
Even if she knew it's s bad for her.
LeeCharming: another great thread...thanks to the participation of many
Ches is mixing it with the theory of the bad boy.Which could be true in some cases. Meaning she wants to be the one that changed him for good.
But not every player is a bad boy, on a contrary, he's the opposite.
He gives her attention and shows interest and she takes it as she's special to him.
He approaches and does the job.
Way too many women will not pay attention to a guy who isn't chasing her unless he's the bad boy.
She will feel unappritiated even she isn't giving him any signal she's available.
Women want to be approached and worked hard for even if she knows she might reject him right away.
But yes, with the player the difference is that he's attractive to the other women too and it makes it all more "special" for her to have him.
Anyway, it's a psychology that has many nuances to the matter, hard to explain at once.
Mackenzie123: Obviously many do not but alot of women do I have noticed. It's hard to say, but most of them do in my opinion. Sorry.
How so ? Maybe out of your experiences you are your own problem. Sorry lol 
She was a innocent and clueless young woman. Possibly a virgin who was wooed by this cad who had only one intention. To bed her and that he did. Then he moved on to her friends, family, neighbors. Really a sad tale. Then he told a friend one night in a pub and what happened? His friend tracked her down and she didn’t even see it coming . Do I even need to go on with the details 
Ray650: She was a innocent and clueless young woman. Possibly a virgin who was wooed by this cad who had only one intention. To bed her and that he did. Then he moved on to her friends, family, neighbors. Really a sad tale. Then he told a friend one night in a pub and what happened? His friend tracked her down and she didn’t even see it coming . Do I even need to go on with the details
Oh, dear, something tells me she might not be very happy you telling her personal life in public forum.Do you need say more, Ray of sunshine?!
Ten_of_cupss: Yes, they do, even if they don't see it this way.
The most bold, talkative, attracting attention The first three traits would send me running. The last three acceptable traits to me, friendly and charming men, that are not afraid to approach any woman are the winners.
These same men are only 5 % of the male population and women wonder why they always trip over one of them.
Simple, because they are the ones always trying their luck. And women find it attractive.
The most bold, talkative, attracting attention The first three traits would send me running. The last three acceptable traits to me, friendly and charming men, that are not afraid to approach any woman are the winners.
These same men are only 5 % of the male population and women wonder why they always trip over one of them.
Simple, because they are the ones always trying their luck. And women find it attractive.
I don't think all women feel that way 
I agree it seems a good lot of them do. Also goes with men wanting bad girls. Sadly when you put the two together it can be quite a show. 
When I look back at my past and still now I always found good, responsible strong men attractive. And it seems to have worked for me. I have little time for people with heavy emotional baggage in my personal life. And most players seem to have some baggage with them. They also remind of me of leeches. Always wanting something. If not trying to drain finanacially then they are trying to drain you emotionally. I have been a bussiness woman most my life and sometimes have difficulty seperating personal and bussiness. Which means when I look at relationships I look at them as an investment. Am I willing to invest my time in this humanbeing and what do I expect back? A player is not good investment. A good solid man who is emtionally sound would be best. for me and fit into my life. I also will add that I am single and have been that way a very long time. Which also works for me. So if you don't like yourself you might want to just grab what ever is willing and breathing. If my memory is correct have you not mentioned before you are a business woman? It might of been someone else. But if you, may I ask how is your patience with players? 
Happygolucky4u: I don't think all women feel that way I agree it seems a good lot of them do. Also goes with men wanting bad girls. Sadly when you put the two together it can be quite a show. When I look back at my past and still now I always found good, responsible strong men attractive. And it seems to have worked for me. I have little time for people with heavy emotional baggage in my personal life. And most players seem to have some baggage with them. They also remind of me of leeches. Always wanting something. If not trying to drain finanacially then they are trying to drain you emotionally. I have been a bussiness woman most my life and sometimes have difficulty seperating personal and bussiness. Which means when I look at relationships I look at them as an investment. Am I willing to invest my time in this humanbeing and what do I expect back? A player is not good investment. A good solid man who is emtionally sound would be best. for me and fit into my life. I also will add that I am single and have been that way a very long time. Which also works for me. So if you don't like yourself you might want to just grab what ever is willing and breathing. If my memory is correct have you not mentioned before you are a business woman? It might of been someone else. But if you, may I ask how is your patience with players?
I believe every woman sees the player in a different way...But some times the one they call a player is just a douchebag...
I don't think that player's type is gravitating around successful women, it's the conman's job.
The player plays and gets bored... He scores and goes to the next...
I have never been approached by a player, may be I am too scary for them...
I've only dealt with narcissist...
Every behaviour has its psychological reason and explanation ...
The women attracting such men are often trying too hard to look like something that they are not.
You can easily tell from the script and photos on a dating site who will fall for a jerk or a douchebag...again...
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