You don't want to, gotta be some healthy distance creating room for play. Makes us perfectly close, not too close so fantasy can have a chance. Don't fart in the sofa! (now that we know each other so well..)
Now on the other hand, what do they want and need?
Much of what we want and need. And then some cherry on top. What that might contain of is up to you to figure out.
Women throw hints to men what they want but men don't pick up on it.
Men want a woman to say.....I want --------------------------. They don't want her to say.....I kinda like such and such and hope that he takes it as a hint that she wants it. They hear her saying she likes something, they didn't hear her say ..... would you please buy that for me. Men are definitive.
Men don't read into hints because they don't throw hints at her what they want. If a man wants something during intimacy he will just say it. Most women are too shy and embarrassed to say what they want him to do.
If I could I would keep quiet about it. All my experience with women tells me that they like to make me feel uncertain just to see how I handle it. They like men who apparently don't know things. Players know the truth they don't speak the truth. What did Captain Jack Sparrow say? A gentlemen allows a woman to maintain her fiction. To do what a player does is popular, to say what a player does very much not popular. Players don't call women out on being women, not openly and certainly not anywhere that counts.
A window into her brain would ruin it in the same way the breaking into her emails would ruin it. It would have be a secret that you've been reading her mind and breaking into her emails.
And the reason for being kept in the dark is because this is the only way you can go out on a limb. If she was a dead cert, she'd feel devalued therefore a man must face the prospect of, or at least what appears to be the prospect of, rejection.
And besides it would be disheartening to find what goes on under the innocent exterior. The niceness doesn't come from a nice place it's all peer pressure. I might lose social standing or I could be hurt if I was to be honest, you'll discover the basis of woman's indifference to truth.
Nice guys finish last is actually false, the truth is that nice guys finish last when they're nice for the same reason women are. Cowardice is the issue not being kind per se
You don't finish last with women because you've helped a homeless person when there was nobody around to see it, but you might finish last if you were to do so only when the world was watching. You know what the difference is
I realise that I might be making women sound nefarious when they're more like suspicious. They're too suspicious to be genuinely kind which doesn't mean they're always suspicious or always trying to unsettle a man, it's a defensiveness they have by default because they are rather small. It's just a case of breaking into their circle of trust, then they couldn't do enough to help you. Women have the manners of the fake middle classes where you wouldn't trust what they're saying to be what they really think, but they have the us and them of the working class.
ChesneyChrist: You don't finish last with women because you've helped a homeless person when there was nobody around to see it, but you might finish last if you were to do so only when the world was watching. You know what the difference is
Anyway a man would be apt to complement the woman's nature by inverting it. What do men take from the bourgeoisie? The money and the power, the freedom to do things and the confidence. What don't they take from the bourgeoisie? Hypochondria and the should I sit here or should I sit here I'm a little mouse, don't do political correctness call it spastic gay talk like the working class do. You ditch the overrefinement of the bourgeoisie, but keep the money.
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